I have nothing left now

jialake 6 Posts Tuesday January 9, 2018Registration date January 12, 2018 Last seen - Jan 9, 2018 at 11:35 PM - Latest reply:  Messiam
- Oct 15, 2018 at 12:05 PM
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Hi there everyone, My life is over. I have nothing left now. I have no reason to live. I can't ever become mother now. I don't know what should I do. Where do I go. I never thought that this day would come in my life. My husband is trying to give me support but I know that deep inside he is feeling this too. I think he is going to leave me now. I don't know what to do. I am receiving love from everywhere but I think it is leaving no effect on me. I wish I could become pregnant. Please give me some hope. What should I do guys. Please help me. Tell me some other ways. Help me.
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Isabeloliver 3 Posts Sunday January 14, 2018Registration date January 14, 2018 Last seen - Jan 14, 2018 at 04:17 PM
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Dear lady,
The desperation will lead you nowhere. Have you tried to find out the cause of your infertility? In fact, have you verified it from authentic sources that you can't -- ever become a mother? Nowadays, there are too many medical errors. This could be a false negative. In your case, I mean. What you can do is first run multiple tests and that also from leading organizations. If they yield true negatives, then still -- No Need To Lose Your Calm.
Since you mention, there definitely are other ways of having a child. That also of one's own. The process involves some artificiality. But you'd still be the biological mother at least. And your husband will also be the natural father of the child. There's IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) suggested in many such medical cases historically. The IVF had been a successful treatment to hopeless couples. However, there are cases where the couple may not have a chance even with the IVF. If yours is such a case, then surrogacy is a better option for you. If a child is all that you want. The market is growing. And you can find multiple centers nowadays to help you get involved with surrogacy. Go and give yourself the gift of a child. <3
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anna_khor 15 Posts Tuesday January 16, 2018Registration date January 16, 2018 Last seen - Jan 16, 2018 at 01:07 PM
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Hi there. Hope you are feeling better now. Listen, being depressed will do you no good. Just relax. Breath. There are so many Medical advancements in the world; why are you not looking out for them? An IVF treatment, Surrogacy, etc. You have not shared your cause of infertility. Is it natural or due to some complications that you cannot conceive? Have you had yourself tested by specialist? Losing hope will make you bitterer. There might still be a good chance that you can be a mother, only if you explore your options. An IVF treatment is a good option. Chance of its success rate depends on the age on the one conceiving. You had not mentioned your age as well. If you are 34 or younger; your chances of conceiving through an IVF treatment are more than 80%. If you are older than 34; leave IVF as its success rate declines for goof 40%. You will waste your time and money. Simply go for Surrogacy. I know someone who was a surrogate mother and believe me the baby is as healthy as conceived by his own mother. Just don't give u. Do some researches and go for options best suited for you. We will all pray for you. Anna.
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Chanalxnie 4 Posts Friday February 2, 2018Registration date February 2, 2018 Last seen - Feb 2, 2018 at 05:31 PM
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I'm confused??
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NatashaLiam 98 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date August 22, 2018 Last seen - Mar 5, 2018 at 10:45 AM
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Don't worry today every problem has a solution.You just have to look for it.As you can't have a baby of your own but you can have a baby via surrogacy.It is the common way of having a baby now adays. You should research about clinics providing surrogacy services. Surrogacy is only for women like us who can't have baby. Research about some good clinics regarding surrogacy. Contact them share your problem with them and listen to them. They will help you through every step to have you a baby. Plus you've have baby of your own DNA sample.
I'm also going for surrogacy. I also can't have a baby form my own womb. So we will find a good surrogate mom to carry our child in her womb.
Wish you good luck.
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Nicolebill123 29 Posts Monday March 5, 2018Registration date August 23, 2018 Last seen - Mar 14, 2018 at 07:32 AM
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Hi dear. Just calm down yourself. I think you are over thinking. You are very sensitive I think. You should be relaxed. Think about the alternatives you have. You can go for a lot of options. Just relax and talk to your doctor. You can go for IVF or surrogacy. I wish you the best.
