Surrogacy

anayahill 117 Posts Monday March 19, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen - Mar 19, 2018 at 12:51 PM - Latest reply: anayahill 117 Posts Monday March 19, 2018Registration date August 28, 2018 Last seen
- Jul 4, 2018 at 09:33 AM
Hello,
I'd like to share my story here after my first childbirth I had a uterine prolapse, due to which I got serious urinary problems, pelvic pressure, and difficulty with bowel movements so I had to go for hysterectomy. Well like any other woman I panicked at first but now things are coming back to normal and also my husband and I have found a fertility clinic and we have thought about going for surrogacy. I have a few concerns regarding that so share your experiences, I need your support and prayers thanks!
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alisa123 89 Posts Monday February 19, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Mar 19, 2018 at 02:58 PM
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Hi there Anaya! I hope you're doing good. I'm very sorry to hear about your story. I know you must be feeling bad that you can't carry your baby. But hey? don't lose hope, please. Stay strong and positive. Sometimes life tests us with these situations. You just have to stay strong and ace them. Surrogacy is a very reliable method nowadays. I had both of my children through surrogacy. I didn't let infertility have a negative impact on my life. So, you shouldn't too. You should definitely go for surrogacy. Choose a clinic with high success rate. You'll definitely have an amazing process done. I hope you have a baby soon. Good Luck!
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NatashaLiam 98 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date August 22, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 12:22 AM
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Hey, there I am extremely sorry to hear that it must be extremely devastating.
However, you shouldn't be afraid to go for surrogacy as it is a rescue for so many women who are unable to conceive naturally. It is a great method as it allows one to be genetically linked with the baby and has a high rate of success as well. Being in the same boat I was lucky enough to find a clinic which is very inexpensive as compared to the clinic where I live. The clinic was doing the treatment legally and was also ensuring that everyone was following the legal framework. I was concerned about the health of the surrogates one of the reasons why I didn't opt for private surrogacy. However, was glad to find out that in this clinic they had a medical test and if one passed it then they were only eligible to be the surrogates. Once a surrogate was pregnant she had to visit the clinic daily for check-ups as well. This was honestly amazing as the clinic was so efficient. The technology being used was so advanced that it was a complete mind blown moment for me. I was also very particular about the part where the custody of the child should belong to me. I was glad that the child's rights would belong to me and I honestly felt better. Keeping the whole treatment secret would also be possible as you'll be abroad for it. However, just make sure that your DH is in this with you otherwise there is no harm in opting for it. Always feel free to ask me more questions I am always ready to help. I hope you are soon able to conceive sending baby dust your way.
prerona25 15 Posts Thursday November 2, 2017Registration date March 23, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 12:47 PM
Hi Natasha! your opinion and experience on surrogacy is absolutely correct. It is safe, proven and helps to be connected to the baby genetically as well. So instead of think too much please go for this method but through a thorough process and tests. Make sure both you and your husband has a good connection with the surrogate. All the best all will be fine.
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claudiopeters 88 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 04:16 AM
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Hello Anaya. I'm really sorry to hear about your story. I can relate to your story, and trust me the last thing you want to do is lose hope. It is sad that we can't carry our own babies. However, there is no shame in surrogacy. The child gets to be genetically yours. I hope it works out for you.
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SashaMarcus 96 Posts Tuesday January 30, 2018Registration date August 19, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 07:59 AM
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Oh hey! WOW! That's really nice to hear! Well, I'm glad that you guys are moving forward...Surrogacy is an excellent procedure in these modern times. Last year, my cousin sister also had a procedure done at a repro center in Ukraine. It really helped the couple to change their lives. Now, they have a baby girl through it. So, yes! Wish you all the best! I hope you get a child soon. Stay blessed! My support and prayers are with you. Please, keep me updated on your process...
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Monika966 58 Posts Saturday March 17, 2018Registration date August 14, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 08:29 AM
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Surrogacy is the best option so far.I have been through it.
I'm also infertile.But i had to go for surrogacy.We firstly moved to Europe form Japan.Surrogacy is ban in Japan so we moved there.We stayed in Europe for 4 months.We contacted clinics in Europe.My husband didn't liked them.Than we moved to Ukraine.
I joined this forum long ago.I like to read the stories of different people.Its been a very long time.I feel happy after reading successful stories of different people.
As we heard alot about the clinics in Ukraine so we moved there.There we found a very good clinic.The clinic found a good surrogate for us.The surrogate is pregnant with our twin dolls.We are so happy.We are so happy that we will have our own kids now,We are so thankful to the clinic and surrogate.
Everyone cheers and good luck.
