Infertility

irisjack 1 Posts Sunday December 3, 2017Registration date December 3, 2017 Last seen - Dec 3, 2017 at 07:52 PM - Latest reply:  sidneywhite
- May 18, 2018 at 11:58 AM
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I am really sad and depressed right now. I am a 29-year-old woman. I have been diagnosed withinfertility five years ago. I have tried all the possible solutions. Nothing is working out for me. I have tried IVF but it didn’t work out for me. I have tried it over and over. Now I am done with everything. I am really disappointed now. My gynecologist has suggested me to go for surrogacy as it is the last option I have left. I am not sure about what to do. I really want a baby. Surrogacy is really expensive. I don’t know how I will be able to afford that. What should I do? Is there any other way I can have a baby??I don’t want to adopt. I really want to have my own baby.
Please tell me what can I do? I would really appreciate any suggestions
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prerona30 8 Posts Saturday October 28, 2017Registration date December 13, 2017 Last seen - Dec 13, 2017 at 12:43 PM
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Hello, welcome to the forum. I can only imagine how tough it is for you. My advice for your depression would be that you are your only friend in this. It is your battle and you have to fight it. Surrogacy and adoption are the only two options for you. I understand that you don't want adoption. Surrogacy is expensive but not unachievable. You can save for a while and opt for this particular option. Till then concentrate on your work or find your hobby and keep yourself distracted. You have the power to overcome your depression. Keep hope and faith. Take care.
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lorenaW34 4 Posts Tuesday December 19, 2017Registration date December 19, 2017 Last seen - Dec 19, 2017 at 04:09 PM
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Hello! I am very sorry that you are feeling like that. It's hard to say anything to make you feel better. I know it's hard to collect money for surrogacy. In this difficult times this kind of treatment seems to cost a small fortune. Try to think for a while. Do you have any solution, anyone who can help you achieve this goal? Don't let this put you in depression. You will work something out.
Hello! Nothing is impossible to achieve. Everybody can achieve everything if they want to. Just calm down and think what best can you do to get a baby of your own. Surrogacy is expensive but if you put little effort and cut down your expenses a bit for a while You may go for this process. You can try with some more good doctors as these days infertility is not a very tough issues to solve. If possible try your luck with some more good specialists who will help with time. It might be time consuming but I think you will be able to become a mother. Meanwhile concentrate on something positive in your life to keep your life condition and mood at very high level. This will help you to achieve your goal. All the best and be happy.
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EminaD 13 Posts Tuesday October 24, 2017Registration date January 27, 2018 Last seen - Dec 21, 2017 at 04:35 PM
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I know how hard it is to face the truth that you have infertility issue. All of us are thinking that this can't happen to us. Hope you will find the money for this treatment. It would be hard but maybe you can ask someone who is close to you. I believe that someone will help you to make your dream come true. You will pay it back later. Hope you will succeed. I wish you that with all my heart.
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NorahJ 6 Posts Tuesday October 24, 2017Registration date January 8, 2018 Last seen - Jan 8, 2018 at 03:53 PM
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I don't know how much money you may spent on surrogacy but I will recommend you to try contact with clinic in Ukraine. They have the lowest prices. Hope this information will help you.
48820865 1 Posts Monday January 8, 2018Registration date January 8, 2018 Last seen - Jan 8, 2018 at 07:43 PM
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bella252 12 Posts Thursday December 7, 2017Registration date January 15, 2018 Last seen - Jan 9, 2018 at 06:23 AM
Oh, I can relate your thing now. I think you should be strong for the moment! I know how it feels after the IVF failure. But, more importantly, you need a hope now. I think it's the most important thing in the world to have a child. I think you shouldn't deviate from it. You can take your time. But, you should really have surrogacy. Don't do it now. But, you can save money. I myself have seen couples saving money for years and having results through an IVF or surrogacy process. So, I think you should really take your time in deciding what's important and going for it! I wish you luck! I hope you get a positive decision out of it.
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piahulk 5 Posts Wednesday December 20, 2017Registration date January 10, 2018 Last seen - Jan 10, 2018 at 12:00 AM
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Hello Iris. I just want you to be not depressed for now. I know you're going through a hard time. I know it's not easy to go through it...But, it will pass soon. I know it's not easy to fight infertility. I also applaud you for going through an IVF. I agree with you that surrogacy is an expensive process. But, I think it's worth saving for. I mean you can wait for a time until you get an amount for it. After saving a large amount you can for it! Because It's really an important thing to complete a family. So, I think you should wait. Please, also try clinics, where it's affordable...But, don't opt for India. It's not satisfying there, skip the U.S as it's not affordable. Try clinics in Ukraine, it's pretty affordable there. I know it's hard but It will really help you complete your family dear.
