Tried to conceive

piahulk 5 Posts Wednesday December 20, 2017Registration date January 10, 2018 Last seen - Dec 20, 2017 at 10:37 PM - Latest reply: zandray 2 Posts Friday January 12, 2018Registration date January 12, 2018 Last seen
- Jan 12, 2018 at 05:08 AM
Hello,
since I have been in my early twenties i have experienced fluctuations in weight. after i got married, my husband and i tried to conceive, but it took us a long time, and we even started to feel so dejected about our situation. eventually i did conceive, however, i had a miscarriage. it was the toughest moment of my life. i felt like i would never feel happy again ,adn i felt that i had let everyone down. i had let my family, my inlaws and my husband down. i felt totally sick with myself. over the past few months, I have been trying to put myself back together again and i have tried to be strong for the sake of my husband. we have started to look at alternative ways of having a baby, and we have been researching surrogacy too. i was very curious to know about this since it seems like a good option to me, and i have seen a lot of people say that it has been like a godsend to them. before jumping into it, however, i have been going to forums such as this and trying to figure out what the best way of going about this would be. i want to have the opinion of as many people who have gone through this so that my husband and i can make a good decision for ourselves.
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prerona25 4 Posts Thursday November 2, 2017Registration date December 21, 2017 Last seen - Updated by prerona25 on 21/12/17 at 01:37 PM
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Hello! First of all this a good thing that you both want to go for a child even after so many difficulties. If there is a will there is a way. Your idea of surrogacy is good and welcoming. But before taking any decision please consult a specialist and research on it thoroughly. There are a lot of couples who are having babies through surrogacy. All the best and you will surely be a good and happy mother.
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EminaD 7 Posts Tuesday October 24, 2017Registration date January 11, 2018 Last seen - Dec 21, 2017 at 04:29 PM
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Hi! I can see that you are a strong woman. I am glad that you will not give up. Surrogacy may be a good solution for you. Have you found a good clinic for this treatment. I don't know about surrogacy, I went in Ukraine for ivf. I have very good experience. Hope you will solve your problem too. I wish you all the best in life.
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NorahJ 6 Posts Tuesday October 24, 2017Registration date January 8, 2018 Last seen - Jan 8, 2018 at 03:49 PM
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It's great that you didn't lose your hope after all you troubles. I am very sorry that you have all this problems. I know how you feel but you mustn't blame yourself for this condition. Please, calm down and try to keep only good thoughts. Think hard about your next step. See with your husband and your doctor what would be the best alternative for you. Don't rush into this decision. I don't know much about surrogacy but I heard some good experiences. Hope you will have success.
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jialake 6 Posts Tuesday January 9, 2018Registration date January 12, 2018 Last seen - Jan 9, 2018 at 11:38 PM
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hi there, how are you. I am really sorry for your miscarriage. What could we do. It's all written up there. We just can't do anything. please make sure that weight has much to do in these things. Having over weight could be one reason. You should take proper balance diet and maintain your weight. I think If you maintain your weight and try to take care allot of yourself and consult some good doctor. you'll be fine.
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zandray 2 Posts Friday January 12, 2018Registration date January 12, 2018 Last seen - Jan 12, 2018 at 05:08 AM
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Hi there! Sorry to hear about your condition. You sound like a courageous lady. How old are you btw? I mean isn’t there like an age limit to go for surrogacy? I’m sorry I am unsure and wanted to confirm. Further, surrogacy is very expensive of a procedure I’ve heard. How can you be sure that you are not risking your money? I mean what’s the success rate with surrogacy? If anyone can answer the poster lady’s and my questions, I’ll be asking my husband to go for this one too. I’m sorry I didn’t introduce myself. I’m Jade. Like our lady here, I’m also infertile and unable to conceive. Confused between adoption and this surrogacy thingy. Many suggest surrogacy from my friends’ circle. But still I just want to make sure that we are betting on a good horse. I mean we are no rich and spending so much money on a single procedure is very important decision for us. Thanks for your comments in advance.
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