Can't be mother

Posts
175
Registration date
Monday January 22, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 27, 2018
- - Latest reply:  Mitchael.1 - Nov 30, 2018 at 01:27 PM
Hi there everyone, My life is over. I have nothing left now. I have no reason to live. I can't ever become mother now. I don't know what should I do. Where do I go. I never thought that this day would come in my life. My husband is trying to give me support but I know that deep inside he is feeling this too. I think he is going to leave me now. I don't know what to do. I am receiving love from everywhere but I think it is leaving no effect on me. I wish I could become pregnant. Please give me some hope. What should I do guys. Please help me. Tell me some other ways. Help me.
See more 

20/111 replies

0
Thank you
pheobe412 that’s so sad of you. it’s very heart touching. When you said that you can’t be a mom I become sad. Life is not always made decisions in our favor. Really my eyes full of tears. It’s every mother desire to be a great mom. But when you hear these words that you can’t be a mom it sounds a someone is declaring our defeat loudly. This happens to every woman. I don’t think what’s the matter with these types of husbands? Why they consider it a woman’s-oriented problem? they make it a death pole for a woman. They should support their wives through good and bad days. Because they are equally enrolled in conceiving. In the end, they leave them. So sad. But a woman can do nothing at all.
Respond to amelia
0
Thank you
pheobe412 I respect your wish. That’s the thing that every woman might do in her life. I am with you. I fully support you. try to have some medical treatment. Life does not end at natural means. You can try surrogacy. it is considered the best option also in this phase. Good luck!!!
Respond to amelia
0
Thank you
pheobe hello! I have read your post till the end. I really feel sorry to hear this. Don’t blame yourself, dear. It's your fate. No one can change it. I think you should join surrogate clinics. There your eggs will be fertilized chemically.
Respond to amelia
Posts
2
Registration date
Wednesday June 20, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
June 20, 2018
0
Thank you
I am really sorry for your problems. You have gone through a very rough time. It will be very difficult. But it is not the end of your life. You have a hard time. But hard time in your life makes you more strong. Your husband is supporting you. Don't doubt him that he will leave you. This will not the end of your life. You must go for surrogacy. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. Their services are less expensive. You must go there. I wish you a very good luck
Respond to javj12
Posts
29
Registration date
Thursday June 7, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
June 29, 2018
0
Thank you
I feel really sad to know about your loss. You must have been in severe pain after this. Don’t get upset my dear. This is the part of life. You have to accept it and move on. I know this is hard but there’s no other way. Why don’t you try any of the assisted methods of conception? Think of surrogacy. My cousin sister had gone for surrogacy. She could not conceive naturally. I think you must consult the doctors in a fertility clinic. I am sure they won’t let you down. The doctors are quite good and expert in their suggestions. Sending baby dust for you. Take care!
Respond to ellenheller
Posts
40
Registration date
Monday March 12, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 29, 2018
0
Thank you
It breaks my heart to see you like this. I wish you didn't have to go through this. But life can be cruel at times. However, what you need to keep in mind is that this time can pass. There's a rainbow after every storm, as they say. I think you should look into your options if the straight easy way does not seem to work. There are options like IVF for you? Have you tried looking into that? I think it could benefit you. It usually doesn't work right away, but it does eventually. There are so many great, affordable clinics now too around the world. I've heard good things about so many. If you feel unsure about that too, then there's surrogacy you could always turn too. Sure, its a bit costly, but the outcomes are more likely to be successful. I hate to see you low. Please do take this advice and save yourself!
Respond to HanRIchie
Posts
25
Registration date
Thursday June 21, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
July 15, 2018
0
Thank you
Hello there. Hope you are doing good? Sorry to know about your story. You are a strong woman. Please never lose hope. Everything will be alright. In this era, there are many other options to become a mother. I suggest surrogacy. This will save your relation as well. Good luck to you.