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"jialake don’t say that. It’s too much disappointing feeling. You should control these feelings to come again in your mind. You have a reason to live. Your life goal is not achieved yet. You know we all are alive here because we have to achieve some mission. We are supposed to do something that is set by nature. Once we fulfill that need then your soul will depart you alone in this universe. Our result and conclusion depend on our hope and thoughts. Keep your level high. Don’t think that she is a mom that’s why saying to me these sentences. No, I am also suffering infertility. Infertility doesn’t mean we ruin our life. Why we don’t think towards the solution. This is because it’s human nature to see the worse side of reality and assume that their luck is not good.
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alisa123 89 Posts Monday February 19, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Mar 15, 2018 at 06:19 AM
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Hey there Jia. I feel sorry for you, dear. But with this attitude, you can't face the problems life throws at you. Be strong and develop a positive attitude. Stressing over these things and being upset will lead you nowhere. Infertility is a terrible thing a person has to suffer from. But dear, there are many treatments available to cure infertility. Why don't you try considering IVF or surrogacy? Both are trending nowadays as infertility is very common now. Research clinics around the world who have high success rates in treating infertility. Go to different forums and read the success stories of different couples. They are the ones who didn't give up and now are living a happy life. You could be one of them too. Don't lose hope. Everything is going to be fine. I hope you become a mother very soon. Good Luck! Sending tons of baby dust your way.
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sophia098 6 Posts Tuesday March 13, 2018Registration date March 17, 2018 Last seen - Mar 15, 2018 at 11:33 AM
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Hey, Don't be so hopeless. This is not the end of the world. You have many other choices to have babies. IVF and surrogacy are successful procedures. I would suggest you go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is your last option because it is more successful than IVF. You can have your own genetic child. Don't waste time If you want to be a mother. I know a clinic You should give it a try.
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SashaMarcus 96 Posts Tuesday January 30, 2018Registration date August 19, 2018 Last seen - Mar 15, 2018 at 01:01 PM
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Hi Dear! Don't panic or feel sad! There is nothing to be devastated of! It's not your fault. Well, I know it's tensing but still, you have a chance to go with. I know it's hard to accept the fact of infertility at first. Well, I'm also a TTC for 5 years. I know how it feels. I've been trying so hard but still, no hope left. This year I'm going for an IVF at repro center in Ukraine. Because I still wanna try every last way. I am hopeful that this might be my way out of this misery. So, yes! I'd also advise you to seek other options you have...Stay blessed and calm...xx
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MaryJones998 29 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date August 19, 2018 Last seen - Mar 15, 2018 at 01:54 PM
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope it's going well. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. There are many other ways to get your happiness back. Why don't you try surrogacy or IVF? Don't lose hope. Don't blame your self. Think Positive and positive will happen. Good luck.
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sophia098 6 Posts Tuesday March 13, 2018Registration date March 17, 2018 Last seen - Mar 17, 2018 at 11:55 AM
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hey, hope you doing fine. Don't lose hope you have any choices in your life. This is not the end of the world. It is not your fault but If you are not going to choose something good for you that would be your fault. After my 3 miscarriages, I was so broken and tore apart. My husband was so supportive of me. He was so confident that there would be any way to be happy parents. I was not in favor of IVF because it is not so successful as well as it is a painful process. I selected surrogacy and I think that was the right decision of my life. I have a daughter now. My family is completed. I would recommend this to everyone to every upset couple. But the only thing that should be kept in mind that just go to the right clinic. The success of surrogacy depends upon the staff of the clinic. They should be professional and experienced.
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marywilliam 7 Posts Thursday January 18, 2018Registration date March 25, 2018 Last seen - Mar 25, 2018 at 09:17 PM
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Hi beautiful lady.Don't lose the hope.Try to think positive.Your thoughts give you a better time.If you need to have a good time.You must believe in good things.Your negative thoughts really affect your conceiving condition.Yes, I knew there should be important than having some moral support.Infertility is the worst thing in the world.Recently, after trying all the medications and experiencing different methods.there should be one method is left.And that is the IVF process.With this process, I am becoming the mother of my lovely kid.Being a mother, I knew how much it's important to have the child in life.Children are the great blessing.
