I will not be able to have a baby ever

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- - Latest reply:  Gilbert_6706 - Apr 22, 2019 at 02:57 PM
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Good day everyone. How are you all? My husband and I were TTC for a long time. I was unable to get pregnant. I was really worried. I was trying for last three years. A new ray of hope was raised when I missed my period. I started feeling nausea. I took the pregnancy test. I found out that I was pregnant. I was over the sky. All my happiness turned into sorrow when I had a MC during my third month. I was devastated. It has been 6 months since MC. MC broke me both emotionally and physically. I am trying again but unable to conceive. I feel like I will not be able to have a baby ever.
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Oh so sorry.I am feeling so sad to know about your loss.I knew it's so tough to handle, after 3 years you got pregnant.But time was not right, your fate is not with you.I can understand your condition.I have also had this same situation at last year.I got pregnant naturally with lots of sufferings and trying.Unfortunately, I was facing miscarriage when I was 14 weeks pregnant.This is the worst day in my life.Totally, I was out of my mind.I am admitted one week in the hospital.But somehow, there is always some happiness after sadness.I am trying to next time with surrogacy because I was in that condition to take the risk any more.Now I had my daughter.She is the world greatest blessing for me.I hope you have better success in future.Best of luck.
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Don't just worry about that if your doctor is a specialist and you trust him than just follow up his schedule which he is giving to you, Of course he has all the details of your case So I think the best option is following him and on the other hand what you just said about your period then you have to keep that in mind that you are on prescribed medicine of course something it should effect, just don't worry about that once you are finished the process the problem is going to get away. Just try to use ovulation sticks for knowing accurately and consult this period and ovulation clashed thing with your doctor immediately.
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M/Cs leaves nothing but sadness and sorrow. I empathize with you on your loss. But don't lose hope. Just hang in there. You will have your own babies. Stay hopeful and positive. Lots of baby dust on your way. Much love.
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Hello, Dear, don’t lose hope. As there is always a way out from your problems. Life is the name of challenges. Just face the challenges with such a strong power that everyone appreciates you. If you can’t conceive naturally. Then don’t worry. There are many other ways too. Today, many ladies are facing the problem of infertility. Those who keep strong will get something good in future. And those who lose heart remain empty handed. I am sure you have searched a lot for your problem at different forums. And I am sure you have gone through multiple information as well. My advise is that whatever decision you are gonna take, do proper research on it. Then consult with doctors. And have faith on God. I am sure one day, you will be a mommy of beautiful kids soon. Good luck!
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I am not going to tell you to stay calm and don't think about it too much I know I can't exactly feel what you're going through rn but i do understand your fears and concerns for your married life trust me it's so different now with high technology and all the new procedures it is not difficult anymore to have a child you'll be given several options choose the one you think is suitable for you there are procedures like IVF, IUI, and surrogacy, keep the pros and cons of everything in your mind and consult your doctor, take opinions and then go for the best suitable option. Nothing to be afraid of, you're young so you will not face many problems during the procedure, take care of your health do some yoga to keep your mind at peace and then give it a thought because babies who're born through such procedures are as normal as other babies. May God bless you!!
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Hello there. Hope you're doing well. I'm so sorry. This is an awful story. I'm sure you're absolutely devastated. However, trust me, all is not lost. Please keep the faith. Don't lose hope, ever. There are a lot of ways to have a baby. It's 2018! Science has progressed a long way. You can always go for surrogacy or even IVF. Both the methods are safe and have been successful for a lot of people. I hope this helps you make a decision. Good luck!
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Hey, I am so sorry for you. I know miscarriages are so hard to overcome but sometimes it is in fate. You cannot fight your destiny. Dear, Miscarriages are so devastating I know. Losing an unborn is not easy. I had 3 miscarriages in the early year of my marriage. After that I was infertile. My husband supported me a lot. He never showed but he really wanted a baby. We went for the treatments but failed. My DH decided to go for surrogacy. I was agreed because the fault was with me. I wanted a baby badly too. So at the last resort, we went for it. We went for surrogacy to a reputed place and after all the hard time we had a baby. I was so happy that I have a baby that belongs to me biologically.
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Oh! I feel so sorry for you. I know it would be so hurtful to you. I was also not able to conceive. I have gone through this pain too. I was infertile due to cervix incompetence and I never knew that. I was so upset and suffered a lot because of all this. I was so disappointed. I went for treatment too but nothing could help. I wasted 10 years. IVF and IUI were really a disaster for me. They failed due to poor egg quality I decided to go for the unnatural process. I thought about IVF but it was impossible in my condition to be successful. I made to go for surrogacy. I went for it to a clinic in Europe. I made my mind for this because I heard a lot of success stories of the clinic. I never thought of becoming a mother but surrogacy gave me a chance and now I am blessed with a baby.
