Infertility struggle

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Hello everyone, i am meera and I have been on this forum for a while now, but wasn't around for last few weeks as I had not been feeling well. I am myself struggling with infertility and have been to a fertility specialist and discovered that my fallopian tubes were blocked and that has been the reason for my infertility. I and my husband have been thinking to opt for IVF and have been researching our options since quite a while now and do think that it might the right thing to do. But our visits to a few fertility clinics around us have not yielded anything to our expectation and we have not found what we would expect after going through all the IVF success stories on forums and blogs. I need help in deciding how should we choose the clinic and what did you all see before you made the decision to get your IVF done. I am quite scared now and have been battling depression for quite long and all of this has only added to my stress and anxiety. I am thankful to my husband though that he has been very supportive all the while. Please share your experiences about the clinic where you had your fertility treatments done and what should I be looking for before choosing one for myself.

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Hello there Meera. I have been married for 12 years, was TTC for 6 years. I was declared infertile by my gyno as well. Then me and my boyfriend started searching for good fertility clinics and we came through a few. Got our IVF done now, and now by the grace of God, I'm a mother of a beautiful baby girl. All I want to say to you is don't lose your heart and hope. Run some tests. Talk to friends and family. Visit fertility clinics. Look out for their ratings and reviews. Listen to people's stories. I'm sure you'll get your answers. Much love and prayers for you. xx
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Hello, Meera! I just came across your post and it was super depressing to read that you had to go through such miserable circumstances in your life dear! I am really sorry that you faced this phase of being infertile as well. I am sure that this is very tough time for you and your husband as well dear! But you do not have to give up sweetie! there are many women around who are struggling with their issues of infertility. One of them is me. I have been told by my doctor that I am infertile but I have not yet given up. I have been trying to conceive for the last 7 years. You should just keep your head up and should continue trying my dear! I am sure that all it will is for you get treatments from a good clinic and it will be all good.
I hope to hear som good news from you soon. Till then just stay positive and do not blame yourself for any of these situations dear!
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Hey Meera! I hope you are doing good. Infertility is a very common issue nowadays. Many couples are a victim of infertility. Just stay calm and positive. Things will be alright soon. IVF and other infertility treatments take time. It takes a lot of effort to be successful in an attempt. I am suffering from a hysterectomy. I had my uterus removed due to cancerous polyps. It was a terrible thing that could ever happen to me. I was devastated after I found out I cannot carry my own baby again. So I can understand what you must be going through. You would lose hope everytime you fail IVF. But that is where life is testing you if you fall you should not stay on the ground, love. You must gather all your strength and stand back taller and stronger than ever. I hope I hear some good news soon. Sending you my best wishes.
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Hello dear. How are you? Hope you are doing well. IVF is a great procedure. It has blessed many. There are many good clinics in Europe. Their feedback is also good. You should make a proper research first. A friend of mine had her IVF treatment. She went to a clinic in Europe. The results were successful. I wish you all the best. Be hopeful for the future. I wish you find a clinic and procedure which is best for you. Good luck with your journey.
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Hey Meera. How are you doing? Well, am sorry that you are suffering from infertility. This is not your fault at all. Dear, you should choose your clinic very wisely now. Because there are so many scams clinic in the market which are doing it for the money. One of my friends also had a bad experience with these kinds of the clinic which are doing this treatment for money. So my friend IVF is a good option for you and I have heard about eastern Europe. Eastern Europe is so popular for this place and it will really help her a lot. Because there are so many clinics there. Wish your friend best of luck from myself.
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Hey Meera. How are you doing? Hope so you are doing fine. Well, my dear, I am glad that you are now thinking to have a proper solution to infertility. My dear I will advise you to watch videos on youtube. There are so many success stories of IVF related couples. Also, it will help you to find a good clinic. Nowadays there are so many clinics which are fraud and scams. My friend, you should be aware of these clinics. It will help you a lot to choose a clinic. Wish you best of luck. And choose your clinic wisely. Best of luck. Sending you positive vibes.
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Hi, how are you? I hope you are doing great. I have read your post carefully. Well in your case IVF chances of success are very low. If you are healthy it would be successful. If you are not healthy it won't be successful. So don't waste your money and time on it. You should go for surrogacy. There is a good clinic in Eastern Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. Their prices are less expensive. Go for it. Trust me once you opt it you won't regret your decision. My best wishes are with you. Baby dust to you
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I think you need to be positive at this moment. You must be shattered right now. Keep yourself surrounded by positivity. Please make sure to research before choosing the clinic cause now the market is full of scammers. However, the best thing is that they don't compromise on quality. I hope I was some help to you.
