Infertility struggle

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Hello everyone, i am meera and I have been on this forum for a while now, but wasn't around for last few weeks as I had not been feeling well. I am myself struggling with infertility and have been to a fertility specialist and discovered that my fallopian tubes were blocked and that has been the reason for my infertility. I and my husband have been thinking to opt for IVF and have been researching our options since quite a while now and do think that it might the right thing to do. But our visits to a few fertility clinics around us have not yielded anything to our expectation and we have not found what we would expect after going through all the IVF success stories on forums and blogs. I need help in deciding how should we choose the clinic and what did you all see before you made the decision to get your IVF done. I am quite scared now and have been battling depression for quite long and all of this has only added to my stress and anxiety. I am thankful to my husband though that he has been very supportive all the while. Please share your experiences about the clinic where you had your fertility treatments done and what should I be looking for before choosing one for myself.

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Hey, i hope you are doing well. I am so sorry to hear about you. Was just scrolling and this post came in way. And after reading i have tears in my eyes. It is because i am going through the same. I am an infertile also. I had my first MC. and i couldn't conceive at all after that. I have been TTC since 8 years. Btu seems like nothing is ever going to work for me. I even decided for surrogacy. It was a hard decision for me. But i took it. I contacted a clinic L***s for it. I emailed them for a month. I even called them often. But neither they responded to my emails, nor phone calls. I don't know why i have been cursed by infertility so bad. Things are falling apart but this time, i am the one who is falling apart more. I can't even make a eye contact with my husband. I am so ashamed. Since the day he has been married to me, i couldn't gave him a single happiness. I never complained. Though i still know how he feels. These clinic are trash. Finding a real clinic is hard. I have no courage left to find one now.
I hope you both are doing good. Sorry to hear about your friend's infertility. She is going through a very tough time. It is good that you are supporting her at this time. You are a real friend. Infertility is the worst thing that happens to a woman. It hurts a woman a lot. You have given her a very good decision. Surrogacy is best for her. She should surely go for surrogacy. She will surely get success. Surrogacy is the most successful treatment for infertility. It has more success rate than any other treatment. It is less risky also. I have also faced infertility. I took surrogacy treatment and got success in having my child. I am in strong favor of surrogacy. I know about a good clinic in Europe where your friend can go for surrogacy. It is located in Europe. I took my surrogacy there. I got success. I am sure your friend will surely have her baby. I wish all the luck to your friend. Goodbye dear.
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Well, IVF is one of the most working treatment. It's getting popularity in developing countries. Even celebrities and famous personalities are going for it. That's another reason people are giving it a try. Although IVF is beneficial but it's a very risky treatment. You'd be enough strong both physically and mentally. Most of the ladies miscarry the child due to this issue. In developing countries, technology has not made so much progress. So, success chances in the treatment are low too. I must say one should opt for some optimal solution for infertility. Surrogacy is prominent among them. Success chances in surrogacy are comparatively very high. Choosing the right clinic for the treatment is another issue. I must say one should consult their doctor before taking any decision in this regard. The final decision will be yours!
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hey meera. I can totally understand your problem and I feel very sad for you. I hope you fnd a better clinic and treatment procedure very soon. these are very sensitive cases you see. selecting the right treatment and the right clinic is very serious and sensitive matter. its not something to loose hope about actually. because now a days there are various alternatives to infertility too. so its not something to worry about. you should not loose hope. lots of love your way!
