Opting for surrogacy

claudiopeters 47 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 19, 2018 at 10:46 AM - Latest reply:  sophieturner
- Jun 21, 2018 at 01:12 PM
I am 34 years old. After having plenty of miscarriages, I have decided to check alternative ways of having a baby. Adoption is something, I do not want to consider. Surrogacy and IVF have been mentioned around as decent alternatives. How many people around here have gotten one of that done? How has your experience been with it? Should I go for it or not?
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SashaMarcus 76 Posts Tuesday January 30, 2018Registration date June 9, 2018 Last seen - Mar 19, 2018 at 11:44 AM
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Hi dear! Well, yes! Claudio! I think going for an IVF first would be a decent and better way first! Because it's still an assisted procedure that might help you in conceiving on your own...So, yes! Wish you all the best! xoxo
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NatashaLiam 66 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 12:24 AM
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Here's my story of infertility.May be you can gain something from it.
Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby off our own.
I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them.
I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications.
From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
Like i was facing miscarriages every time i conceived.
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb.
Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children.
So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children.
He agreed to my proposal so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything.
Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her.
But now i don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby.
So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact different clinics for further details.
If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences.
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anayahill 56 Posts Monday March 19, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 02:50 AM
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Hi there!I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
I've also been doing research on surrogacy lately and the major issue that I came to know of is that most of them who hesitate that's because their religion doesn't allow them to do so and also some people don't wanna rely on technology much and opt for natural process, but sometimes you have to understand other people's pain too I guess not many people are kind that way. Well, my point of view about surrogacy is it's a totally normal phenomenon, children are blessing no matter what was a normally delivered child, or a test tube baby, adopted one or was born through surrogacy we should all be thankful for what we have!
I think you should also go for the surrogacy cause it's the best option left for infertile women.Stay strong.
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Alessia.Violet 68 Posts Sunday January 21, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 11:40 AM
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Hey there I hope you're doing good. I am undergoing the surrogacy process from the clinic abroad. As for me my biggest concern was regarding the finance. I couldn't think of going to a clinic in USA due to the heavy prices attached to it. The second concern was regarding the legal clauses. So when I opted for this clinic I had to make sure that the Childs legal documents were prepared. Also that the clinic was operating legally. The surrogate too was selected after a long medical testing. You can ask further questions as well if you may like.
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alisa123 46 Posts Monday February 19, 2018Registration date June 20, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 02:47 PM
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Hi there Claudio! I hope you're doing fine. I'm very sorry about your miscarriages, dear. You don't deserve this. Life has been very unfair to you. I feel bad, but hey? Don't lose hope. Everything will be fine one day, trust me. Modern methods like surrogacy are really working on making our lives easier. You should definitely go for surrogacy. I won't suggest you IVF as you've already had so many miscarriages so you need to rest your body now. Surrogacy is a better option for you. It is more reliable and safe to go for. Find a clinic in Eastern Europe. Surrogacy is much cheaper there. I wish you Luck and happiness. Lots of love and prayers for you.
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pheobe412 155 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 08:17 PM
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I think you should go for it. This is a really good method. I would like to recommend it to you anyway. I guess you should just go for it now. I am very sorry what happened till now. It's not very good. I just don't feel good. I want you to get success. You are a very nice person. Just good luck dear. It's everything is going to be fine. Surrogacy is best these days. Just use much more resources. I think you could take care of it.
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mistygray 80 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 05:05 AM
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Hey. Hope you are well. I had my son through surrogacy. He was born almost a year ago. My experience was great. Even though it is a very sensitive process and can be risky but making the right choices can eliminate the risks. And that's exactly what I did. If you are opting for surrogacy, you should look for a good and reliable clinic. They handle almost all of the matter including the legal papers which is the most important part. They get you a matching surrogate. The surrogate is not your responsibility. I think its better this way. I went for gestational surrogacy. My child is related to me and my husband only his carrier was a different woman. I hope this helps you. Good luck with whatever you decide. It would be great if you keep us updated on your journey.
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HanRIchie 24 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 12:50 PM
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Hello! I hope you're well. Adoption is something people often put as their last resort since they want a genetically connected child. I don't think there's something very wrong with that. Surrogacy and IVF treatments are decent options you've narrowed down to. I myself tried surrogacy. I have no uterus. It was removed due to cancerous polyps some years ago. I was so lost and hurt because I'd always wanted to be a mother. Anyway, upon being introduced to surrogacy I went for it quite quickly. It was an amazing experience. I have a little girl now, playing beside me. I can't be more thankful. I think you should start your search on a good clinic and hop on the bandwagon! Good luck!
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prerona25 15 Posts Thursday November 2, 2017Registration date March 23, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 01:17 PM
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Hi! It is sad to hear that you had so many miscarriages. But it does not end here. There are a lot of good gynecologists and infertility specialists. Kindly consult them and diagnose yourself thoroughly. I am sure some way or the other will come out to make you a mother. Surrogacy and IVF is never a bad option. If done with the help of good doctors then you will get a proper idea. All will be fine. All the best.