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anna_khor 15 Posts Tuesday January 16, 2018Registration date January 16, 2018 Last seen - Jan 16, 2018 at 01:45 PM
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Hi there. Hope you are in good spirits now. Don’t lose hope. Don’t give up the fight, yet. You have come this far, you have a long way to go. Infertility these days is chosen. Not fate. You are 29-years old. Why don't you go for an IVF treatment? Your chances of success are very high, my dear. If not, go for surrogacy. It is guaranteed and very successful. Fertility clinics are expensive, so you will have to do some research. I am sure you will come up with a good clinic. We all pray for you. Anna.
Tanya_ 4 Posts Sunday February 4, 2018Registration date February 4, 2018 Last seen - Feb 4, 2018 at 07:54 AM
Hi irisjack! I feel so sorry for your situation. I totally understand it as I went through infertility myself And it has been a painful journey. I wish no one had to go through the things that you and me are going through. People just need to take infertility as just a regular problem and should stop ruining their lives over it. What I'm suggesting you is that you should go for surrogacy. I know it must be hard for you to make this decision but I believe that you should go for every option to make yourself happy.
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MelissaKirk 16 Posts Tuesday January 30, 2018Registration date February 7, 2018 Last seen - Feb 4, 2018 at 09:52 PM
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Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm really sorry for your infertility. Having children is probably the best thing ever. A person should consider himself so lucky if he has one. I know you must be feeling very sad and depressed. You must be very strong. You're coping with such a situation. I'm surprised that you're even not getting any results from IVF. But the one thing I noticed here, is the hope you have. I'm really glad that you're not giving up. Yes, if nothing's happening then surrogacy can surely help you. It gives a chance of having children to those who can't. You're right that it's expensive. But you're already wasting your money on IVF again and again and again. I don't think that there is an alternative for it. It's the best option for you. I hope everything gets in the right way for you. Take care of yourself. Much love.
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Adile_ 4 Posts Monday February 5, 2018Registration date February 6, 2018 Last seen - Feb 6, 2018 at 10:48 AM
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Hi dear! I see your situation and I can totally relate to you on so many levels. I went through infertility for like 10 years. I kept my faith and never stopped trying. The last thing that you wanna do when you are going through things like this is give up on yourself and your body. Dear you need some good motivation to keep moving right now. If your doctor says that you should go for surrogacy I say you go for it I honestly wouldn't stop at any chance if I were you.
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hey irisjack!!!! I don’t know how to console you and give a suitable suggestion according to your mindset. It is a really tough job in the world to tell someone that is better as compared to this. Frankly speaking, I am really sorry for your situation. I can’t imagine how much disturb you are because it’s pretty easy to read few lines instead of experiencing it. So you have made your mind that surrogacy is an expensive treatment. It’s not as costly as you are thinking. There are different clinics who are working or dealing with their patients at economy packages also. Don’t be afraid and move on. Nothing will happen by sitting at that place. You have to do something. Best of luck!!!
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jenn945 17 Posts Friday February 2, 2018Registration date February 22, 2018 Last seen - Feb 8, 2018 at 12:20 PM
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hey there! I am sad to hear that you have to go through all of this in your life.A WOMANS DREAM IS TO HAVE A CHILD OF HER OWN since she is born and not getting the opportunity really shatters her inside and her soul.I know you must have gone through all the possible procedures and doctors opinions to have reached this point.IVF may be the solution to a few but not to many.In my opinion, surrogacy has much to offer to omen like us who are unable to conceive and are waiting for a miracle.Well!! this is your miracle.If you want your child to share your traits you can have this done and you will have the experience of pregnancy may it be indirectly so it has a lot of perks.You must look into all the possible ways of getting a child if you cannot have yours.Look into the internet I am sure you will find more answers to your questions soon.Adoption is being helpful but getting your own child is more important.
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Hello,I understand that life is treating you so hard. At this time the only question we are left with is why? why me? But there is a bright day after a dark night. if you are not able to conceive don't complicate your life with such thoughts. Everything is possible because of modern technologies. If surrogacy is the only option you are left with? than do it!! Just don't overthink getting your own baby on any cost is worth it. Whether it is emotionally or financially. S I suggest you to be more concerned about treatment for surrogacy.And stay hopeful because miracle happens!!
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pheobe412 98 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date May 21, 2018 Last seen - Feb 9, 2018 at 12:32 AM
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Hey there. So sorry for your condition. What could we do. This is life. we have to admit it's rudeness and sweetness. Just take care allot pf yourself. There are other methods as well. Best of luck. Try them.
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Rhuma123 4 Posts Friday February 2, 2018Registration date February 10, 2018 Last seen - Feb 9, 2018 at 12:19 PM
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Hey lorenaW34!!! I am agreed with one thing that you said in your post. It’s really hard for a couple who is living with his parents to collect such a huge amount of treatment. An average person can’t afford it. He lives hand to mouth hard. That’s why most of the people don’t rush out for surrogacy and adopt a child. they think it a better thing instead of wasting their money and time. And this phenomenon makes people depressed and they blame for themselves or their husband who can’t afford such a big amount. I am saying because I am also in the same boat with you. feeling depressed!!!
