I'm stressed

dolly03 - Apr 18, 2011 at 04:58 AM - Latest reply:  milanark
- Oct 17, 2018 at 02:12 AM
Hello,
For 2 years, I have been trying to have a baby with my partner. We saw an infertility specialist who did a series of tests and the results showed that there has been a fall in male fertility. As recommended by the specialist I have followed the Puregon and the Orgalutran treatment for several days. Then upon medical recommendation they implanted 2 embryos. We have waited a long time! I'm unable to sleep , I'm so stressed! I will soon do a blood test and I am so scared of losing both my embryos. Please tell me what you would have done in my place. Thanks in advance.
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Hello,
I hope that everything will be alright. Stop worrying and be positive.
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friendly_mum101 16 Posts Saturday August 18, 2018Registration date August 26, 2018 Last seen - Aug 26, 2018 at 03:01 PM
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Hey Dolly, how are you dear? I hope you are doing well. Please do not stress yourself out. Everything will go perfectly. It's natural for you to be so apprehensive about what to do and what to not do. But you need to relax yourself. Stay healthy. Keep yourself in a positive state of mind. Everything will fall into place. I have you in my prayers, dear. Stay blessed.
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Llywatson 13 Posts Wednesday August 8, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Aug 26, 2018 at 06:04 PM
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Well it depends on the quality of embryo and receptiveness of the uterus. And embryo failure is caused by chromosomal abnormalities which is mostly found in aged women. And you are so young yet. don't feel stressed. This is a sensitive matter. Stress can make things worse. Let me tell you few precautions. You need to sleep enough in order to avoid stress and overthinking. because stress is associated with your pregnancy somehow. It can be worse in normal pregnancies as well. Divert your mind and involve it into things that could make your mood fresh. And whenever you feel stressed and worried, go for a walk. Walk really does help to release out stress. And take proper care of your diet as well. you need to take a balanced diet. And please try not to corner yourself in this phase You need emotional support so spend time with your loved ones as much as you can. It will make you happy and satisfied. And you will easily be able to avoid anxiety as well.
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Hannahdrake 63 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 03:11 AM
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Stress will make it worse only. This is what everyone else will tell you as well. You can even confirm with the doctor too. So stop stressing. If this is written in your fate then the blood test will be fine. Otherwise, you cannot do much in this regard. I know it is easy to say so. Still, I would say that I know the pain. I know how it feels to think about failing in something. Something you desperately want. I will pray for you. I really hope it gets easier for you. I am currently seeing a fertility clinic too. I cannot carry the baby because of the chance of a high-risk pregnancy. I will have to stay happy with surrogacy only.
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sidneywhite 77 Posts Thursday May 10, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 04:04 AM
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Hello dolly, hope you are doing okay. don't stress yourself. Stress will make it worse. If you want to get pregnant, stay stress free and sleep well. These factors also effect the success of pregnancy. You have to keep faith in yourself and the God. One can't fight against the fate. Sooner or later you will realize this soon. So stop stressing yourself and start believing. I hope everything will be okay soon. Take care
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cecemiller 18 Posts Monday August 6, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 08:39 AM
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I hope you don't stress out yourself. My doctor was telling me the same when I used to cry in front of her. I know it was embarrassing for me. I was hopeless. My mother in law used to call me hopeless. I am currently visiting a clinic. I will do anything that gives me happiness. I can not wait to hold my baby. I will name Ariana if it is a girl, and nick if a boy. I know I have a long journey ahead. Please pray for me. I am doing everything accordingly. I just want everything to go fine. The doctors are helping. They are doing their job perfectly.
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Avaa81 34 Posts Monday June 25, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 08:53 AM
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Hello, there! I just want to wish you the best of luck. Honey, don't lose hope. I'm sure things will work out! Stressing out is never going to help. Clear your mind. And, consult your doctor. You can do this!
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claudiopeters 88 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 09:49 AM
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Hey! All I know is, stressing out never helps. I can't think of a single scenario where it is useful. You need to stop! Consult a doctor. Things will be fine, trust me! There's a solution for everything. We are in 2018. There is no such thing as permanent infertility. So, chill out.
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Alessia.Violet 137 Posts Sunday January 21, 2018Registration date October 13, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 09:55 AM
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Hey, I hope you are well. I am sure this must be a really stressful situation for you. However, my honest advice would be to stay calm. This will make things so much better. When the embryo was inserted into our surrogate's uterus it was ensured that she was calm and stress-free. The clinic has since then taken extreme care of her. They call her for regular checkups. Also, her diet is taken extreme care of as well. So I would suggest that you make sure that you are eating healthily. Good luck to you. Stay positve and strong. Doing yoga will also help. This helps in releasing stress. Sending baby dust your way. Do keep us updated.
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LindaJoy 13 Posts Saturday August 11, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 01:36 PM
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Hi there. Male infertility is really rarely heard of. However its a reality and very common. People usually overlook it and blame the partner. It's really great that you guys are working to fight it. I would suggest you do as the specialist suggest. Just be strong and positive thing will work. Lots o love and prayers.