NatashaLiam 98 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date August 22, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 01:28 AM
I also had many complications during my first marriage.
I had 3 miscarriages.At 43 years i'm married to an other person now.At this age it is not a good idea to be pregnant.So i have decided to go for surrogacy.I contacted a clinic regarding surrogacy in Ukraine too.The clinic will help us to have our baby.They will find a good surrogate mom for us.
I think you should also go for surrogacy.
Good luck.
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Alessia.Violet 137 Posts Sunday January 21, 2018Registration date October 13, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 11:33 AM
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Hey there I hope you're doing good. My experience with surrogacy has really been great. The clinic I choose is situated abroad. It is operating legally and that makes the process alot more reliable. They also provide Childs legal documents. This was really my biggest concern and therefore I feel much more contended. The surrogacy treatment is also being done a lot more smoothly. The surrogate mother is choosen after a health test. It's ensured that the lady has and didn't have any disease in the past. If no then only will she be eligible to become a surrogate. The egg donor list is also humongous. As the database provided gives us alot more options. Once the things get sorted we all get to meet the surrogate. My meeting with the surrogate was amazing. I am soo excited.
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Linawilliams 1 Posts Tuesday March 20, 2018Registration date March 21, 2018 Last seen - Mar 21, 2018 at 01:12 PM
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Hi anaya! hope you are doing well in your life. Great to know tha you already have a baby child. Before going for surrogacy you should check some
clinics around the world. The best and affordable clinics are in Europe. One of my friends visited there. They were pretty understanding.
They helped them and gave them the correct suggestions. Surrogacy is advanced process and no one should go to it without the experience of any
other person. So, I am telling this to you from my own very close relation that trying out the best would be great for you. You, personally would
not want to go for surrogacy without the experience of any other person. Best of luck with what ever decision you take. Hope you find the desired
result.
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tandy789 37 Posts Wednesday March 21, 2018Registration date July 19, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 04:40 AM
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Hello Anaya, Just read your post. Really feel sad to know that you have gone through such a tuff time.
And still you don't lose hope. You remain encouraged. This is very important in a struggling life. And ofcourse there are many other ways to have your own baby. There is always a way to face challenges of life. And yes surrogacy is a good option. You must first do your homework. Like you must take all the necessary information about surrogacy, its procedure etc. The important thing is that you search for the best clinic for it. You must know that are there medical specialists available in that clinic. Do they provide you all the necessary information to you regarding surrogacy? Can you meet your surrogate etc. Must ask all this information whenever you visit a clinic for surrogacy.
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nur_atikson 88 Posts Friday March 23, 2018Registration date August 18, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 06:32 AM
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Hello @anayahill, so sorry to hear about your disease. Becoming a mother is the biggest desire of any woman. A woman can do anything for her baby and to have a child she can cross any limit. Having your baby in your hands is the biggest joy of the world. But knowing that you can’t even give birth to your own baby is very sad and sorrowful. In past, infertile couple used to lead a very discomforted life. Due to the odd behavior of people to them, they felt guilty. With the evolution of science, many things got changed. Science had resolved all these issues. I would advise you to start conceiving and give your childbirth yourself. If it’s hard or impossible for you to do so, then the only option left is surrogacy. There are many surrogacy treatments like IUI and IVF. As IUI is less complicated and costs low, so you’d go for it. IUI has almost 85% of success rate and many clinics are offering unlimited tries with the money back guarantee. Go for it! I’m sure about your success this time. Best of Luck!
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stacyben 88 Posts Tuesday March 20, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 12:52 PM
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Hey! you are taking the right decision. I was also diagnosed with uterine polyps. I was not able to maintain my pregnancy. I had 3 miscarriages. I wanted a baby badly. I made my mind for surrogacy. My husband was agreed with my decision. Someone suggested me for a clinic in Europe. It was affordable and reliable so I went there. The staff was professional and experienced. Our surrogate was healthy and had no medical complications. People call surrogacy unethical. They say that how someone can take someone else baby. It's not unethical because it is done for someone happiness. I really appreciate surrogates, It's not easy to give birth to someone else baby. I am happy my family is completed now. I have no worries in my life.
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HanRIchie 45 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 12:58 PM
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Hi there! I'm sorry you're unable to conceive. But it's great that you're open to surrogacy. You won't be let down. I myself tried it out a few years ago. I have a little girl now. Finance wasn't too big of an issue for me, but still, we opted for a clinic in Europe as they offered less than half the cost of that in American clinics. I think that's a good suggestion for you from me. Other than that, I think you'll be well on your way to getting your child. Good luck!