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Nelly_J1 14 Posts Tuesday March 13, 2018Registration date April 24, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 01:37 PM
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Hi. I really appreciate that you are considering surrogacy. These days, I've seen many people frown upon the idea. I don't understand what they have against it. Anyway, to answer your question, yes I've had surrogacy. I suffer from endometriosis which makes TTC almost impossible for me. I visited a clinic which guided us correctly through the procedure and helped us throughout. We are now successful parents of a baby girl through that program. You should go for it. It will be the best decision you take. Just make sure you get it done with proper legal formalities.
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stacyben 50 Posts Tuesday March 20, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 25, 2018 at 12:10 PM
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Hey, Hope you are doing good. I really want to share my experience. I think this would really help you in making your decision. I was diagnosed with uterine polyps just after 2 years of my marriage. Before that, I had 3 miscarriages that were depressing for me. I was not able to maintain my pregnancy and after that few doctors said that you would be able to conceive after treatment. I considered what they said and tried many times and I wasted my 4 years in it. I decided to move on and think of other ways. My Dh was very supportive throughout my infertility journey. I never wanted to adopt someone else kid Not because I dont like them but I think I won't be able to take care of them like my kids. So I decided to move to next that was surrogacy. It was new to me but I wanted babies. I asked my DH and he said go for it. Now its been 2 years to the surrogacy process. I have a daughter and I am so happy to have her. I would love to recommend this to all of the people who really want to have babies.
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Please pray for me!!! I am going to be starting me first cycle of IUI this month. I have been trying for 3 years to get pregnant. My husband and I have gone through all the testing only to find there are minor issues. I am going to try some of the supplements you suggest but would just like you to send up a prayer for me!!!
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MaryJones998 15 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date March 31, 2018 Last seen - Mar 25, 2018 at 01:36 PM
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Hey there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear about your mc. I know how hard it is. It actually saddens my heart to think about it. I know because I have been through it. I have had a miscarriage due to an accident. I had a hysterectomy after that. I lost the ability to give birth. I and my husband decided surrogacy. It was the best decision ever. Now a happy mom of two twin boys. It's a great choice. You should for whatever you want. I wish you good luck. Take care.
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DeniseCastaneda 13 Posts Monday March 5, 2018Registration date April 1, 2018 Last seen - Apr 1, 2018 at 07:49 PM
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I empathize with you on your losses. But I am happy to know that you have decided to fight it. Surrogacy is the best option to go with. It allows you to have your own babies. But you must know hat it is not legal in all countries. It is illegal in some countries. You have to chose wisely. There are many clinics to help you in it. Some of them have nice packages. You can choose any package which suits you. You just have to stay strong and hopeful. Everything will be fine soon. You will have your own babies soon.
Sending love and luck to you. More power to you. Fingers crossed for you.
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anayahill 56 Posts Monday March 19, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - May 11, 2018 at 02:46 PM
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I understand how you feel. I have also been trying for 14 months, I got pregnant in Jan A specialists can help confirm whether or not you have PCOS and maybe put you on meds to make you ovulate. I used to have cycles that were all over the place ( but I have endometriosis) I took me 1.5 years to conceive my son and pregnancy "fixed" my cycle because now I'm at a 29-31 day cycle. Don't give up!
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haeadeer-1234 4 Posts Monday May 21, 2018Registration date May 23, 2018 Last seen - May 23, 2018 at 10:51 AM
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"Hey dear, Hope you are fine. I know it is very tough for you. Everyone wants to conceive naturally in her life. It is the very magical moment of every couple,s life. I completely understand you feeling. I also face infertility. I have my happy, married life. But not conceive naturally is the bid fault. I miss all these magical moments in my life. But through surrogacy, I have my own baby in my life. It is enough for me.
Dear IVF is very painful for you. It is on.u possible when you have the ability to conceive. But you do not have the ability to conceive. So your nat to wast your time. Do not waste it. It is very precious. Go toward surrogacy. It is the very best option for you"
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Sabera28 33 Posts Saturday April 14, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Jun 1, 2018 at 12:09 PM
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"`IVF is somewhat difficult to do. It is not so successful. I won't Suggest IVF to everybody. I am an infertile lady. I Faced infertility for 10 years due to Cervix incompetence disease. So I chose to go for surrogacy. After my surrogacy, I am a blessed mother. Presently my family is completed. I would suggest surrogacy to everybody who is unable to conceive. Any proposals will be valued.
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Oliviasmit 81 Posts Friday May 11, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Jun 1, 2018 at 12:50 PM
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Hi Claudia! Hope you are in good health. It is a good thing that you have not given up hope and still trying to start a family. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with going for surrogacy. In fact I recommend you go for it. I have also been through surrogacy treatment so I know first how beautiful it can be. I went for surrogacy from Ukraine. You can check them out if you are interesting in going for it. I wish you the best of luck.
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aliceblake 69 Posts Sunday May 20, 2018Registration date June 21, 2018 Last seen - Jun 1, 2018 at 05:27 PM
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Hello. I hope you are well. Surrogacy and IVF are two very successful methods. You should go for it. Think about what is the better option for you. I wish you health. My prayers are with you.
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Hannahdrake 36 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date June 15, 2018 Last seen - Jun 4, 2018 at 01:51 PM
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Dont go for IVF. You are not infertile. Your body cannot carry a baby. I would suggest you go for surrogacy. A surrogate will carry the baby for you. You cannot carry the baby. Because your pregnancies result in MC's.
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