Infertility struggle

meera_88 11 Posts Wednesday August 2, 2017Registration date September 17, 2017 Last seen - Sep 17, 2017 at 09:46 AM - Latest reply:  serena12
- Jun 20, 2018 at 01:28 PM
Hello everyone, i am meera and I have been on this forum for a while now, but wasn't around for last few weeks as I had not been feeling well. I am myself struggling with infertility and have been to a fertility specialist and discovered that my fallopian tubes were blocked and that has been the reason for my infertility. I and my husband have been thinking to opt for IVF and have been researching our options since quite a while now and do think that it might the right thing to do. But our visits to a few fertility clinics around us have not yielded anything to our expectation and we have not found what we would expect after going through all the IVF success stories on forums and blogs. I need help in deciding how should we choose the clinic and what did you all see before you made the decision to get your IVF done. I am quite scared now and have been battling depression for quite long and all of this has only added to my stress and anxiety. I am thankful to my husband though that he has been very supportive all the while. Please share your experiences about the clinic where you had your fertility treatments done and what should I be looking for before choosing one for myself.
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kate_09 12 Posts Wednesday August 2, 2017Registration date September 17, 2017 Last seen - Sep 17, 2017 at 12:17 PM
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Hello meera, I am sorry for your troubles with conceiving and it is really sad to hear about anyone's infertility. I have faced this issue myself and have successfully fought infertility. I had opted for IVF and it was a good stress free experience as I was fortunate to find the right clinic for my IVF cycle. I suggest you stay calm for now and have a positive outlook towards everything that comes your way here on, as it is a very important thing to keep a stress free and calm mind when you go through an IVF cycle. Do not feel scared or depressed, things will work out fine, just give it some time and with the right consultation, you will know what treatment you should be looking for and also the right doctors and programs will ensure you have a successful IVF cycle and put an end to this depression phase. I wish you all the best and stay hopeful, and focused, things are going to be all right from here on.

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mishavailable 11 Posts Friday September 15, 2017Registration date September 23, 2017 Last seen - Sep 18, 2017 at 01:25 AM
It is the dream of every woman to become a successful and proud mother. If you are thinking to give up then you need to change your mind. You are living in the advance medical research generation where everything is possible. To defeat the infertility you can visit to Lotus Clinic which is the most reliable and reputed clinic in Ukraine. I had also seen the bad phase in my life and I was unable to infertile too. But one of my friends told me to choose Lotus Clinic where I raise my hope and finally become the mother of baby boy. Now you can change your dream into reality. You just need to keep the mind positive and take care about health properly. There are many reasons of blocking of Fallopian tubes, due to irregular periods or imbalance of the hormones too. All I can say need to concentrate on your health and take the proper nutrients foods. This time you can go with the IVF or surrogacy treatment which can help in conceiving the baby.
I know it may be expensive for you but Lotus Clinic is recommended for the affordable IVF treatment. Now you do not need to lose the hope and get the best IVF treatment which enhances the chance to become pregnant. You can consult about the diet and supplements which can help in regulating the periods, boost the immunity system and balance the hormones of the body. You can eat the multivitamins and iron rich foods daily. You can add the green leafy vegetables and one egg daily in your diet. Moreover to refresh the mind and soul you can go for the morning daily. I wish you all the best.
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melissa_79 11 Posts Wednesday August 2, 2017Registration date September 18, 2017 Last seen - Sep 18, 2017 at 09:55 AM
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Hi meera, I am sorry for what your struggles and I would like to suggest you to first get over the stress and depression, before you take on the infertility battle. If you are going for an IVF cycle, then stress and depression can spoil your chances as they are one of the reasons for infertility in many cases. So, I feel your first concern should be to get yourself out of depression and stress and as you said you have your husband's support, that can be a blessing to cope with the stress. Support each other and show your care and affection as even he needs your support to stay positive. Do not let stress, and nervousness get the better of you, nothing should come in your way of realizing your dream of conceiving a healthy and a lovely child. IVF has blessed many women with wonderful children and more and more women continue to opt for IVF to battle their infertility issues. To find the right clinic, you can inquire about their procedure of taking you into their program, and look how professional they are and then make a well informed choice.
dazzyshahu 15 Posts Thursday August 24, 2017Registration date September 20, 2017 Last seen - Sep 20, 2017 at 12:00 AM
Hello and welcome friend. I can understand your problem in easy and effective way. I also face same problem like you in my life. It is time to handle this painful situation with appropriate planning and positive attitude in your life that is the right way to get positive energy in your life. There are many reason of infertility. You should understand the main root cause of infertility and solve out in professional way. I am one of the lucky women to got supportive husband. We consult with many gynecologist in Ukraine to get the best-in-class treatment of infertility problem. You can start your planning with proper understanding your hand husband needs and emotion very well to manage proper balance in your marriage life. I am feeling happy to help you on basis of my personal life experience that guide you the right path to achieve your target like me. It is very important to understand each and every signal of your body to overcome this horrible problem in early stage.