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pheobe412 178 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Mar 29, 2018 at 04:30 AM
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Hey, don't worry. Everything will be fine dear. Of course, there are other methods as well. It could help you a lot. You just need to be strong and relaxed. It's just the matter of time. Everything is going to be well. Just wait and keep patience.
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Monika966 58 Posts Saturday March 17, 2018Registration date August 14, 2018 Last seen - Mar 29, 2018 at 07:57 AM
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Don't worry or be sad.Everything has a solution today.there is no need to be sad or alone.I am also infertile.But i found the solution to my infertility.You should also find a solution to your infertility.I moved to Ukraine from japan for this.There we contacted a clinic.The clinic helped us.Now the surrogate mother is pregnant with our two daughters.we are so happy.
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nur_atikson 88 Posts Friday March 23, 2018Registration date August 18, 2018 Last seen - Apr 2, 2018 at 04:38 PM
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Hi mate, I felt deep grief while reading what has happened to you. First of all, dear keep calm and get relaxed. Don’t think too much as this will cause you mental stress. Now listen, life is not ended away as there is still some hope left. Most important thing is that you have the support of everyone. You can go for some most worked treatments like surrogacy. I’m sure that you will get your desire through it. Be happy and live long!
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Emilykingston - Apr 4, 2018 at 02:47 PM
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I know how unbearable it becomes for a woman to see everyone having babies. It feels so empty from inside. Like a hollow ball. You said you had your babies via surrogacy? How was your experience? I am feeling the same emptiness hun. I can not have a baby naturally. I wanna consider my options now. I am open to the idea of surrogacy. I am scared though. Your expertise will mean a lot. Now, why does your sister doesn't accept it? She has a live example of the family. Have you talked to her? Is she scared too? Does she wanna carry the baby herself. If yes then she can go for IVF. It will help her too.
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HanRIchie 45 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Apr 5, 2018 at 09:01 PM
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Hi there! Please don't be this upset. It hurts me to see you like this. Losing hope. I want you to keep it together, please. Everything will get better. I promise. There are so many that face infertility issues. You're not alone in this. I think you should try going for an IVF. It really helps many. Some clinics even offer multiple tries til success. That would really be worth the money. If not that, then you could try out surrogacy. I have experience of that myself too. I can vouch for it. It's been amazing to me. I have a little girl from it. There are so many options. Any could work out for you. I think it's best you talk to your hubby about this. He'll understand. Wishing you all the best!
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BellaJones998 52 Posts Friday April 6, 2018Registration date July 10, 2018 Last seen - Apr 6, 2018 at 08:55 AM
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Hey there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. However, let me tell you. Stressing out will only make it worse. You'll make it worse for everyone. Your husband loves you. I am sure he won't be going anywhere. It's all about trust. don't blame yourself. There are many other ways. IVF surrogacy or even adoption. Have you consulted your doctor about it? If not go for it. I wish you good luck. Take care. Hoping to see you in good condition soon.
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emily001 73 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Apr 12, 2018 at 03:39 PM
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Don't lose hope you have any choices in your life. This is not the end of the world. It is not your fault but If you are not going to choose something good for you that would be your fault. I wasted my 10 years in ttc. My husband was so supportive of me. He was so confident that there would be any way to be happy parents. I went for IVF and IUI but no luck. Then I selected surrogacy and I think that was the right decision of my life. I have a daughter now. My family is completed. I would recommend this to everyone to every upset couple. But the only thing that should be kept in mind that just go to the right clinic. The success of surrogacy depends upon the staff of the clinic. They should be professional and experienced. So surrogacy would go without complication.
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Sarahsth28 19 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date August 9, 2018 Last seen - Apr 18, 2018 at 01:13 PM
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Totally, feel you, I have been through this all. But desperation and grief will no longer be valid or work if you really want to work on your infertility. Also, seems like its affecting your marriage. Therefore, I would suggest you to start building your relationship first. Seek counseling or plan a trip if you have lost the spark. Just don't let this affect your marriage. Moreover, see a fertility doctor who would examine your fertility health. Alos, will recommend you a better and accurate fertility treatment. Therefore, the diagnosis is necessary. Don't lose hope. If you are unable to conceive naturally then still there is an option for assisted conception. Even if it didn't work you have surrogacy. Work on your options.
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