Infertility struggle

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Hello everyone, i am meera and I have been on this forum for a while now, but wasn't around for last few weeks as I had not been feeling well. I am myself struggling with infertility and have been to a fertility specialist and discovered that my fallopian tubes were blocked and that has been the reason for my infertility. I and my husband have been thinking to opt for IVF and have been researching our options since quite a while now and do think that it might the right thing to do. But our visits to a few fertility clinics around us have not yielded anything to our expectation and we have not found what we would expect after going through all the IVF success stories on forums and blogs. I need help in deciding how should we choose the clinic and what did you all see before you made the decision to get your IVF done. I am quite scared now and have been battling depression for quite long and all of this has only added to my stress and anxiety. I am thankful to my husband though that he has been very supportive all the while. Please share your experiences about the clinic where you had your fertility treatments done and what should I be looking for before choosing one for myself.

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Hey love! Relax. I know you are going through a tough time. Of course, it is not easy for any of us to bear such a situation like infertility. Depression and nervousness are common in such a condition. Just stay positive and believe in your self. Everything has a right time. We just have to wait for that. The way you are struggling for your baby, I believe God will give you the reward of it. There are many good clinics in Europe that offer fertility treatments like IVF or surrogacy. They also provide affordable packages. I had my surrogacy from there and it was successful. It is the best clinic I know. The doctors are very supportive and they have the best surrogates. Now, I'm living a happy life with a complete family. I wish and hope that it would also prove successful to you. STAY POSITIVE!!
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Hello there. I am 43 years old. I am now infertile.Then I come to know about surrogacy. I had opted for surrogacy. I decide to find the better place for my surrogacy because surrogacy is legally banned in my country. I had found a reputable clinic. Through there treatment my surrogacy becomes successful. At last the happiest moment of my life comes. Now I have a baby through surrogacy. I also advised you for surrogacy. Good luck.
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Hi dear. How are you? I can understand whats going in your mind. But first, relax. Think properly. I think you should opt for Surrogacy, not IVF. Because IVF is a risky procedure. You have more chances of failure. It is successful in rare cases. But still, if you want to go for IVF. Then choose the best clinic. Because they will guide you. If you are suitable for IVF or not. Or they will treat you in a better way. There are numerous well-known clinics in Eastern Europe. Their doctors are so professional. You must visit this place once. Good luck. Keep us updated. Take care.
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I feel sorry for you when I read about your problem. Infertility is the most common problem in a woman now and it can be cured also with some methods. I Know it must be hard for you. I know because I have experienced the same. It is something not easy to handle. However, surrogacy and IVF are the best options. I have had IVF. It was the best choice I ever made. I wish more people consider it. You will spend some time going to appointments But you will manage it. Also, your doc should be able to give you appt dates that way you know when you need to be there ours gave us a list and we went to the days and times he gave us. Good luck, I really hope it works out for you.
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Hi Meera, I see you have found much-needed support here. I realize too that it's not a single person struggle. Do not be consumed by this problem. It's just a fact that your body and mind need to be kept sound. You do need to take up yoga and exercise to soothe your self. I've will definitely help you. You need to believe that it will work. I have been through Ivf. It seems like a lifetime taking all the injections. You need to take Clomid and progesterone shots to prepare your body for the embryo transfer. There are several checkups before the transfer. You and your husband need to be tested. Get diagnosed by the clinic that performs ivf procedure. They will know the appropriate conditions of egg and sperm for fertilization.
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Hello Meera! I feel really bad for what you had to go through during your infertility. This is really sad that we have to face the consequences of it. But you need to stand tall dear! I am suggesting you this amazing clinic that I visit for my treatments. They are very helpful. You should definitely go there and have your check-ups. I am sure that this clinic will help you for sure. I wish you all the best!
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Hi dear. I am really sorry to see your struggle. I think you should visit any of the nearest clinics to find out about the whole procedure. Other than that you can take help from the internet. There are many clinics but I think the clinic at Ukraine is getting the recommendations. I think you should visit the website of the clinic. They are very responsive. I hope you get your matter resolved asap.
