I wish I'd known how often I'd fail

shiwangi1219 4 Posts Wednesday January 17, 2018Registration date January 17, 2018 Last seen - Jan 17, 2018 at 06:06 AM - Latest reply:  Relax
- Mar 11, 2018 at 04:45 PM
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"I can sum up IVF in three (overused) words: blood, sweat, and tears. You truly don't know how resilient, how strong, and how determined you are until you experience IVF and come out on the other side. But it is something you absolutely must take step by step. It's so easy to get ahead of yourself and set timelines and goals that you will almost undoubtedly fail to reach. With every procedure, every cycle, every phone call with pregnancy results, you must take a deep breath and just concentrate on the next step."
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jenn945 17 Posts Friday February 2, 2018Registration date February 22, 2018 Last seen - Feb 18, 2018 at 11:57 AM
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dear shiwangi, hope you are doing good.Well, i have been through all.It is a really hard road to follow.Choosing Ivf was the biggest regret of my life.The path itself was not that bad.It gave much success but not for me.I have seen people having kids with this.Sadly my consultation was wrong.My eggs were not of good quality.Now i have to move to surrogacy.It takes time to cope up with all of this.But the tears and sweat everything is worth it I feel.Afterall a child is a great blessing.
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pheobe412 98 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date May 21, 2018 Last seen - Feb 19, 2018 at 09:11 AM
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Yes you are saying right. The tension that occurs in a mind. The thing which you feel right when the phone rings. All of these emotions. I am very much aware of them. What they felt like. The sadness and the excitement. You know what. IT's all just destined I must say. We can't do anything about it. One day we think that it's going to be our way. The next day, It's gone. It's so much problematic for life. Well you showed the courage this far. Hope you show the same courage further. It's all about being motivated in a life. Doing whatever but with a great devotion. I hope you understand this. Keep it up dear. Be strong.
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bennythegiant 21 Posts Saturday February 3, 2018Registration date March 5, 2018 Last seen - Feb 20, 2018 at 05:35 AM
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It is very nice of you to share such information with us. I think that you got your IVF done from not a very nice place. I have been through IVF and it is the easiest thing for me. It wasn't painful at all for me. Maybe it really does depend on the techniques that the doctors use. Other than that, your post is very motivating. It has a message of staying hopeful through hard times. I hope that everyone gets to find their happiness.
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SashaMarcus 66 Posts Tuesday January 30, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - Feb 20, 2018 at 07:55 AM
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Well, I just read your post...Thanks for sharing it! I really needed it. I'm still convinced and motivated by an IVF. I'm ready for all the pain. Because I really want to have a child of my own. It's really worth! I've even decided to travel abroad for it. As I can't have it here in the USA. Well, Let's hope for the best! I know how hard it is. But, it's eventually worth what you receive in the end. So, wish me luck! I really want it to be successful as well. It's really needed for us to complete our family. I've nearly waited 5 years for it. I can't wait or waste more years to have a child of my own. Stay blessed dear! xx
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Alessia.Violet 45 Posts Sunday January 21, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - Mar 9, 2018 at 12:09 PM
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It is very true what you said. IVF for some people works out in the first cycle whereas for others it takes longer. I personally think the big part is played by the doctor you go to. When I was diagnosed with a poor ovarian reserve and told that I won't be able to conceive naturally. As I had numerous complications I had lost hope. I was then told about IVF I thought this might work. I started researching it and found a clinic which was doing it efficiently and at a lower price as compared to where I live. Anyways, I got in touch with them and they invited us to the first meeting. I was given an honest advice that IVF won't work in my condition and thus I was at least glad that the clinic was honest and they then suggested another procedure.
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Haley748 6 Posts Friday March 9, 2018Registration date March 13, 2018 Last seen - Mar 9, 2018 at 03:38 PM
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Hi Shivangi. Your comment just got me emotionally charged. I know IVF is not easy at all. Actually nothing is easy let it be natural pregnancy too. In that also you've to go through alot of pain. So I guess that's how it's meant to be. That's how you earn the status of being a mother. I also had 2 miscarriages in my second and third trimester due to your cervical incompetence. Now, I am TTC for 2 years. I've been trying so hard but no luck. So I am going to go for surrogacy or IVF. I know it's not going to be very easy. I am scared as well. I just hope things go smooth. Can someone suggest me a good clinic? Thanks alot
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Nicolebill123 19 Posts Monday March 5, 2018Registration date April 16, 2018 Last seen - Mar 11, 2018 at 12:56 AM
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You are very right. IVF is not an easy decision. It is a tough job to decide whether or not to go for IVF. It is because of the inherent failures in it. I am very happy that you are successful in your journey so far. I hope it remains the same. I wish you all the best. Keep on having a good diet.
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hey, you choose the best 3 words. Yes, actually the same thing it is. I have gone this test phase and you can’t believe that it wasted my tears. It’s all about your efforts. And at the end, your efforts are devastated when you get negative results. This needs too much stamina that not a woman can produce. It’s a phase where your courage gives you an answer in the form of tears. You feel that you have broken by your inner side. Such a difficult phase. In the end, you have to go for surrogacy. where you have not left with a single choice that you can conceive naturally. You live in the hope of surrogate mother. Yeah, I also in the favor that you should think with a cool mind. As more effort and pain your beard at the start then doesn’t let down your efforts. Go where you think you will be treated best with 100% positive hope.
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