I will not be able to have a baby ever

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Good day everyone. How are you all? My husband and I were TTC for a long time. I was unable to get pregnant. I was really worried. I was trying for last three years. A new ray of hope was raised when I missed my period. I started feeling nausea. I took the pregnancy test. I found out that I was pregnant. I was over the sky. All my happiness turned into sorrow when I had a MC during my third month. I was devastated. It has been 6 months since MC. MC broke me both emotionally and physically. I am trying again but unable to conceive. I feel like I will not be able to have a baby ever.
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Hello, welcome to the forum. I am very sorry to hear this but I can say this much that all the best cups are chipped. All this which has happened to you is unbearable. I can understand your pain but I am surely far from feeling it. A MC is a setback and you can try again positively. You can keep trying or you can take other options into consideration as well. Don't lose hope and faith. Emotions right now will be overpowering but you will get through it and get positive results. Don't worry and take care.
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I am so sorry about your condition. I understand how you feel. It's not over yet. It's over only then when you give up. Keep on trying. Try to learn what are your other opions. In this modern times there are many other solutions for those who are unable to conceive. Don't lose hope.
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I agree with Lorena. You have other solutions. I special clinics you can choose the best treatment for you. Every case is different and I don't know what would be the best for you. That's why you must contact a clinic and explain the doctors your situation. They will be able to help you. Try not to worry so much. I think your situation is not hopeless.
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I am so sorry about your lost. Hope your are feeling a little bit better now. It is hard to go on after such a loss but you must. You must find strength and keep on trying. You have a chance to conceive after MC. If not, don't throw away other options. Have an open mind and find the best way for you. I wish you good luck and all the best in life.
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Hello there. I am so sorry to hear about your condition. I hope you are feeling well now. Are you diagnosed with this issue? Had a specialist told you this? If yes, still don't give up hope. You can have baby the other way. Surrogacy is the best option. You can find someone who is willing to be your surrogate or you can let a clinic find a healthy and fit surrogate for your baby. It is up to you. Surrogacy is guaranteed and safe. The babies are completely fine. They don’t have any issues in the bodies or anything. So, you can do some bit of research yourself on Surrogacy, find a good clinic and dive in! I am sure; in no time, you will be having your very own bundle of joy. Anna.
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I am so sorry to hear about this. I hope you are feeling better than before. I know this must be hard. I had a relative go through this when she was trying to conceive. She met with a specialist and she gave her options such as; adoption, and surrogacy. She also told them to keep trying. Don’t lose hope. You will have a baby one day. My prayers are with you. Take care!
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Hi Nicol, I am so sorry to hear what has happened to you. But don’t lose hope. It’s not over yet. I know dealing with Miscarriage is not easy and especially when you got that chance after TTC for so long. But in today’s advanced technology there are many options available. Be positive and consult some good fertility expert. I am hopeful you will get positive news soon. Take care of yourself and good luck
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Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm really sorry for your mc. It's really the worst thing ever. A family is everything a person needs. It's a blessing. In fact, children are a blessing. Those who have it easily without any pain are really lucky about it. Having the happiness of getting pregnant is so wonderful. And then having mc is worst too. So you really need to be so strong. Yes, you should ttc again. Hope never dies. You're thinking it the wrong way that you can't do anything. You can. You also tried hard for the first time to have it. You can try again this time too. Don't worry. If you could do that in the past, you can still do it. So relax. You'll be fine. I wish you the best of luck for your future. You just need to stay strong and hopeful. Everything will be okay then. Much love!
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Hi nicolamike! I am so sorry to hear about everything that you're going through. But dear instead of losing hope and getting depressed you should try to be strong. I have went through this. And it made me nothing but stronger. Although I am fertile now but there was a time when I thought that this is the end of the world for me. So take my advice and look for your options and try all of them until you succeed.
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Hey there! Don't be disheartened. Try opting for other methods through which one can conceive. IVF is a great method to opt for. The procedure is pretty simple. Sperm and egg are combined in a lab and then the embryo is inserted back into the woman's uterus. It is a whole cycle. The person usually is able to get pregnant in the 3rd to 6th week. Try discussing these options with your doctor. As he would know better about you. Best of luck! Hope things go right. There is no need to be sad! There are better things planned. Just stay positive.
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Hi Dear, I am honestly so sorry for you. But as far as I have understood your problem you are taking so much stress into your conceiving thing. I know and I agree with you not being able to get pregnant can eat you up but yourself have to take care of yourself. I know it feels like the end of the world but trust me it's not. As you are into this thing you might be aware of all the different kind of treatments that are being offered for such cases you can go for IVF or you can go for surrogacy but don't let infertility stop you from being happy. You should try each and every option that you have in front of you before you find the right solution. It has been 10 years since I got married and I was declared infertile in my very first attempt of getting pregnant but here I am now. I am 10 weeks pregnant just because I kept my faith. If you are looking for a miracle you should do the same.
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hey, their stranger I am doing better then I was before but thanks for asking :D. It must have been really hard for you to lose a child, I have gone through the exact same thing and trust me it I know exactly how you feel right now.Why do you sound so cynical though? Did you know around 25% of pregnancies are MC? that is a huge number. I would recommend to other ladies also reading this that if you have gone through a miscarriage you should probably take a break for a year or so and give your body time to recover especially if you were more then 3 months into it. Your body gets damaged a lot and needs time to recover. Try taking honey water with apple cider everyday it helps in recovery. Other than that there is no need to be cynical a lot of women get to have a family after an MC do not be alarmed. You can still go for IVF cycles if you are not succeeding, but keep trying.Take care of yourself and much love.byebye.