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Hey there, how are you? I hope you are doing fine. I am really sorry about your past. Life can be cruel sometimes but one must not give up. Every woman wishes to enjoy the motherhood. It is such a beautiful experience to enjoy. I am infertile and can't carry a baby naturally. It is due to I met an accident and my fallopian tubes got badly damaged. Thanks to these forums, I came to know about surrogacy. The journey to surrogacy was awesome and I still remember how the clinic helped me. Surrogacy is really a blessing for infertile couples. Now I have a complete family. I would like to advise you to go for surrogacy. Thanks and hoping best for everyone.
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I'm sorry to hear about your infertility struggles. They will not be in vain. You will have a fruit from them at the end. First of all, you should get out of this depression thing this will affect your physical and mental health. First, make sure the clinic you are going to contact has a good reputation among all other clinics. Then try to find out the success rate of the clinic. The success rate of clinic matters for a successful treatment. The staff and doctors of the clinic should be professional so your treatment doesn't mess up.
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I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss Meera. I can feel your pain as I am going through the same. Choosing a clinic for any fertility process is not an easy thing. There are so many clinics. For many clinics it is merely a profiting business. This lust and greed compels them to compromise on the client's good. If you are planning to find the best clinic you need to do some extended research. First learn about the legal status of ART in your country. If there is no legal problem then explore all the aspects of the clinic. Find out if they are legally authentic. Go through the client reviews. The success stories tell the story of the reliability. The cost of the procedures must be clearly told. Be careful that there are no hidden charges. This becomes an extra burden in the course of treatment. If you get a chance to meet the clients it would be really great. Personal experiences are far more helpful in making the final choice rather than reading the online reviews. It gives a more relistic picture. Meera dear just remember that accepting the things is not easy. If you stay positive the life can change too. I wish you a vewry happy life.
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Hi Meera! I hope you're doing good. I am so sorry to hear about all your problem. I can feel your pain in your emotions. It's not so easy even to accept this that u can't become a mother, can't give birth to your baby. I have been through all this process when first my doctor told me about my infertility and i felt like i lost all the hopes and will not see this happiness in my whole life ever. But thank God my doctor told me about the IVF and surrogacy as i didn't know much about it before. I am searching on the best clinics for it since last some months but i am not so much satisfied because i heard about many fake clinics who are doing this but are not responsible and people are getting more upset because of all this. Please u too before going for any further process make sure about that clinic and the reviews about that. I will share my experience which will have soon and please u too share with us if u have any. God bless u!
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Hello Meera, I am sorry for your troubles with conceiving. It is really sad to hear about anyone's infertility. IVF works best for those who have good valid eggs with good ovarian reserve. My friend had IVF but failed miserably. Then she went to a fertility clinic located in Europe. After two years of struggles, Finally, she became a mother from surrogacy. Surrogacy is safer than IVF. There are many fertility clinics in Europe. That's provides the best treatment for infertility. I think you consult with your doctor. Your doctor will examine you first. Then suggest you the best treatment. If your egg is safe so IVF is good for you. Otherwise, surrogacy is the best option. Hope everything will fine with you.
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Hello meera. So sad to hear about what you went through. I am also infertile. So i can feel ypur pain! You should try going to best clinics. Work it out. They are indeed many options if one fails. Try everything you can and dont loose hope. Much love to you girl.
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Hi there! I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can understand your pain. But don't worry infertility is not a big issue these days. Many treatments have been introduced for infertility. IVF and surrogacy are good cures for infertility. I was also infertile. I was really depressed. My husband decided that we should go for treatment. One of my friends suggested me a clinic. We went there. I had a son through surrogacy. Surrogacy was the last option for us to have a child. And it is more successful than IVF. It is also less risky than IVF. I am really thankful to that clinic.
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We are in a similar boat as yours. My first IVF cycle didn't work for us. I was really disappointed about that. I really wanted things to work out. However, this time we have switched to another clinic and are visiting a different one. Mainly because with the previous clinic are multiple IUI cycles also didn't work. We are hoping that this cycle would work for us. Before visiting the clinic we did research a lot about them just to make sure the doctors were experienced.
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Hi! I hope you are doing well. IVF is a great treatment. You have nothing to worry about. But for that, you need to find a good clinic with a high success rate. There are many good clinics out there who are providing good services with affordable rates. You just need to do some research. Good luck!
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Good luck to you. I hope you are well. I am glad that you finally decided to visit a clinic for IVF. It is an amazing process. I know so many people who are opting for it. However, make sure to visit a good clinic for the process. It is soo important to make sure that the clinic is experienced and has a high success rate. These things matter a lot.