Infertility struggle

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Hello everyone, i am meera and I have been on this forum for a while now, but wasn't around for last few weeks as I had not been feeling well. I am myself struggling with infertility and have been to a fertility specialist and discovered that my fallopian tubes were blocked and that has been the reason for my infertility. I and my husband have been thinking to opt for IVF and have been researching our options since quite a while now and do think that it might the right thing to do. But our visits to a few fertility clinics around us have not yielded anything to our expectation and we have not found what we would expect after going through all the IVF success stories on forums and blogs. I need help in deciding how should we choose the clinic and what did you all see before you made the decision to get your IVF done. I am quite scared now and have been battling depression for quite long and all of this has only added to my stress and anxiety. I am thankful to my husband though that he has been very supportive all the while. Please share your experiences about the clinic where you had your fertility treatments done and what should I be looking for before choosing one for myself.

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I can understand your situation. Infertility is the very heartbreaking experience. Every woman dreams to become a mother. But due to infertility, it's not possible. I also face infertility due to heart disease. My doctor said to me that I cannot become a mother. That was the very hard day of my life. My husband supports me very well. Then we decided to move to Europe for surrogacy.there are many good clinics that provide the facility of surrogacy. In the end, Now I'm a mother of a cute baby boy. You don't have a need to be depressed. Hardship is the part of life.you have to be strong. I will pray for you that you become the mother soon.
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Hey. how are you? infertility disease is a curse now. it will help others as well. sharing my own experience with you. it was very sad that I have been suffering from infertility too. then someone told me to choose surrogacy. surrogacy provides a hundred percent result. surrogacy may consider as the last hope of an infertile woman. so then I have heard the happy news of my life that I will be a mother soon. it is your hard work that will pays off soon. Very sad for you. But from now you could better yourself. Hats off for your spirit. First check the clinic. Donot go to that forum that are not replying. Manage an affordable clinic. good luck!
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Hey there Meera! I came across your post and I am extremely really sad to hear about your experience dear! I know that you have been through some thick and thin over the past few days. I am really sorry and heart-broken to hear about what you had to go through dear. I would like to tell you that there are many women who are in the race of the similar struggle in fighting against infertility. I am also married for the last 7 years and have been planning to conceive ever since then. But you need to stay positive. One miscarriage is not the end of the world dear! I am sure that you need to visit a good clinic and see a good doctor. Hopefully, you are able to conceive soon. If you will take the proper treatments you will be able to maintain your pregnancy, It is important to conceive in a protected way.
Wish you all the luck dear! Stay positive and keep trying.
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Hey! I am so sorry for what you are going through. Although IVF is a good procedure yet it is painful. Surrogacy is the best procedure for those who can not conceive. By this method, you can have a baby of your own genes. I have a baby through Surrogacy. I am blessed to have her. I am trying to have another baby soon. Wish you good luck!
This is so sad. Infertility is a big problem nowadays. And it is proliferating fastly. Thankfully methods like Surrogacy exist now. They are the hope for an infertile woman. I have also gone through this process. I am a blessed mother now.
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Hey Meera, hope you are doing good. I am so sorry to hear your story. I understand dear it is very difficult to live an infertile life. I am 36 years old with no kids. Its been 10 years now that I am TTC. My DH wanted to adopt a child but I didnt agree. I was adopted and I have seen my parents craving for a biological heir their entire life. So we agreed to try surrogacy. We started looking for promising clinics and found out that the best treatment is available in Ukraine. As Visa process from Ireland to Ukraine is friendly so starting considering clinics there.We found out about L***s clinic through such forums. I got all contact details and emailed them instantly. Its been weeks now that I am trying to approach them. They have never given any sort of response. I am shocked at their behavior, how are managing a huge clinic when their communication is this pathetic and disappointing.
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hey meera
hope everything is going good.I hope you will be mother soon. Just Don’t lose hope. I can understand your situation. I had a miscarriage in my early married.in that time .me and my husband looking for a good clinic . were i get surrogacy or IVF.for that purpose we contact L***s clinic. I got all contact details and emailed them instantly. Its been weeks now that I am trying to approach them. They have never given any sort of response. I am shocked at their behavior.L***s most worst clinic ever. be aware.
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Hi dear. How are you? Hope you are doing okay. Hope you are in your best health. It worries me so much to read stuff like this. I know infertility is hard. But it happens to the best of us. You should never lose your spirit. Never give up. If you break, pick yourself up. Pull yourself together. If you don't help yourself, no one else will. You need to gather all the strength you have. This journey is alone one. And you need the courage to get through it. Alternatives are there to help. Keep trying. Keep trying for what you want. And luck shall come to you. You will get what you desire. You deserve all the happiness in the world. Clinics in Europe work in this regard and can help you.
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Hey Meera, welcome back. We are all here for each other. I am sorry for your infertility. Infertility is a curse. A lot of around the globe are dealing with this issue. All it needs to be patient. Don't frustrate and stress. Technology is offering many solutions to deal with it. Surrogacy and IVF are at the top of the list. I was childless for 6 years of my married life. But then, I heard about the clinic located in Europe. I heard about their success stories. I collected all the necessary information about them. I contacted them for surrogacy asked them so many questions about this. I am glad they answered my every question at my satisfaction. Wishing you all the best of health and happiness.