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Hi Meera, how are you? I hope you are fine. Am really sorry to know what you are going through. Life sometimes becomes so hard and we can't do anything. We should always be brave enough to face these hard times. I hope things will turn in your favor very soon. I would like to share my experience here with you. When I get to know that I am infertile and I can never be able to become mother naturally. That was the worst time of my life. It was like an end for me. I even tried to kill my self. But My DH supported me in my hard times. It was his hard time too. He told me about surrogacy but it was very expensive in our country. We decided to visit Europe here we found a very prominent clinic. I felt home-like environment there. Everything was perfect there. It was the best journey of my life. I would suggest you visit them. Things will be Alright. Be positive
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Hi! Hope you are doing well! This is Saucy! I got married 5 years ago! I had faced 3 miscarriages during this period! I am very much disappointed by the clinic name A****s! They have ruined my life in the name of surgery! I had gone to this clinic and they said that We will do some surgery of you after that you will be able to conceive! They had done my very expensive surgery! After 2 weeks I have realized that something is very wrong with me! I went again! They delayed meetings with me! I went to some other doctor She said to me that you are an infertile now! I got into a major depression! I don't know what to do now! I am totally blank! I wanna recommend everyone not to even visit this clinic! They are just scammers! Please suggest me something! Thank you
Hi there. I hope you are fine. So sorry to hear that you are facing infertility. I know it is not easy for you. Infertility is the hardest situation to deal with. I have seen many people suffering from it. It is being common day by day. I felt really bad for you. I can understand your pain because I have gone through it. Do not worry infertility is not a big issue these days. Many treatments have been introduced for infertility. IVF and surrogacy are good cures for infertility. They are the only solution to infertility. Both good but I am in strong favor of surrogacy. It is most successful than IVF. It is also less risky than IVF. It is also beneficial if a woman is weak or aged. I also took surrogacy and got success. I am enjoying a happy parental life now. I went to a clinic. It is located in Europe. It is a really good clinic. I would suggest you go to this clinic. It would help you a l
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Hi Meera. I feel so sorry for your Infertility. You must be really disappointed. Don’t lose hope. Everything will go back to normal. You just have to stay strong. You are right that choosing a clinic is the most difficult job. I am going to tell you what happened to me. I was told that I could not conceive a baby naturally. I became really tensed. But the real problem for me was to choose a suitable clinic. Thank God that my friend suggested me of a good clinic in Europe. I contacted them. They agreed to help me. I went for Surrogacy. As luck was on my side, I became a mother.
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Hey Meera! I wish I could be of some help to you atleast. I know that you are facing real consequences regarding your issue of infertility. But trust me that you are not the only one who is alone struggling with infertility. There are many women out there who are facing issues. But all you need is to stay strong and fight it like a brave woman. However, I have recently got enrolled in aclinic. It is definitely the best in the town. They have the best panel of doctors. I am sure it will be of great help to you if you visit them too. So make sure to pay a visit there.
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Hey meera, I hope you are doing well. The situation seems to be pretty complicated my dear. Thank you for sharing this post with us. I believe people get a lot of information because of these forums. This has been a very good source of information i think. Since the day i have joined the forums i have come across a lot of people talking about their infertility issues and their success stories as well. Dear the first of all the things is to choose a right clinic. I have seen many people failing IVF so I wouldn't suggest you go for it either IUI. I think the clinic plays a very important role in all of this scenario. It would be a good decision if you guys go for a good clinic and undergo the treatment they suggest. I'm pretty sure that they will suggest you Surrogacy. Make sure that you ask for the reviews of that clinic you are looking forward to visiting. Because there are a lot of clinics i have heard which are not as good as they portray. Their services are not good and the packages they offer are very expensive too. One of the clinics is L***S. Refrain from going to such clinics which are a scam. Our money, Time and health everything matters.
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Hey there . Hope you are doing fine. Surrogacy is one of the best treatments if you are infertile. As it will give you the privilege of having your baby. In surrogacy, a surrogate mother will have your baby. By blood the baby will be yours. I hope you succeed in your process.
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Hi there. I hope you are doing fine. Infertility is a very difficult thing to cope with. Things can go wrong in life because of this. My sister had been struggling through it too. She went for IVF first. But that did not work out for her. So she opted for IVF. The doctors helped her out through everything. Like the whole process. And luckily for her she got pregnant in the first try. And then after almost 9 months she had her baby boy. She is so happy now. I would advise everyone to choose their options wisely. Life is not easy, but thinking positively can take you a long way. My prayers are with everyone.
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Hello! Hope you will be fine soon. I am so sorry for your struggle. I am feeling so bad that you are going through this. Infertility is a very difficult stage of women life. It is very hard to face. But science has provided us with the solution to infertility. Surrogacy and IVF, these two are the great treatments for infertility. But I have seen people not accepting these process. They are accepting infertility and not trying any other method. We should go for these treatments. My cousin was infertile. She told me there is a good clinic in Europe. She got her treatment from that clinic. She told me that they are doing excellence in this field for years. I suggest you visit there. Be positive and don't give up. God bless you."