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I feel sorry for you when I read about your problem. Infertility is the most common problem in a woman now and it can be cured also with some methods. I Know it must be hard for you. I know because I have experienced the same. It is something not easy to handle. However, surrogacy and IVF are the best options. I have had IVF. It was the best choice I ever made. I wish more people consider it.
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Hey there Emma! How are you feeling now dear?
I am sure that the pain and the consciousness that you are going through regarding the fear of losing the baby. It is obvious for any girl is serious. Any girl would feel conscious about losing the baby. But you need to stay positive and stop thinking about wrong things. I’m sure that there will be no miscarriages. I am sure you will be alright. All you need to do for now is to go see a good gynecologist and a good clinic. Because they will then make sure that you have been doing well.
Wish you all the very best!
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Dear sister, you can’t only rely on the treatment alone. Meanwhile, You need to bring change to your lifestyle as well. Focus on the causes of infertility. Also, prepare for physical strength as well. I have had the procedure as well. It improves the chances of conceiving more than once. I was told by the doctor I might feel bloating and frequent nausea. I started being conscious. Once, started taking medication to improve my cells for the fertilization process. I feared if any of this would be a success. Thanks to my husbands’ support and love. As my months proceeded I was confronted with other women having IVF. Who shared their experiences with me. They were all satisfied with the procedure. Eventually, I realized that I was having normal pregnancy symptoms. The process was pretty much safe in hands of proficient doctors. I conceived a healthy baby boy who is now almost 2 years old now.
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Hello. Hope you are doing well. You are really lucky to have a supportive husband. I am also planning an IVF due to fertility issues. I will be doing this from a clinic in Europe. There are many good clinics in Europe for IVF and surrogacy. I wish you to find a good clinic. I am very hopeful for my IVF treatment. I will keep struggling with it. You should also leave your stress. Be hopeful for it. I wish it works out. We can always try for the best. That keeps us contented. I wish you all the best for it. Good luck!
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Hey there Meera. How are you doing? I hope its all well. I am really sorry to hear about your infertility. I am sure it will work out soon. THings get hard somegtimes. You can also go for surrogacy. I wish you good luck. Please be strong and lots of love.
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hi, hope so you are doing great. Don't take the stress. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. I can understand it is a difficult situation to handle. But try to handle it calmly. All will be fine. Nowadays infertility is not a big problem. IVF is also a good process where children would be genetically linked with you. It is no different than naturally getting pregnant. You will be experiencing the whole pregnancy stage. I think you should go for IVF. Stay happy. Better things will come soon. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. My best wishes are with you. All the very best.
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Hey Meera, how are you doing? I am glad you are trying at least. I know it must be hard for yo. But don't lose hope. Stay positive and keep trying. I recommend you to go for surrogacy rather IVF. IVF success rate is very low. I also tried IVF 3 times but failed. Now i am middle of talking about infertility treatments with a clinic. At first i contacted A***s clinic but got scammed by them. Beware of them.
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You are lucky to have a supportive husband. Infertility is an issue many people face. You're not alone in this! I think it's best to keep your search going. IVF is a good treatment. However, if you feel unsure about the result it'll give you, then I'd suggest looking at surrogacy as well. Since that is definitely a more sure shot of a way to get a child. I wish you all the best! You deserve it!
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Hi there. Hope you are good now. IVF is a great process. You can consult clinics in Europe. They are very good. They will provide you with all the details. Hope everything will be fine. Keep us updated. Good luck.
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Hello darling. How are you? I hope you are well. What you are going through is very hard. I feel your first concern should be to get yourself out of depression and stress and as you said you have your husband's support, that can be a blessing to cope with the stress. Support each other and show your care and affection as even he needs your support to stay positive. Do not let stress, and nervousness get the better of you, nothing should come in your way of realizing your dream of conceiving a healthy and a lovely child. IVF has blessed many women with wonderful children and more and more women continue to opt for IVF to battle their infertility issues. Don't lose hope. Keep going on. I hope you find a reliable clinic. Take care.
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Hello there. How are you? I hope you are well. I am going for surrogacy. I am 43 years old. And I can't conceive. Search for reliable clinics. Surrogacy is a good option for the women who are infertile. There is no risk of losing life in that. Moreover, it gives faster results. I am also going to opt for surrogacy. It will be fine for you. You have to stay strong during all this. I hope that thing go right for you. May everything gets best for you. I will have my surrogacy in Ukraine. You should consult them too. Take care darling.