Respond to tressalee
Posts
3
Registration date
Thursday June 21, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
June 21, 2018
0
Thank you
People who do not have their own children become disappointed. They think of themselves as the unfortunate. But fortunately, science has made so many advances that one can have their own children they just need to keep their better half in confidence. They should go for some clinics that perform surrogacy. It is a pretty good thing and can solve most f your problems. My very close relatives have been going through it and they have been pretty happy in their lives. We need to open up our minds and consider these things as part of our life, Go for some efficient clinics that can help you. Hoping for you that you solve your problems. Wish you all the best.
Respond to Ninaahrichi
Posts
3
Registration date
Thursday June 21, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
June 21, 2018
0
Thank you
MCs are one of the worst things that can happen to a person. They leave their effect on person's mental and physical ability. One of the disabilities that it can cause is infertility. The problem is that those women can never become women. This leaves a very devastating effect on the minds of the people. This could possibly make their lives a misery. Their best chance is to go for surrogacy and this would help them a lot. There are certain clinics that can help them achieve their goals. I hope this hepls you and gets your life back on track.
Respond to sophieturner
Posts
36
Registration date
Friday May 11, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 28, 2018
0
Thank you
Ohh! Bad to hear from you. It is hurting for a woman. As a mother, I can feel your pain. Infertility is a curse happens in a women life. I had faced the same situation as you. I was fed with my life. My husband was also about to leave me. Then one of my friends advised me to think about the surrogacy. I was just like the last hope for me. So I without any wait went for it. Now I am happy to announce that I got a surrogate baby son. It really works and the safest way of getting a baby. I choose surrogacy due to its success rate. So I also suggest you think about it. Stay positive and hope for the best. I wish you a best of luck
Respond to Eleanor045
Posts
21
Registration date
Tuesday June 26, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 25, 2018
0
Thank you
Hey! I hope you will be fine. I just read your post. I really felt sorry to know about your condition. About every 6th couple is dealing with such issues. So don't worry it is the part of life. I think you should move on and forget the thing that has happened to you. Look for some alternate methods that could help you to conceive. Some methods like surrogacy and IVF playing an important in helping people suffering from fertility issues. Both surrogacy an IVF resembles in many respects. In both the methods, the formation of the embryo takes place outside the body and is then transferred into the uterus of the third mother in surrogacy and into the intended mother in IVF. I think you should adopt one of them. Both are really helpful. I have also adopted surrogacy once and have a baby through it.
My sympathies
Respond to matrtinajohn785
Posts
21
Registration date
Tuesday June 26, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 25, 2018
0
Thank you
Hey Dear! I hope you will be fine. I know how difficult it is to deal with infertility. It brings many frustrations in life. But I think we should face it strongly. Everything happens for a reason. It may better for us. We should learn from failures. I have also faced infertility from the past 4 years. At last, I went for surrogacy and it helped me.
All my sympathies are with you
Respond to matrtinajohn785
Posts
27
Registration date
Thursday June 21, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 27, 2018
1
0
Thank you
Hey there. Hope you aren't feeling so done now. Please don't think like that. Every woman was born to be a mother. One way or another. I am sorry to hear what is happening in your life. But do not lose hope. There is so much in life. You can always adopt a child. Or better yet. You could always opt for surrogacy or IVF treatments. There is still a chance. Be there for your husband. He might be hurting too. Just stay positive. Go to another doctor. Get yourself checked up again.
Respond to Olivia_29
Posts
38
Registration date
Thursday June 21, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 29, 2018
0
Thank you
There are many couples facing the same issue. You should be brave to face all this. Try to find out the solution. You can go for further treatment. Else you can go for other options like IVF and surrogacy etc. I do not know your views about adoption. You can go for that even. I know you're upset. Infertility is a terrible thing. I wish you didn't have to face it. But nothing can beat destiny, so be strong and stay positive.