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I can understand the troubles a woman faces. Infertility is really so hard to overcome. But IVF is an amazing step that may help you. There are certain clinic's that are helping many infertile couples in this regard. I have also been through this process. I had my surrogacy in Europe. They are the best and experienced in this field. The most important thing is the behavior of the staff toward you and they had the best with everyone. They have reasonable prices and never failed in such methods. I think you should consult them. I hope you will be satisfied with their facilities. My sympathies
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Dear, I am really sorry for your problems. It is really a very tough time for you. The best thing is that your husband is supportive. In many cases, I have seen that husbands don't care about their wife. They find another girl and get married to them. So these are the worst-case scenarios when female become infertile. I will suggest you surrogacy treatment. It's the best option for you. You should go for it. This clinic is best in dealing with surrogacy. You should go there. Their services are less expensive. Trust me once you opt it you won't regret your decision. Wish you a very good luck with that. My best wishes are with you. Baby dust to you
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Hello, Thanks for doing us a favour by sharing this. Congratulations on your Success in concieving. Honestly speaking I got shocked after seeing your post. I visit this form Daily! It is hard to find such good news. IVF doesn't necessarily work. It's a process that requires a lot of patience. Successful IVF stories are very rare. I am happy for you. There is an event going to be held, Where you get more awareness about it. And i will suggest you that alot. Best of luck for Future.
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Hey, hope. I want to share my story. I am infertile. The reason behind my infertility is I was on pills. Pills led me to this. I was an adopted child and faced worst behavior from my parents. That is why I was on pills. After trying for 5 years straight for having a baby nothing turned out to be positive. I was so worried. My sister knew about my situation. She then suggested me that I should go through surrogacy. This idea made me so hopeful. I searched a lot and founded this clinic L***S. It is the worst clinic ever; They have such poor communication skills. They don’t reply on time to emails and they do not even pick up calls. I had to visit them but now I am not going too. I am also hearing many bad reviews about this clinic
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Hey there Meera! I have been around on this forum and read everyone's post around here! But I felt really shook and hurt after hearing what you have been through dear! I wish I could make you feel a little better! but trust me, dear! You are not the only one alone in this struggle. I am also an infertile woman. But I have recently found this amazing clinic in the town. You should definitely pay a visit there. This is because they have the best panel of doctors. They will guide you in the right way. Take care and stay calm and composed.
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Hello. How are you doing.? Infertility can be a very difficult thing. It can really mess a woman's life in particular. I hope i can guide you through this in the bets way i can. IVF means In Vitro Fertilization. This is medical procedure whereby an egg is fertilized by sperm. In a test tube or elsewhere outside the body.IVF can treat infertility in a woman. If she has problems regarding ovulation disorders, blocked or damaged Fallopian tubes etcetra. Although a certified doctor would be able to guide you through this in a more professional and detailed way. If you are going to opt for it. Basically if you are below 40 then your success rates are high. The success rates are low if you are above 40. I hope this helps you out. Best of luck. All the love and prayers towards you.
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hi. how are you?. deeply in full of sorrow. I am sorry to hear such conditions. It is really hard to accept all this. infertility is a curse now. infertility can be resolved by many methods. it creates much hopelessness in the family. Do not lose hope. Science has developed now. its treatment is possible now. I will advise you to go for surrogacy. consult with your husband. Go for a checkup once again. IVF also good But surrogacy is the best I have ever seen. You have chosen surrogacy but surrogacy is best at one of the Europe clinic. hope for good and Best wishes. You are very lucky that your husband is very supportive to you. Good luck once again.
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Hi Meera. Sorry to hear that you are struggling with Infertility. I can understand your feelings. You must be really impatient for the baby. But what can I say? You are right that choosing a clinic is the difficult thing. But not that much. When I was told that I am infertile. I could not stand it. I wanted a baby. So I contacted a clinic in Europe. This clinic had put a smile on a lot of people’s face. The clinic was willing to help me. So I opted for Surrogacy. Things went according to my plan. Now I have my own baby.