WOndering why

Moniq - Jun 3, 2011 at 01:58 PM - Latest reply: kokihenry 83 Posts Friday August 18, 2017Registration date September 20, 2017 Last seen
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Hello,

We are together since one and a half year and he says that we are made for each other. However, I have great desire for him, that is, I will want to have sex with him more than often. He says that it's too much. Sometimes, he will even reject me when I try to touch him.
I have been trying to retain myself but I just can't, I will always be in need of sex somehow. Please tell me what I must do.
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marco armani 25 Posts Friday September 21, 2012Registration date October 21, 2012 Last seen - Sep 22, 2012 at 12:46 PM
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Dear Moniq .. i have the same story and maybe more sexual desire than you have .. i won't advice you to get another boyfriend but i see that you deserve much better in this art , otherwise if you love him , do it with him as he can and when he rejects you you can masturbate alone or use toys . big like for you .
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sofibrun 1 Posts Friday July 7, 2017Registration date July 7, 2017 Last seen - Jul 7, 2017 at 04:31 PM
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Talk to him. Ask him questions. Has he ever been sexually abused? What about his family? How is it going there? There is always a reason why. Do not blame yourself. And do not get pissed at him. On the opposite, try to talk and solve the issue together. No matter what always stay together!If it is not in his head, then make an appointment at doctor’s. I know how hard it might be. It is such a delicate issue, but in order to have a sexually happy life you need to work hard. It seems easy, but not always as it seems to be. But you are young and free and open-minded, so try to open yourself to each other as much as possible. Good luck!
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giandrea 3 Posts Friday July 21, 2017Registration date July 21, 2017 Last seen - Jul 21, 2017 at 02:27 AM
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You rarely get those guys that will keep there hands off for a while so in my personal opinion sometimes that's good because it shows that either he really likes you or really doesn't one of the two, you have to come to that conclusion based of his emotions. If you have a desire for sex which is normal for some girls I would suggest maybe masturbating. Also have a talk with him, see why he doesn't want to, communicate it's the only way you will find out what's up, we can give you advice but no one person can tell you truly what you need to do even a professional its trial and error. Maybe you need more sexual connection with yourself to calm down those hormones. Thank you for reading. Hope things get better.
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kokihenry 83 Posts Friday August 18, 2017Registration date September 20, 2017 Last seen - Aug 18, 2017 at 04:52 PM
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Your libido levels are quite different. It will be good if you learn from your every moments his likes and dislikes and also make him understand what you need
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