Cases of infertility

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I have a friend who is experiencing difficulties in getting a child. However, she is afraid to visit the doctor and learn that she is infertile. Since I want to help her, are there any signs that can be used to identify if someone is infertile?

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Tell her to overcome her fear. Everything is going to be alright for her. It's not like every time she has to think bad about this. Don't worry, she'll feel really great about it. What is everything is right? It could be a simple problem. It could just go away without any trouble. Don't think bad about it. Just motivate her to go for a check up.
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Hi Hilary! Hope you are in good health. Not being able to conceive is one sign of infertility. I recommend that you ask your friend to be diagnosed as soon as possible. Delaying such, diagnosis can lead to devastating results. Some infertilities can be cured by taking medication on time but delaying them can lead to permanent infertility. I am sure your friend would be hesitating to get checks. Just tell her that there are still ways that can help her in her pregnancy if she is diagnosed with infertility. There are option like IVF/IUI/Surrogacy that can help you in this regard. This will give her hope and will inspire her to get herself checked.
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Hi. Hope you are well. I’m sorry to hear about your friend’s troubles. She must be feeling terrible right now. TTC gets so frustrating. And it’s common to feel scared in getting a fertility test done. The biggest sign would be not being able to get pregnant for a long time obviously. It’s importan that she find out what the cause is. It could be her husband too. I know of a great fertility clinic that she could go to. She can have a baby of her own inspite of her infertility. There’s nothing to worry about. I wish a very good luck. Hoping for the best for her.
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Well, if she is trying for so long. If she has some kind of serious disease. These are the things that could be the way to know that there is a problem. If she had an accident somewhere in her life. There is nothing like that then it's not a problem at all. Everything is going to be alright. Until she visits the doctor and takes those fertility tests. We can't say anything to her. Tell her it'll be okay. Just take tests.
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Hey there! How are you? I hope you are doing fine. You are doing a great job. People don't care for friends that much these days. Keep it up. We need people like you. Spreading love is so easy if you make up your mind to do it. Life is easier with friends like you around. I admire your friendship. Now for your question. How long has she been trying? And why is she reluctant to go to the doctor. Infertility has a very simple definition. If a couple have been trying for a year with no success, they are infertile. She should not be afraid to see a doc. Even if there is something wrong, there are tons of solutions. Knowing is the first step though.
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Hi Hilary! Hope you are doing great. Untimely periods, painful periods, unbalance hormones, pain during sexual intercourse, irregular flow of blood etc. are all causes of infertility but you friend can never know for sure until she visits the hospital. Infertility is not always permanent and in most cases it is removed through proper medication and minor surgery but delaying it could cause it to grow. I recommend she gets herself tested right away
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Hello there. How are you? I hope you are well. You have to help her. You should talk to her and should convince her to visit any health expert to know about this problem. There can be many reasons behind infertility and only health expert can provide a good solution for it. It is not certain that she is facing infertility problem over her husband is facing this problem. Male infertility can also be there so I will recommend that both of them should visit any health expert. I hope it goes well for you. Take care.
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Hey there. How are you? I hope you are fine. I am sorry to know about your friend. She is going through so difficult time. You need to encourage her to visit a clinic. It will be quite helpful for her. You may first introduce her to forums like this. Where she will be able to know what is going on in the world. Here people discuss their experiences and problems. Once she will know them, it will be easy for her to visit a doctor. She will have the courage to know the reality. She will feel strong enough to know what is happening with her. I wish her love and luck. More power to her.
I am really sorry about your friends. I will advise her by considering myself in her place. That’s the beauty of this forum. We live like a family. Everybody is concerned about other. the first sign is an irregularity in her periods. Try to make periods regular. After this, next symptoms will pop up.
Hilary178 that’s so sad. I always feel pity and grief for such woman. I know this is not their faults. But society blames them. use harsh words with them. they can’t think that this is a disease. They should cure it. instead of doing this they began to criticize. Advise her not to lose stamina. Technology has made much progress. This is the era of Science. Scientist is trying their best to facilitate infertile woman with that happiness which they can’t get. Surrogacy is the one option. She can also adopt a child. opportunities are there. Just have to fight to get them.