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Hi Nicol! I am so sorry to hear your story. I know how hard infertility can be a girl but just hang in there. I have also been through this situation in my life. After TTC for 2 years and 2 failed IVF, I was left heartbroken. Infertility can be very hard to deal with. I feel for you. Don't give up hope. Have heard about surrogacy? It might be able to help you out. I helped me out. I now have a baby girl because of surrogacy. i wish you the best of luck
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Hey Nicola! Don't think that way! Yes! You still have chances! Stay strong! Why don't you try IUI, IVF or any assisted procedure? I'm sorry for your loss. But, you need to make some really strong decision and don't lose hope. You can still be a mother. I'm also trying via surrogacy this year. Yes! you know that completing a family is so important for us.
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It is really a difficult thing to cope with. You were trying really hard but the things are not doing great for you. It must have been a pleasure to get pregnant after being ttc for a long time. It is really sad that you lost your dream in the very early stages. MC at this stage is tormenting. I hope that you will soon come to terms with the situation. It will be a great thing to learn how to live with the grief and loss. Wishing you all the best in the future.
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You are just thinking like that. It's not that you are not going to have it again ever. Just don't think like that. Everything is alright my friend. What if you are unable to conceive naturally. you had enough grief for that right. Now it's time to move on. Don't worry everything is going to be alright for you. There are several methods that could help you in many possible ways. Just have a look at them. Forget your worries.
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Hello darling. How are you? Don't lose hope so soon. You have other solutions. I special clinics you can choose the best treatment for you. Every case is different and I don't know what would be the best for you. That's why you must contact a clinic and explain the doctors your situation. They will be able to help you. Try not to worry so much. I think your situation is not hopeless. Take care. I wish you health.
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hey there. stay strong. I'm really sorry for your miscarriage. It's really the worst thing ever. A family is everything a person needs. It's a blessing. In fact, children are a blessing. Those who have it easily without any pain are really lucky about it. Having the happiness of getting pregnant is so wonderful. And then having mc is worst too. So you really need to be so strong. Yes, you should ttc again. Hope never dies. You're thinking it the wrong way that you can't do anything. You can. You also tried hard for the first time to have it.Don’t worry something good is going to come up for you, dear. I don’t think you need to worry about this anymore. Now, you are here, Everyone is with you. We all are here. much prayers
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hello dear. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it must be hard. I can understand you. I'm here to support you. try going for surrogacy or IV. best of luck. lots of love. bye, hun.
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Hi Nicole! How are you? Hope you are doing great. I am so sorry for you dear and I can relate to the pain you must be going through. I am also infertile and know what it is like to be barren. Just don’t give up hope and hang in there. Have you thought about trying alternative methods to start a family? Methods such as surrogacy or IVF. I would recommend that you research them by yourself and see if that is something you are willing to try. Everyone deserves to have a child of their own and we must not stop ourselves from trying something that can make us happy. I also opted for surrogacy from Ukraine as my way out of infertility and I am glad to tell you that I am now a mother of a baby girl that I had through surrogacy. I wish you the best of luck. I hope everything works out for you too. Take care.
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Reaching conclusions is not the right thing. You were TTC, you conceived and then you had a miscarriage. This does not mean that you are infertile. There can be other complications. If you reach the real cause then the things can be easy to deal with. Get yourself priperly checked. Consult a doctor for guidance. Unnecessary stress would make things worse.
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Dear desperate mom, it is really hard to accept the reality of being infertile. You have mentioned the harsh truth of facing the pain of infertility. It is such a painful thing that I don't have words to console you. I was once the member of this infertility clubs. When the things were going out of hand, I picked up the option of choosing surrogacy as my option leading to motherhood. Today I feel honored to get my dream. If you are thinking of trying the surrogacy option then it is really great.
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I am so sorry about your condition. I understand how you feel. It's not over yet. It's over only then when you give up. Keep on trying. Try to learn what are your other opinions. In this modern times, there are many other solutions for those who are unable to conceive. Don't lose hope.
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Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm really sorry about your mc. It's really the worst thing ever. A family is everything a person needs. It's a blessing. In fact, children are a blessing. Those who have it easily without any pain are really lucky about it. Having the happiness of getting pregnant is so wonderful. And then having mc is worst too. So you really need to be so strong. Yes, you should TTC again. Hope never dies. You're thinking it the wrong way that you can't do anything. You can. You also tried hard for the first time to have it. You can try again this time too. Don't worry. If you could do that in the past, you can still do it. So relax. You'll be fine. I wish you the best of luck in your future. You just need to stay strong and hopeful. Everything will be okay then. Much love!
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