Infertility struggle

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Hello everyone, i am meera and I have been on this forum for a while now, but wasn't around for last few weeks as I had not been feeling well. I am myself struggling with infertility and have been to a fertility specialist and discovered that my fallopian tubes were blocked and that has been the reason for my infertility. I and my husband have been thinking to opt for IVF and have been researching our options since quite a while now and do think that it might the right thing to do. But our visits to a few fertility clinics around us have not yielded anything to our expectation and we have not found what we would expect after going through all the IVF success stories on forums and blogs. I need help in deciding how should we choose the clinic and what did you all see before you made the decision to get your IVF done. I am quite scared now and have been battling depression for quite long and all of this has only added to my stress and anxiety. I am thankful to my husband though that he has been very supportive all the while. Please share your experiences about the clinic where you had your fertility treatments done and what should I be looking for before choosing one for myself.

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Sorry to hear about your infertility. I am also in the same condition.
I can't get pregnant and i don't know the reason for it too.
The doctors are also unable to find the reason for this.
I have gone through extensive testings but the doctors are also unable to find the main cause for my infertility.
They can't tell the main problem.
I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now.
But still i didn't conceived.
As doctors can't tell the main cause of my infertility i guess i will go for surrogacy now.
I live in Bulgaria where surrogacy is prohibited.
I heard there are many clinics for infertility treatment in Ukraine.
I read about many clinics there from these forums.
I have found clinic from Ukraine.People talk mostly about this clinic.
I will contact this clinic and will consult them about my problem.
Surrogacy is very popular there so i guess i will also have a baby from surrogacy.
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Hi Meera! Hope you are in good health. I am sorry for your situation. I know how hard it can be deal with infertility since I have also been there. It take a lot out of you. Just hang in there girl. Don’t give up hope. I recommend that you don’t go for IVF instead go for surrogacy simple because you have been through a lot and I don’t want you to go through failure again. IVF even though has high chances of success but still it is not a sure shot like surrogacy. I am also infertile and I went through 2 failed IVF before I opted for surrogacy and my greatest regret at the time was not going for it earlier. As for the fertility clinic I recommend you search for fertility clinics in Ukraine since they are the best at what they do and the most affordable. I wish you the best of luck. Take care.
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Wishing you all the best dear. I'm feeling really sorry to learn about your condition. Infertility is really hard to cope with. I'm a big fan of you as you are not giving up. Well, in Europian countries, surrogacy is not so expensive. So, I'll recommend you these clinics. I'm sure this time, your dream of having children will come true!
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How are you feeling now? I hope you are feeling better. I empathize with you on your struggles. Stay strong, my friend. You will get what you want soon. Don't lose hope. Just hang in there. BABY DUST ON YOUR WAY.
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Hey Meera, Really sorry to know about your infertility. It must be a hard time for you. It's good that now you are looking for IVF. Well when I had faced this issue, I contacted my doctor. She told me about a clinic and this is how our treatment starts. Good luck my dear
Hope you are fine. if you are planning g for IVF. I would like to suggest you get over this depression. it will definitely spoil your chance. and you will get into more depressive state. first work on your mental condition. try to be normal and happy. go for some outing or arrange different events for sometimes. then go for this process. so that you can enjoy your time. and you will find it a successful journey as well. I am sure you got my point. take care. and best of luck.
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Meera my friend it will be really hard for you. To suffer from infertility. I am extremely sad to read this post. You have taken the right decision. You should opt for IVF. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are best in dealing with it. Till then I wish you a very good luck.
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Hi there. How are you doing? I know this must be hard for you. I can really feel your pain. Sending virtual hugs for you. Don't get upset sweetheart. This is a part of life. I know enjoying motherhood is a dream of every female. Infertility really shatters this dream. I am glad assisted methods exist. You can always go for IVF. It depends on person to person. I pray that your first cycle gets successful. And, you find your rainbow soon. All the very best to you. Stay positive now. Don't overthink. Keeping you high in my prayer list. Take care!