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your decision is really good. at least you have chosen this on time. choose the best clinic for you. don't feel hesitate to ask somebody about it. stay positive. and don't stress yourself. you need to be more strong in future. don't worry dear. and go for it. it is all safe. best of luck with your process.
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amanda280 37 Posts Tuesday March 13, 2018Registration date June 27, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 02:25 PM
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Hi. I hope you doing well. I'm glad to see that you are so strong. You've made a great decision. Surrogacy is a very good method with high success rates. I have my own baby via surrogacy. I did not have any problems. And the charges were very affordable too. Let me know if you want the details of the clinic. I'll be happy to help you. Good luck!
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emily001 73 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Jun 5, 2018 at 12:02 PM
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Hello! you are taking the correct choice. I have faced infertility for 10 years. the reason for my infertility was unknown. I needed a child seriously. I made my brain for surrogacy. My better half concurred with my choice. Somebody proposed me for a clinic in Europe. It was reasonable so I went there. The staff was proficient and experienced. Our surrogate was sound and had no restorative complications. Individuals call surrogacy unscrupulous. They say that how somebody can take another person child. It's not untrustworthy in light of the fact that it is improved the situation somebody satisfaction. I truly acknowledge surrogates, It's difficult to bring forth another person child. I am glad my family is finished at this point. I have no stresses throughout my life.
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sidneywhite 77 Posts Thursday May 10, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Jun 5, 2018 at 01:11 PM
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Hi, I hope you are doing well. Thanks for sharing your story. Your story moved me. I am happy for you. You didn't lose hope in case of infertility. I support your decision of surrogacy. It is the best choice of your life. I also chose it. I wish you a happy life ahead.
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Silvija2020 52 Posts Saturday April 7, 2018Registration date September 30, 2018 Last seen - Jun 5, 2018 at 01:22 PM
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My husband has make up his mind to go for surrogacy now. I'm facing infertility from a long period. Like from last 10 years of my married life i am trying to conceive. But i cannot conceive ever. The doctors are also not sure what is the reason behind this infertility. They are also unable to tell me that weather i will conceive or not. So with the passing age i have decided to go for surrogacy. But as in Bulgaria surrogacy is not allowed. I am moving with my husband to Ukraine. I heard there are many good clinics for surrogacy.
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Oliviasmit 95 Posts Friday May 11, 2018Registration date August 10, 2018 Last seen - Jun 7, 2018 at 05:40 AM
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Hi Anaya! Hope you are in good health. So sorry to hear about your infertility problem. I know it can be hard to deal with I have also been there and just like you I also took to surrogacy for my way out of infertility. You are doing the right thing choosing surrogacy. It is a beautiful process. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure. Ukraine has some of the best fertility clinics. I recommend you also look them up. They helped me a lot during my difficult times and I am sure they will help you too. I wish you all the best on your journey. I hope everything works out. Best wishes.
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ellenheller 35 Posts Thursday June 7, 2018Registration date June 29, 2018 Last seen - Jun 7, 2018 at 06:08 AM
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Hi there it’s very hard to experience in life. When a person diagnosed with infertility. I was in the same boat like you. When I came to know about my infertility it breaks me. My in-laws didn’t support me. They planned to force their son to marry again. He won’t do that. He supported me and we visited a clinic in Uk. They recommended us surrogacy. though it was a tough decision. I decided to go for it. It was less expensive there. The surrogate mother was such a nice person.during the pregnancy time period we became friends. It was such a wonderful experience of my life.congratulation on succeeding this tough time.
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pheobe412 178 Posts Monday January 22, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Jun 10, 2018 at 01:37 AM
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Yes, it would be great for you. I don't think you should be worried about anything. Just take good care of yourself. I know it's going to be great for you. Just take care of yourself. The surrogacy will be helpful for your condition. Go for it.
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nur_atikson 88 Posts Friday March 23, 2018Registration date August 18, 2018 Last seen - Jun 11, 2018 at 08:23 AM
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I know it's such a harsh and painful experience in life. Infertility is really hard to face. Dear, we are in the same boat. Whenever I think about my infertility, it breaks me. I never thought about being an infertile lady. No one, even my family did not support me. They used to discourage me and say odd about me. However, my DH kept on supporting me. My DH convinced me to go for surrogacy treatment. So, we went to a recommended clinic in Europe for the treatment. It was a very tough decision for us as our married life was dependent on it. So, we preferred to take the risk instead of giving up. Surrogacy treatment was a bit expensive but clinic guaranteed the child. They provided us a sound surrogate. She was very kind and nice to us. It was such a wonderful experience and I spent the best time of my life with her. However, congratulations to you for getting success this time!
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