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hello nicolamike!!! I read your post and I was happy first then all my happiness was ruined when I read that you had an MC. It’s really a disheartening thing for a woman. When you are trying your best and don’t get success then it feels like you have not worth and useless for this world. After first pregnant, most of the woman lose their hopes and decide that they will never try again. They can’t forget that moment. Even though you have more kids but your first kid has its importance its own. So don’t lose hope. hopelessness is not a good thing. You know when we lose our most important things that matter a lot then in return we get more suitable and good things. So just forget it as considering it your bad dream and move on in life. Your age is not as if you become hopeless. Dear may you have pregnancy soon and successful journey. Thanks!!!!
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hey Aliya865 !!! you have used too much short terms. Please avoid using these abbreviations because someone defines it in his/her sense and other defines it in some other way. If you have sex in the three days leading up to until the ovulation day, then according to doctors you have 27-33% chances of getting pregnancy soon. With this aspect, the probability and chances of pregnancy decline rapidly day after a day. 12 to 24 hours after your ovulation you will no longer able to get pregnant during that cycle or within that cycle. Once you finished this you have to start your cycle from a new point and your efforts will start. Hope so you got your result what you were asking about. If not, then clearly mention within your post free from acronyms and jargons. Best wishes!!!
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Hi there, I hope you are doing alright. May you get well soon dear. Try to take care allot of yourself these days. You miss read the situation only nothing else. Late in period is not always a sign of getting pregnant. It could be anything. Most of the times it happened due to stress. Stress is the main reason of this thing. I think you just need to be relax in your situations. Don't worry everything will be fine. Best of luck. Try again and again. Everything will be alright. Take care allot dear. Best of luck.
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hello amenda123!!! I am happy to see that many people on this forum try to answer every question. If they don’t know when they try to condole them. Just because they care each other. They are not doing this for the sake of money. So you have explained well about TTC. As I always remain confused between two terms TTC and IVF. Yes, things are planned for us. Our job is pretty simple. We have to make prayers for them and wait to see invisible things happening visibly. Thanks!!!
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Let's just not think that. You are worrying for a no reason. Have you tried all the methods. Are you done with all the tests. Have you clearly been through all the cycles. No right. Than how could you say never. Don't worry my friend. It's nothing never. You just have to be strong and go for other methods. Everything will be fine. Just be good.
pheobe412 I am also trying to say this to her. That life is still there. You don’t need to worry about. Things are worst at this time but not always. This is the time for your real test. Your turn is not right now. You have to wait. Because it’s natural rule that those who wait for a long time are rewarded with the best thing beyond their expectations. God bless you.
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Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm really really sorry for your mc. Miscarriage is a thing that breaks a woman completely. The family is a really important thing. Everyone deserves to be happy and have one. It's the basic right of everyone. And It's really heartbreaking and disappointing at the same time for a woman to experience a mc. Don't lose hope. You shouldn't think like this. Whatever happens, happens for a good reason. I think you shouldn't waste your time now. You should directly go for surrogacy without wasting any more time. You have already suffered too much. Even I experienced this procedure myself. I was too devasted and tired of continuously trying. I went to Ukraine for surrogacy program. I went with my sister and husband. We first searched a lot about the surrogacy programs in Ukraine. The whole process healed me from my past experiences. And my views towards the procedure were completely changed after going through this. The staff and the doctors were So kind there. I'm blessed with a child now. So I think that you should go for it too. I hope that this helps you. Take care of yourself. Much love.
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hey dear ,i hope you are doing fine.I know that it is hard.It is really harder after the miscarriage to bear the pain.Sometimes you just cannot hold it all in.It takes time to build up all the strength inside.But what is the main cause of it?Have you ever consulted a doctor?.Don't you think that he would help you in a better way.If not then I will give you some suggestions.You must go looking for procedures like IUI, IVF or Surrogacy.I have recently found out of surrogacy.One of my friends had it done from a clinic in Ukraine and she has 2 daughters now.Her life is happier than ever.I am myself going to try it.I hope you fond your answers in this procedure as well.Best of luck!.Much love and support.
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one more thing did your friends surrogate conceive twins?Well, it's either that or they must be really rich.To have gone through surrogacy twice, God bless them.I have been thinking of doing assisted pregnancy for quite some time now.To be honest the major issue is the cost too much.I mean to take care of all the bills and to save like 80-90k for surrogacy.This seems unlikely in my case at least.Thank you for sharing your story though, much love.
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Hey Nicola! Don't think like that. Miscarriages can happen, but that doesn't mean that you can never become a mother. I tried for 5 years hon! Even had 1 miscarriage. TTC for 5 years and nothing happened. But thanks to this modern medical era. Everything is possible now. If you're not able to become a mother naturally. There are other ways for you to become a mother. Like IVF or even surrogacy. I went for surrogacy because I was tired of trying now. And thank God it worked out for me. The clinic was just so good. Their treatment and staff everything was just beyond perfection. Think positive to make things positive. Good Luck! Much Love!
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