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Hello darling. How are you? I hope you are well. Besides, infertility there's a lot of other effects of blocked tubes - the menstrual cycles. It renders a woman weak if your body is unable to function properly and menstrual cycle is vital beyond just the scope of reproduction. About IVF, the success rate is not high. I hope you can find a good option for yourself. Take care. Lots of love.
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Hello there. How are you? I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Don't lose hope. Lots of love.
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I am sorry to know about your struggles. You have been through a lot. You are a strong lady, I must say. You are going through some difficult time of your life. Just hang in there. You will get your bfp soon. Stay strong and positive. Lots of love and luck to you.
hello, meera_88. First of all, I like to apologize to you for not asking about your health. How are you feeling now? I read your post till the end. It really made me sad. You have suffered a lot. why not it’s our honor to talk to you again. yeah because other experience makes you a perfect participant. Because you get to know that things will work in such case scenario.
Hi Meera, I would like to share my story with you. I have trouble conceiving a baby and I am trying from past 10 years but no luck. I have gone through IVF many times and for me, it is a big NO. It demands the body to respond and it depends on your luck. For me, it didn't work and it was very painful too and IVF treatments have bad side effects too so I would never recommend it. Now I am going for surrogacy as its success rate is quite high and I've heard a lot of success stories on surrogacy. I hope it works for me.
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Hello there. IVF tests are an incredible option which you and your husband have chosen. Having said that, IVF doesn't work as quickly as you may think it should. IVF needs a lot of patients and quite an amount of trying. IVF comes out with its results after trying after a few times. You are really lucky to have a supportive husband. MAke the most of your time now, wait for the whole journey out and surely you will receive good news.
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Never lose hope love, try searching for why you cant conceive and then look for the options. I am sad you have to face this and I'm glad your husband is so supportive. Please don't give up, hopefully, something will come up. IVF is a good option though my friend got it done and it worked for her. try looking at an international level. I hope you find a solution and a great clinic for yourself! Good Luck
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IVF is good. You can go for this method. It's going to help you in this regard. Don't worry, There are others methods for your help as well. It's going to be alright. If one thing does not work then go for other. Similarly, go for other. You'll find something.
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Hi Meera, I am sorry for what your struggles and I would like to suggest you to first get over the stress and depression before you take on the infertility battle. If you are going for an IVF cycle, then stress and depression can spoil your chances as they are one of the reasons for infertility in many cases. So, I feel your first concern should be to get yourself out of depression and stress and as you said you have your husband's support, that can be a blessing to cope with the stress. Support each other and show your care and affection as even he needs your support to stay positive. Do not let stress, and nervousness get the better of you, nothing should come in your way of realizing your dream of conceiving a healthy and a lovely child. IVF has blessed many women with wonderful children and more and more women continue to opt for IVF to battle their infertility issues. To find the right clinic, you can inquire about their procedure of taking you into their program, and look how professional they are and then make a well-informed choice.
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Hey. I am so sorry for you. It must be so hard for you. I know it is painful. But you have to get through it bravely. I had 3 miscarriages in a row. I was so upset. It happened in the first year of my marriage. I was so devastated yet didn't lose hope. I went for treatment when I came to know about uterine polyps. I decided to go for surrogacy. Now I have a baby. I am so happy that I chose it. I went for it to a clinic in Europe. They provided me with a healthy surrogate. I am so happy that I made a right decision.
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Hello there Meera. I have been married for 12 years, was TTC for 6 years. I was declared infertile by my gyno as well. Then me and my boyfriend started searching for good fertility clinics and we came through a few. Got our IVF done now, and now by the grace of God, I'm a mother of a beautiful baby girl. All I want to say to you is don't lose your heart and hope. Run some tests. Talk to friends and family. Visit fertility clinics. Look out for their ratings and reviews. Listen to people's stories. I'm sure you'll get your answers. Much love and prayers for you. xx
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Hello meera. I just read your article. I want to let you know that I also went through IVF. You should see doctors at different IVF clinics and tell about your symptoms. They will then take some tests and will guide you whether you should consider IVF or not. I got through IVF successfully. Now I have a son who's 2.5 years old and baby girl who's of 4 weeks. I really hope things will also turn out good for you. Dont lose hope.