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AnnaKendrick 21 Posts Saturday August 4, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 02:16 PM
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Hi there. Male infertility is a thing. I disagree with some of the women here. But It's really nobodies fault. It's not a bad thing. Some people are unfortunate. But for the embryos. I hope they make it. Just stay calm and relaxed. Be positive and have patience. Everything will be alright. Nothing can be said about the situation. But negative vibes won't help. Keep your doctor and DH in the loop, always. Take care of yourself. Much love.
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naina14 22 Posts Tuesday August 7, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 03:55 PM
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Stress will not reduce your pain. It will increase. So don't take the stress. You have to find a solution to it. There are many solutions to these types of issues nowadays. So you need to visit your doctor for that. He will guide you the best. If your doctor is not giving you a good response. Then change your doctor. Don't waste your time. We can support through words only or guide you. The main decision is yours. So take it wisely. As it will affect your life. Best of luck to you
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Lindajon 2 Posts Monday August 27, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Aug 27, 2018 at 04:55 PM
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Hey dolly, I hope you are doing well. I know This is so stressful for you. But just keep it in your mind that stress can make your situation even worse. Please try to keep yourself calm and happy. Take good care of your health and have a good 8-9 hours sleep. Because stressing out is never gonna help you. You need to be relax. Try to keep your state of mind positive. Mostly, doctors recommend it too to stay positive and stress-free. Try to eat healthy food. And divert your mind in other things that make you feel good and happy. I'm sure it will help you a lot. I hope and pray that everything will fall into place. Lots of love to you. Stay blessed and stress-free.
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anayahill 117 Posts Monday March 19, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen - Aug 28, 2018 at 02:26 AM
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I am really sorry for you. I know it is very painful to face infertility. It is hard to choose other ways than pregnancy. I also faced infertility for so long. Then I decided to look for other options. Surrogacy was suggested by one of my friends. It was the only option remained left for me so I went for it. I went to a suggested clinic that was reliable. The clinic is in Ukraine. It is convenient for me to go there because it is not allowed in our country. It is well known for surrogacy so I made my mind. Now I am soon to be opting for surrogacy. I hope you get what you want.
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aliayan 67 Posts Thursday June 21, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen - Aug 28, 2018 at 02:45 AM
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I am sorry to hear about your infertility. I know you're going through a hard time. I know it's not easy to go through it...But, it will pass soon. I know it's not easy to fight infertility. I also applaud you are thinking about IVF. But success rate depends on your condition only. You can go for surrogacy but surrogacy is an expensive process. But, I think it's worth saving for. Try clinics in Ukraine, it's pretty affordable there. I know it's hard but It will really help you complete your family dear.
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grannada 14 Posts Sunday July 15, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen - Aug 28, 2018 at 02:58 AM
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I think you are right to keep searching for a better clinic. There are definitely those that exist. I know of a great clinic in Ukraine. Ukraine itself actually. I'm sure you'll do much better with it. They're very caring about the patient's concerns. They're also very well known. This helps in releasing stress. Good luck!
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sindra09 10 Posts Friday August 17, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen - Aug 28, 2018 at 02:34 PM
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Hey Dolly! My day was depressed after reading your post. The best thing is that you tried. Infertility is like a nightmare and it can destroy the life of a person. Then only one solution is left which is patience. We have to stay strong because It can affect us mentally. My dear please be relaxed and take your time. Trust me.
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jessicasharman31 2 Posts Tuesday August 28, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen - Aug 28, 2018 at 02:35 PM
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Hello Dolly! How are you doing dear? I just came across to your post. I feel sorry for your problem. Its one of the worst part of a woman's life. I can understand your emotions because unfortunately, I have been through the same. But don't take the stress. That's not the solution. You have to be strong and calm. Stay positive. Try to relax and be happy! This is a tough time but it will soon pass. And happiness is not far from you. stay safe! Best of Luck!
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amberjones36 2 Posts Tuesday August 28, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen - Aug 28, 2018 at 03:29 PM
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Hello! I hope you are doing good. Don't worry dear it happens sometimes but you are not the only one. Take a deep breathe and think about it, Just wait for the right time. If your doctor told what the problem is then you should wait for sometime. If still, things will not go well then you should make another decision for you. I would like to suggest you go for alternatives if you have to choose any better safe option for you. Unfortunately, I am infertile. My doctor suggested me to go for surrogacy. It is the best. Please make sure about the reputation of the clinic before choosing anyone. I have heard about many fake too. I and my husband are planning for surrogacy as soon as possible and for that, we have searched on many and hoping to get the best result from one soon. Good luck dear. My good wishes are with you.
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lidya2 26 Posts Monday July 2, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Aug 29, 2018 at 04:44 PM
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Hi, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.I'm in tears to read about your condition. It takes a lot of courage to cope all this. Hope you doing good. Stay strong girl. We're with you.I'm sure you'll get through this. I think you should go for IVF. In some clinics, IVF is very reliable. Surrogacy can also work for you. I know few friends of mine who had their babies through surrogacy. It turned out to be amazing for them. Talk to your doctor. Whatever process suits you better go for that one. But it's necessary you visit some authenticated clinic for both of the processes. My prayers are with you.
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