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Alessia.Violet 45 Posts Sunday January 21, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - Apr 2, 2018 at 01:21 PM
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Really sorry to hear what you are going through. I know it can really be difficult to decide what to do when nothing is working out. Well, your doctor is right. Surrogacy is the only option that is left. It will help you have a kid who is genetically yours. Money and the expenses attached to these procedures are definitely something that is a problem. One of the reasons I had to do a lot of research. I wanted to opt for a clinic which wasn't that expensive but also was doing a good job. I find this clinic through the recommendation of various people. However, I did my own research about them as well. The clinic offers two packages and you can choose the one according to your financial ability. So far my experience with them has been great. I tell all my friends that there focus is more on providing good results. Also, they are inexpensive but they are providing soo many services. So I am really satisfied my suggestion to you would research and find a reasonable clinic. Sending lots of baby dust your way.
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Alana90 31 Posts Monday March 26, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - Apr 4, 2018 at 01:06 PM
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Hey!
How are you doing?
Your gynecologist has made an appropriate suggestion. As If you are saying that there is no other option left and you are no looking for adoption than surrogacy is the only way left behind.
All infertility treatments are supposed to be expensive. As they require, expertise and modern scientific techniques.
Basically, if you want that child should be genetically yours than surrogacy is the valid approach for this.
You either go for traditional or gestational surrogacy procedure.
In gestational surrogacy, an embryo is created using intended father’s sperm and intended mother’s eggs. And resulting child is genetically related to both parents.
This is what you are looking for. Right?
And if you feel this too much costly then you might travel to places where they offer this treatment at reasonable prices.
Make a fair selection.
Good luck.
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HanRIchie 22 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date April 12, 2018 Last seen - Apr 5, 2018 at 09:33 PM
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I'm sorry you have to go through this troubling time. I really wish it was easy for everyone to conceive. It isn't though, sadly. I myself had complications. I have no uterus. I got removed due to cancerous polyps. After much moping, I turned to surrogacy upon enlightenment. I was doubtful at first but I'm glad I went for it. It's changed my life for the better. I really would recommend it. I think you should look into clinics in Europe. They really are a lot more reasonable than the ones here in America. Less than 50% the price! I think you'll benefit from it. Give it a good search. It'll be worth it, I promise. My little girl is proof. Good luck!
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BellaJones998 18 Posts Friday April 6, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - Apr 6, 2018 at 09:03 AM
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Hey there. How are things going? I hope they are going well. I know how you must be feeling. Seeing everything fail is very harsh for your health. I have had this issue too. I know its very hard to cope with. However, don't repeat my mistake. Surrogacy is great.It's really helpful. Its a blessing of science. I would suggest you be calm and go for it. It helps you in getting your happiness back. Wish you good luck. I hope to hear more soon. Take care.
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nur_atikson 32 Posts Friday March 23, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - Apr 6, 2018 at 11:25 AM
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Hi @irisjack, glad to see you here. you have come to the right place and I’m sure that you shall get some useful opinion. Dear, I felt deep grief while listening to your story. You are really facing critical circumstances and worst condition you are in. becoming a mother is the biggest desire of a woman. She prepares herself for years for this. but when she comes to know that it would be impossible for her to have children, it’s heartbreaking. Even after having so much tries you got no success. But happy for you as you never gave up. Your doctor has suggested you the very optimal solution. Surrogacy is a very well known and commonly practiced treatment nowadays. Success rates in surrogacy are very high. Though, it’s expensive but much more fruitful than other treatments like IVF. I have read about some clinic from here which are offering surrogacy treatment infinite times in economic rates. They will provide you other facilities like your stay, assistance and guarantee too. hope that you will get your destiny soon.
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Hi! Nothing is difficult to accomplish. Everyone can accomplish everything on the off chance that they need to. Simply quiet down and think what best would you be able to do to get your very own child. Surrogacy is costly however in the event that you put little exertion and chop down your costs a bit for some time You may go for this procedure. You can attempt with some more great specialists as nowadays fruitlessness isn't an extremely intense issue to unravel. On the off chance that conceivable attempt your fortunes with some more great pros who will help with time. It may be tedious yet I figure you will have the capacity to end up a mother. In the interim focus on something positive in your life to keep your life condition and disposition at abnormal state. This will help you to accomplish your objective. All the best and be upbeat.
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claudiopeters 35 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - May 13, 2018 at 06:56 AM
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Hey Iris. I hope you're doing well. I feel really bad for your situation. It must have been awful to go through so many disappointments. Please don't lose hope. Keep the faith. Keep going. You have another option in IUI. It's a decent option to pursue. I would suggest you go for surrogacy though. It is expensive, no doubt. But there are cheaper clinics, especially in Europe. They are really good, and quality of their work isn't affected by their low prices. Save up, and go for it! Good luck.
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