Hello there. I'm daily visitor of this forum. This can help me alot. I'm infertile because disorder of my tissuess. Then, i'm really sad at this time, but my husband can support me very well. Then, we decided to take a treatment from good clinic. Then, i hear from my friends that there is L****s clinic. This is near to my street. Then, next day we visit this clinic. The staff of this clinic is so dirty. Their security are so bad, guards have no uniform. They are unfit. Doctors don't know how to talk with the patients. Nurses are fat and dirty. They cannot hear, what i'm try to said. They cannot wash their hands after the checkup of patients.
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Hi. I hope my comment helps you out here. Choosing a good fertility clinic can be tricky. Especially nowadays when most of them are scams. You need to do a lot of research before finally going to one. You should even talk to the previous clients of the clinic you are opting for. When I heard about the clinic I finally did go to, I did a lot of research first and even that didn't convince me. But when I finally got there and met with the doctor, I was so impressed. They treated me really nicely. They took care of almost everything themselves throughout the procedure. The doctors and the other staff of that clinic are very nice and helpful. If you want, you can check this clinic out too. the best part is that they are affordable. You can go for surrogacy or IVF there.
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Hey there Meera. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your issue. I know it must be really hard. I know how difficult it gets. You don't have to worry. A friend of mine went to this clinic in Ukraine. It's very well known. I am sure you'll find it easily. It's very popular. Just be strong and positive. I am sure things will work out. Don't stress your self. I wish you take care of your self. Lots of love and prayers.
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Hey. You make me worried. I hope you are doing okay. You have to take care of yourself. There are so many suffering from the same. You are not alone in this. It happens to the best ones of us. We are all in this together. Come on. Get up. Put all your pieces together. You can do this. I know. There are so many alternatives you can go for. Do a little research. Then the next step. Lookout for a fertility center. There are good ones in Europe. Choose what you are comfortable with. You can do this. Cheers. Prayers for you.
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Hey meera, hope your doing well. First of all i am so sorry to hear about your infertility. well you are not alone here. Welcome to the forum where you will find so many women like you. I have been facing infertility since 8 years and trust me i know what you have been gone through. It wasn't easy for me to handle the pain too. I was TTC for 8 years but nothing worked. I decided to try surrogacy for my own biological child. Choosing surrogacy wasn't so hard because i saw so many success stories on it. but choosing the right clinic for my procedure was hard. I contacted a clinic L***s in ukraine for my procedure and was hoping to get a response. I emailed gthem and called them for two months but their didn't respond i don't know why. I wonder why they did that to e. They showed me such insensitive and cold behavior when i needed their support and help. I was so desperate to start my procedure but their behavior tore my heart. I am never gonna contact them again.I am so depressed. My experience with infertility was hardest. I have no courage to cope up with this curse anymore. Please pray for me.
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Hey. Hope everything goes right in your way. May God bless you. Go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing. It is a blessing for every woman. Babies are the great happiness for women. Through surrogacy, every mother can get the happiness of motherhood. I was a sportswoman. And I had fatigue injury. I tried to conceive. Then visit for surrogacy to Ukraine. The clinic where I had surrogacy was a peerless clinic. The staff was so cooperative. Now I have a baby.
Hey. Hope you're fine with good health. I'm 24 years old and married. This can help me alot in my problem. Doctors tell me that i'm suffering from IVF due to tissues disorder. Then i never lose my hope. I can try to find the good clinic for better treatment. This can gives me satisfaction. Then, i hear about the A****s clinic. I think that this clinic is better for me then, i visit this clinic next day. Their staff are so dirty, they cannot know that how to talk with the patients. Doctors are so unqualified. Nurses look very dirty. They cannot give me the proper checkup as i want. They cannot hear me about my problem. Their security level is very low. Yesterday there is docit in this clinic. So, i don't want to visit this clinic ever before. If anyone know about the good clinic then, suggest me.
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Hello. Hope you are doing well. Sorry to hear about you. I know it can be hard and it gets really frustrating. I want you to know that you are really strong. You are dealing with this so well. Things will work out for you. Just give it time. I know of a good place where you could go to for your treatment. I did too. I used to be miserable. It felt like my life was stuck in a place. But I accepted my reality and did something about it. Look at where I am now. I want to help the people who are struggling now. I hope this helps you.
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Hello. Hope you are doing well. I read your post and I couldn't help replying. Its probably because I myself have experienced everything you mentioned. I relate to you, girl. Life isn't so easy sometimes. We need to learn to live with it. We have to make things better for ourselves. We can't rely on others to do that. I know of a good place you can go to for your treatments. I'm thinking to go there myself. I have heard good thing about this place. Why not check it out right? I hope this helps you in some way. You should know that I'm always here for you.
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Hey there! I feel so sorry for your infertility. But you don't need to be a worry. One day everything will be fine. IVF and surrogacy are the great alternatives to cope with infertility. Well, I am also an infertile person. I had faced infertility for 8 years long. I was fed up with the things. Then I had come to know about surrogacy. I opted for it and went to Europe. I had found a reputable clinic here. I had blessed with a baby boy through surrogacy. It was a lovely journey of surrogacy I had. I suggest you that you should also go for surrogacy. Because there is a more chance of success in surrogacy then IVF. In the end, decisions is yours. I hope you will be a mom soon. God bless you.
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Hi Lil