It is good news that you are aware about IVF test tube baby treatment that is most popular and reliable treatment all over the world to defeat infertility in medical way. You get this IVF test tube baby treatment little expensive but you get maximum profit with healthy baby gift in long term. You should choose experience medical staff that can easily understand your problem and enhance your success rate with advanced medical research based treatment. You should balance between your body and mind with powerful yoga and meditation to get full relaxation. I want to express kind heart thanks to God to provide this opportunity in my life to enjoy perfection in motherhood. I hope my valuable suggestion help you to overcome this horrible problem in your life. I am waiting your reply to hear good news soon.
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marianne700 8 Posts Sunday September 24, 2017Registration date September 24, 2017 Last seen - Sep 24, 2017 at 06:42 PM
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I am so sorry to hear that. Hope you wont give up. Seek for more solutions. Believe there is a right one for you. Be persistant and result will come. Good luck my dear.
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janajana1 10 Posts Friday September 22, 2017Registration date October 10, 2017 Last seen - Sep 24, 2017 at 06:46 PM
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I read your post and cry. I emphatize with you. Glad you wont give up. Infertlity is big issue. You can defeat it just you must find a way. Wish you luck.
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susyjakopovic 4 Posts Saturday September 30, 2017Registration date September 30, 2017 Last seen - Sep 30, 2017 at 10:30 AM
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Hi! I can understand what are you going through. First of all you must realise what is the cause for your infertility. Then you can find solution for that kind of issue. Try not to think that everything is over. I believe you will defeat innfertility.
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snjeza1 7 Posts Saturday September 30, 2017Registration date October 10, 2017 Last seen - Sep 30, 2017 at 11:06 AM
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Todays advanced medical knowledge are giving hope to those who are struggleing with infertility. Don't give up. Keep trying. Find a method which will be succeesfull for you. Good luck to you.
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friendly_mum 13 Posts Monday September 25, 2017Registration date January 27, 2018 Last seen - Updated by friendly_mum on 15/10/17 at 07:05 PM
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Hi Meera, I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles. IVF is certainly an option for you but it's equally important to get your tubes unblocked. Besides, infertility there's a lot of other effects of blocked tubes - the menstrual cycles. It renders a woman weak if your body is unable to function properly and menstrual cycle is vital beyond just the scope of reproduction. About IVF, I'm not sure what was your disappointments with the clinics you've already visited but I can suggest a few things to recheck. The success rate is great yardstick but success rate with older women is the real deal, look for that status. Also, usually clinics that are confident about their success rate would tend to offer you more than just verbal reassurance that they can be your solution. Like my clinic has this breakthrough tagline "No infertility is absolute" pretty convincing eh! But the catch was that they had a package in which they were liable to refund you in case of a no result scenario. I'm not saying it got to be exactly the same but you've got to pinpoint a few of such exceptional clauses and statistics to evaluate a clinic. Hope you find the right one soon! :)
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prerona30 8 Posts Saturday October 28, 2017Registration date December 13, 2017 Last seen - Oct 28, 2017 at 07:42 AM
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IVF tests are an incredible option which you and your husband have chosen. Having said that, IVF doesn't work as quickly as you may think it should. IVF needs a lot of patients and quite an amount of trying. IVF comes out with its results after trying after a few times. You are really lucky to have a supportive husband. MAke the most of your time now, wait for the whole journey out and surely you will receive good news.
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stacyben 48 Posts Tuesday March 20, 2018Registration date June 9, 2018 Last seen - May 23, 2018 at 11:08 AM
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The success of IVF depends on the clinic on chooses. I have faced infertility after my 3 miscarriages. I was so upset but it was of no use. I decided to f=go for IVF. I would no mention the name of the clinic where I went. It was an expensive clinic. IVF failed for me. It was just a waste of money. Later I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. I have a baby now.
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Monika966 43 Posts Saturday March 17, 2018Registration date June 20, 2018 Last seen - May 23, 2018 at 11:13 AM
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Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here.
I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn't found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved to Ukraine. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby. If someone is looking for some good clinics for surrogacy. You should surely go to Ukraine for it.
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emily001 32 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date June 9, 2018 Last seen - May 23, 2018 at 11:26 AM
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The achievement of IVF relies upon the picks. I have confronted infertility for 10 years. I was so disturbed. I chose to go for IUI and then IVF. It was a costly clinic where I went. IVF and IUI failed for me. It was only a waste of cash. Later I chose to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. I have a child now.