Respond to joshien
Posts
33
Registration date
Wednesday June 27, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 29, 2018
0
Thank you
Hey ! I am amazingly sorry to learn about your misfortune. This is the greatly miserable circumstance for you and your family. I am certain it more likely than not been a to a great degree troublesome condition for you. If you don't mind acknowledge our sincere sensitivities on the loss of your adored one. We implore the adoration for God encases you amid this troublesome time. Presently you don't have to point the finger at yourself. We as a whole are people all terrible and dismal things occur in life so don't have to crush your life by following this pitiful condition. God makes numerous answers for relatively every issue for its people so never baffle. I will recommend you that surrogacy is the best answer for your concern. Surrogacy is the immense gift of God for the couples who are fruitless. So run and counsel with a specialist for surrogacy. I am certain that you will hear an uplifting news soon. May God favor you.
Respond to shenny13
Posts
15
Registration date
Tuesday June 26, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 19, 2018
0
Thank you
Hy! I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. This is the extremely sad situation for you and your family. I am sure it must have been an extremely difficult condition for you. Please accept our heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your loved one. We pray the love of God enfolds you during this difficult time. Now you don't need to blame yourself. We all are humans all bad and sad things happen in life so don't need to destroy your life by following this sad condition. God makes many solutions to almost every problem for its humans so never disappoint. I will suggest you that surrogacy is the best solution to your problem. Surrogacy is the great blessing of God for the couples who are infertile. So go and consult with a doctor for surrogacy. I am sure that you will hear a good news soon. May God bless you.
Respond to healthymom
Posts
26
Registration date
Tuesday July 3, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 18, 2018
0
Thank you
Hi! Sorry to hear this news that she will not pregnant normally. Don’t lose hope. You can check for IVF but I will suggest to you that you will go for surrogacy. Hope you till now studied about surrogacy. Let me tell you something about the surrogacy. with surrogacy, you will have your own child. a sperm of intended male parent entered into a surrogated woman. Better you would go to some doctor ask for the advantage and disadvantage of the surrogacy. if you have chosen surrogacy it is the best option. consult about this treatment with your husband. Hope you’ll get my point of view. Any query Do ask again!
Respond to isbella48
Posts
19
Registration date
Sunday June 10, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
October 30, 2018
0
Thank you
Hey there. Do not be so hopeless. This is not the end of life or your journey. What has the doctor given you the reason for your infertility? There are so many solutions nowadays. Have you thought of IVF or surrogacy. They are both very good options. You should discuss them with your husband and look for a good clinic. Love and best wishes.
Respond to nathalie335
Posts
16
Registration date
Saturday June 23, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
July 20, 2018
0
Thank you
Hi Pheobe. I am really sorry to hear about this but along with it i know how you feel. I really do. I have had a similar story. I had no luck with TTC until I was 32. you won't believe I gave up everything I had. Everything made me sad. Everything made me frustrated. But I went through with it anyhow. Surrogacy was the only alternative I had. My DH was supportive of it as well. It was just my family that didn't like the concept. But this was my only hope. I have a depressed personality I don't find happiness easily. Somehow I managed to pacify my parents about it. I went for surrogacy. I got to choose the surrogate mother even. I now have a daughter that's 2 years old and she is the love of my life. I hope my story helps you. Don't give up you still have a lot of your journey left. And this is the good part that you're gonna miss out :) Don't be sad
Respond to youtubegirl
Posts
25
Registration date
Thursday June 21, 2018
Status
Member
Last seen
August 27, 2018
0
Thank you
hi, dear hope so you are doing great. I really appreciate your hope.I had gone through an accident. I had a miscarriage and after that a news that shattered me. That I cannot concieve again. But my husband support and love made me strong. Nowadays infertility is not a big problem. With the advancement of science. Many solutions are available. The method of surrogacy guarantees success. This is the reason I chose it. In Europe, there are best clinics. Which are not so expensive and provide you with a great environment. And now I am blessed with a baby boy. My best wishes to all women out here. Dealing with such issues. Stay strong love. Best wishes for the future ahead.
Respond to roze30