Feeling shy !

 000anonymous -

Since 9 months, I've been hanging around with a guy who i find very nice, caring and lovely. I had my very first sexual intercourse with him in person but i found it very painful. I thought that the pains came from the virginity breakdown but the second time we did it, THE organ was aching even more. Tell me what to do? Sex with time is becoming like taboo for me and i really don't want to lose him for the moment.

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Let me assure you, never take sex to be taboo. It is always like this at the beginning but once you get yourself used to frequent sex, that fear in you would get automatically eradicated . Maybe that you should tell your boyfriend not to penetrate you directly, some tender preliminaries would be smarter.