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alessia1234 2 Posts Monday January 29, 2018Registration date January 30, 2018 Last seen - Jan 30, 2018 at 08:14 AM - Latest reply: FloraBiber 17 Posts Monday February 5, 2018Registration date February 22, 2018 Last seen
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Hey everyone! I hope you all are doing well. My name is Alessia. I recently got married at the age of 30. Finding a partner who truly cared about me and understood my illness was something I thought next to impossible. However, I was lucky I would say. I know that he is happy with how things are for now but deep inside I know that both of us would want to be parents soon. I am an anorexic patient and I haven't had my AF for a very long time. Due to these disturbances, the ability of me being pregnant is very low or maybe not at all possible. However, I do not want my husband to suffer as he is perfectly fine and deserves to have a child. Can someone who has been through this help me. I would extremely thankful. This is very painful for me.
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pheobe412 41 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date February 22, 2018 Last seen - Jan 30, 2018 at 08:55 PM
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Well what can we say. This condition is really devastating for you. Your husband never said anything to you right. It truly shows how much he cared for you. How much he loves you. how much he is involved with you. I think this is the best thing. The decision would be what you guys decide on your own. don't be worry about anything. Talk to your husband. Ask him what to do. I know he is going to understand this. Best of luck dear. Don't worry.
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jenifercox06 4 Posts Tuesday January 30, 2018Registration date January 30, 2018 Last seen - Jan 30, 2018 at 09:36 PM
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This is not your fault my friend. This is not anyone's fault. This is all just natural. Nothing we could do it about this. May you get well soon. I think you must talk to him. He'll understand as he seems really loving person to me. He is not going to leave you alone. This is all just a matter of time dear. Don't be worry about anything. May you get well soon dear.
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Laverneash 4 Posts Thursday February 8, 2018Registration date February 8, 2018 Last seen - Feb 8, 2018 at 08:28 PM
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Hey Alessia! I am so sorry for everything. You are going through a lot, but it's not your fault hon! Don't ever blame yourself for that. I am sure your husband understands it too. It's not easy to go through this alone. There are some ways which can help you become a mother, IVF, IUI or surrogacy. IVF is a very successful technique, it's a treatment where the egg is fertilized manually by sperm in a test tube. The whole process is outside your body, so your disease won't affect it. But If your age is more than 35 then IVF is not a good option for you. Then the only option you have is Surrogacy. Surrogacy is a process where some other woman carries the baby for you, the sperm of your husband is used to fertilize her egg. Just choose whatever suits you the best. Good Luck! Much Love!
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pheobe412 41 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date February 22, 2018 Last seen - Feb 9, 2018 at 12:31 AM
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Hey there. I am so sorry for your condition. Well what can I say this is life. don't worry everything will be fine. Best of luck my friend. Just try some other methods that are available alright. Be good.
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Sharonstone123 12 Posts Tuesday February 20, 2018Registration date February 20, 2018 Last seen - Feb 20, 2018 at 01:11 AM
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Heyya. I hope that you're doing good. I'm really sorry for your whole situation. You're really very strong that you're going through this thing. Being an anorexia patient is not a normal thing to bear. A person has to face many things. One of the most difficult things is finding the perfect one for yourself. Because people usually see anorexia patients as mentally ill ones. So it's really a hard thing to cope with. Secondly yes, your husband deserves to be happy. He has done nothing. Plus family is really an important thing. Everyone deserves to have one. It's the ultimate go for every couple. It's, in fact, a blessing. So one must do every possible thing to have it. Being an anorexic can cause several problems in pregnancy. But It's not impossible. Yet it is not like a normal pregnancy. I can cause serious effects in children too. Try for it for some time. If nothing happens then go for surrogacy. It will definitely help you. Clinics in Ukraine are providing good packages for it. I hope that this helps you. Take care of yourself. Much love.
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FloraBiber 17 Posts Monday February 5, 2018Registration date February 22, 2018 Last seen - Feb 22, 2018 at 02:04 PM
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Hey Alessia! I'm fine thanks for asking. How are you? So you have anorexia and that is causing disturbances? Have you considered seeing a doctor for this? With modern advances, we get to witness every day I'm sure there must be a solution. Try to fight with this condition. You must be having all sorts of nutritional deficiency. This could be the reason for no AF. It does not necessarily mean you are infertile. Maybe you can still have a baby very naturally. You love your husband, right? Then see a doc and get better. I hope you do that soon. I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong. Stay positive.
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