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Oliviasmit 72 Posts Friday May 11, 2018Registration date June 14, 2018 Last seen - May 23, 2018 at 12:00 PM
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Hi Meera! How are you dear? I am so sorry to hear about your infertility issue. Hang in there, girl. IVF is indeed a very beautiful procedure and It has a high success rate. I think you should go for it as it might be the last chance for you to conceive but don't lose hope if it fails. There is still option like surrogacy on the table that you can avail. IVF failed for me so I resorted to surrogacy from a clinic in Ukraine. I am now a mother thanks to surrogacy. Either way, I wish you the best of luck. Take care.
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claudiopeters 45 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date June 9, 2018 Last seen - May 23, 2018 at 12:06 PM
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Hey. I hope you're doing well. It's a very tough situation. I'm really sorry to hear about it. I'd suggest you start by calming down. Keeping the faith is really important. The good thing is that you've already moved on. You're not hungover. A lot of people waste valuable years in depression. I know I did. There are alternative ways. However, age is a very important factor. IVF is a great method. It's known to be effective. I hope it works out for you.
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salenaj 4 Posts Friday May 25, 2018Registration date May 28, 2018 Last seen - May 25, 2018 at 06:31 AM
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Hi, there I can completely understand your situation. I was also the one who suffers from it. I visited a clinic in the UK. They refer me IVF. It was successful. I am having my children now. You must go for it. Trust you won't regret your decision once you opt it. Till then best of luck.
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Alana90 59 Posts Monday March 26, 2018Registration date June 15, 2018 Last seen - May 25, 2018 at 01:32 PM
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Great to hear that you are up on IVF. IVF journey is an interesting path you could take. Each time a cycle goes round. Leave you with so many twists and turns. Just cross your fingers and there goes marry go round.
But only because of these reasons you could never put stop on your struggle. And you got to accept that IVF has lightened so many homes. It's great that your DH has supported you much. There should be a balanced life. And these tough time must be observed by both the partners. Stay strong and stay together. These times would soon be left. I have no suggestion to provide you with over fertility clinics. What much I could say is. Look into suggestions over forums. Or make your own search.
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pheobe412 150 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date June 10, 2018 Last seen - Jun 2, 2018 at 12:02 AM
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Don't worry dear. It's not like the end of the world. Everything is going to be alright for you. Just try to be calm. There are a lot of other methods available for your help. I think you should go for them. How about surrogacy? I am not recommending you the IVF. I read your condition and I know that is not going to help you. Just don't worry this doesn't mean that you can't do anything. still, there are other options for you. You could always go for them.
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anayahill 49 Posts Monday March 19, 2018Registration date June 9, 2018 Last seen - Jun 7, 2018 at 08:28 AM
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I hope you will be mother soon. Just Don’t lose hope. Firstly, Consult a good doctor. I can understand your situation. I had a miscarriage in my early married. I was so devastated when I first heard about my Infertility. I had no idea what to do. My husband wanted a baby badly. He stand by me through every hard time. So we decided to choose something for us. We chose surrogacy. It was the right decision we took. Now we are happy that we are parents now. The clinic where we had surrogacy was the best clinic in Europe. I must say, The staff was so supportive. We were given healthy surrogate. Now my family is completed just because of them. I hope things go right in your way. best of luck.
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margret09 11 Posts Friday June 1, 2018Registration date June 14, 2018 Last seen - Jun 7, 2018 at 12:09 PM
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Hi, How are you? Hope all is well. I am sorry to hear about you. Infertility is a very bad thing to cop up with. I salute the women who never give up and keep trying. In Europe, there are many clinics regarding the infertility treatment. you must consult them.
All the very best to you dear.
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Alessia.Violet 64 Posts Sunday January 21, 2018Registration date June 14, 2018 Last seen - Jun 7, 2018 at 01:37 PM
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Hey, Meera I hope you are doing well. Don't be depressed I am sure things will get better. Opting for IVF is a great option and I am sure it will work for you. For IVF it is extremely important that the clinic you chose has a high success rate. The doctor needs to be a professional and should have the experience. The clinic I am visiting for my procedure this is the very first thing I looked into. Also, at the center, and I did get a chance to talk to 2 or 3 of IVF patients. All of them told me that if you visit a doctor who is not experienced the chances of failure are much high. Other than this once the IVF procedure starts make sure you eat healthy food. It is really important to have a good healthy diet. Yoga also helps in providing your body with energy. Ask your doctor if you should get acupuncture done while the procedure is being. Other than that don't take stress! Remain positive and hope for the best. Sending baby dust your way.
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pheobe412 150 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date June 10, 2018 Last seen - Jun 10, 2018 at 01:31 AM
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First, you should take some tests. That'll tell you about your condition. After that, you have to look into the clinic. When you chose your clinic then you have to choose the path where you want to go. After that, your treatment will start.
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