Afraid of penetration.

podcats_06 - Apr 14, 2011 at 04:27 AM - Latest reply: kokihenry 83 Posts Friday August 18, 2017Registration date September 20, 2017 Last seen
- Sep 20, 2017 at 04:53 AM
Hello,
For more than 1 month, I have been to scared to allow my partner to penetrate me. He is now fed up with the situation. Am very afraid. Can you please advise me what to do to overcome my fear?Thank you in advance.
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Hi,
Have you encountered a traumatic experience as a child? Do you need expert help from a psychologist? I would speak to you GP in case you need specialist help.
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Flipflop55 4 Posts Saturday August 29, 2015Registration date August 29, 2015 Last seen - Aug 29, 2015 at 04:45 PM
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Turn table on him and ask if he is ready to take a dildo in his
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Flipflop55 4 Posts Saturday August 29, 2015Registration date August 29, 2015 Last seen - Aug 29, 2015 at 05:01 PM
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Ask if the two of u maybe start with something smaller than his cock.
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kokihenry 83 Posts Friday August 18, 2017Registration date September 20, 2017 Last seen - Sep 20, 2017 at 04:53 AM
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That is very normal. It has been said that the first penetration is always painful which i not completely true. With a good foreplay, you can pass that pain part. But then it will be important to know if there are underlying circumstances that with lead to that. Could it be that you have had a traumatizing experience before? Are you probably afraid of the outcome? Whatever it is the solution starts with you. Otherwise, the consequences will not be easy to handle.
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