Hope you are fine. You should tell your friend that don’t be confused. Build up confidence. It’s a symptom of infertility. Try to tell her evaluations. Try to push her to go for a complete checkup. She should be brave and bold.
hello Hilary178!! I respect your friend’s thoughts. But believe me, this is not the right way. You are not visiting your doctor just because of your fear. In this way, things may get worst. The first symptom is about the irregular periods that are full of pain. Pain during your sex. Changes in sexual desires is also a symptom of infertility.
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Infertility is the inability of conceiving and getting pregnant. Mostly the women are believed to be the infertile ones. This is just a missperception. The men are likely to face the same circumstances. The signs and symptoms are different in both genders but the chances are equal. In women the most common sign is the irregularity of periods. The periods are either too heavy or they accompany with the abnormal conditions. Periods with heavy pain can also lead to infertility in future if they are not catered properly. The no period thing is also something that cannot be ignored. The hormonal disturbsnce can also lead to the infertility. These hormonal imbalances appear in the shape of skin changes, unnecessary hair growth, weight gain and much more. The women heading towards the infertility also encounter pain during intercourse. In males the infertility can be because of low sperm count. Testicle related problems are also sign of the infertility. Issues of ejacualtion also aggravate leading to infertility.
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Hey Dear friend, I hope you are doing well and it is a good thing that you are sharing the problem of your friend with us. I hope you will find good advice and solution for this problem of your friend. I can understand that infertility is very hard to the time of anyone’s life and anyone can face the situation in life. Infertility is a very common problem these days and it is very important to stay strong to fight this problem. I know that your friend is not able to face this problem in a perfect way and it is not right. You have to help her. You should talk to her and should convince her to visit any health expert to know about this problem. There can be many reasons behind infertility and only health expert can provide a good solution for it. It is not certain that she is facing infertility problem over her husband is facing this problem. Male infertility can also be there so I will recommend that both of them should visit any health expert
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hey there! I hope you are doing great. infertility is a huge problem for young couples especially. a lot of women are struggling with this. we stress a lot over things and our diet is not good enough. it has a lot to do with your overall health. there are other ways to have a baby. my sister went for surrogacy twice. and it was really helpful for her. surrogacy is a blessing of science. and more people should go for it. it is a beautiful choice. I hope everything goes well for you. and you get to enjoy the feeling of becoming a mother.
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If she is afraid then pray that there is no problem with her. Just try to talk to her. Everything will be fine for her. Stay by her side. Take good care of her. She'll understand it.
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Hi hilary178, this is christina980. Hope you are fine. Infertility is something to be taken care off. not worried. I also had a friend and she was afraid of what will happen if she is infertile. She was also afraid to visit a doctor. Actually, she didn't want to know that she is infertile. Then we made her to visit a doctor. Results showed that she can't carry a child in her womb. then she and her husband decided to visit a clinic in Ukraine for surrogacy. They tried it there and now shea is a mother of a child. So, nothing to fear. fertility is something which can be overcome not a to worry about. So give her hope and take her to a doc so that this issue can be resolved. I hope everything goes well. Have Luck.
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Hi there, I don't think there are any signs from which you can identify whether someone is infertile. I suggest you to talk to your friend into seeing a fertility specialist. Her being scared is completely normal and I can understand that. Nobody would like to discover their infertility and it is a very saddening fact to realize for any woman. But you have to face the reality. The first step in solving a problem is accepting that there is one. Try and explain her that if she doesn't accept the problem, it is not possible to solve it. And also assure her that though infertility is a very stressful and depressing thing to deal with, she would still be able to be a mother and conceive through assisted reproductive technology like IVF. There are effective fertility treatments to deal with infertility and there are doctors and specialists who can help her diagnose her condition. She needs to see a specialist to find the actual problem and then, it can become clearer the treatment she would need to opt to deal with the issue. I wish her all the best and the courage to face her reality.