Friend infertile suggestions needed

claudiopeters 88 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 09:56 AM - Latest reply:  amelia
- Jun 18, 2018 at 10:37 AM
Hello everyone. Hope you're all well. I want to discuss a problem my friend is going through. She's been TTC for 2 years. The problem is that she's 39 years old. She has always wanted a baby. It's only been 3 years since she found her soulmate. They got married 2 years ago and they have been TTC ever since. They haven't found any luck so far. They've had their tests done and so far it's been all clear. The swimmers are in fine form. There's no problem with my friend either. What would you all suggest them? They're really worried, any kind of help would be appreciated. Thank you.
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prerona25 15 Posts Thursday November 2, 2017Registration date March 23, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 12:54 PM
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Hi, It is sad to hear that in spite of wanting a baby desperately the couple is unable to get one.A good infertility doctor will be able o guide you with the help of a thorough test and may be those diagnosis you will be able to find a solution. Nowadays having a baby in spite of complication is not a big factor. Medical science improved a lot and am sure some way will come out for you to become a mother. All the best.
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Nelly_J1 16 Posts Tuesday March 13, 2018Registration date August 18, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 01:36 PM
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Your friend is 39, while the most fertile age is from 20-35 years old. 39 isn't out of the fertile range either but things start to go down after a certain time. Maybe the quality of the sperm or her eggs might not be good. We can't tell for sure, anyway. Many people go through unexplained infertility. While they have been trying for 2 years, they should also look for other options. 2 years is not a very long time, but having a backup plan is important. It looks like your friend is really afraid that their TTC journey is getting longer. I can feel her pain because I was on the same ship until last year. Last year, we had a baby through surrogacy. Does your friend consider any assisted reproduction methods? Or is she certain she wants a natural pregnancy? I hope she conceives soon, but if she doesn't, then tell her not to wait too long. She can still go for IVF or surrogacy. She isn't too old to conceive yet, but menopause will get closer from this age onwards. (
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alisa123 89 Posts Monday February 19, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Mar 23, 2018 at 03:14 PM
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Hey there! I hope you're doing fine. Well, after listening to your friend's story, I would say that maybe her age is the cause of her infertility. Although I think they should keep trying. Couples try for years and then conceive. But I also think that wasting time will just cause them more depression. Why don't they consider IVF? It's a trending method. I hope they conceive soon. I wish them luck!
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Alessia.Violet 137 Posts Sunday January 21, 2018Registration date October 13, 2018 Last seen - Mar 25, 2018 at 03:29 PM
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Hey, there I hope you are doing fine. Well. I think she should visit a specialist and see if they can help. After doing some tests at least they will try to help in determining the main problem. If not then that means that she is suffering from unexplained infertility. However, tell her now to lose hope. Assisted conceptions is still an option she has. She should opt for IVF or surrogacy. Both these treatments are doing really well. As A lot of women are now able to conceive through these methods. I myself have been on this journey for a very long time. However, recently have visited the clinic abroad. I have opted for the surrogacy process instead. As the process guarantees that you will have a baby. I really want to get pregnant at this time. So I hope your friend too is able to be a mother soon best of luck.
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nur_atikson 88 Posts Friday March 23, 2018Registration date August 18, 2018 Last seen - Mar 26, 2018 at 12:17 PM
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As I think, instead of having normal medical tests, they should opt to go to the infertility specialist. Also, her age is about 40. Women at this age generally face infertility. The reason behind it is old eggs. With the passage of time, women eggs tend to lose their fertility. So, if infertility expert gives a clean chit to them, then it’s okay but if the problem remains at its place, then the only option left is surrogacy.
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NatashaLiam 98 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date August 22, 2018 Last seen - Mar 27, 2018 at 05:26 AM
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Tell your friend to not lose hope.
I have also complications while getting pregnant.I also conceived for three times and every time resulted in miscarriage.So i gave up of this and thinking of going for surrogacy. You should also tell your friend to try to conceive for few more time than if this has no outcome than go for surrogacy option. Surrogacy is the best option for the ladies like us who can't have a baby off their own.
Surrogacy is also getting very common.
Ask your friend to try to conceive and also do some research about surrogacy. Ask her to contact some clinics regarding surrogacy and ask her to gather some data information about surrogacy too. If this procedure satisfies her questions than she should definitely go for surrogacy.
I'm also going for surrogacy as u don't have any other option left of having a baby..
I already persuaded my husband to go for this method and he is ready too.
we also have contacted a few clinics regarding surrogacy and still looking out for good clinics also.
there are many clinics today providing best surrogacy services to its clients.
Ask your friend to contact some clinics and make up her mind.
Wish your friend very good luck about her future plans.
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HanRIchie 45 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Mar 27, 2018 at 07:28 AM
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Hi there! This is a weird situation. I think your friend should get some professional help. A few opinions from different doctors would be good. I would recommend she look into IVF or surrogacy. They're both good options. I can vouch for the latter! Good luck with everything!
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SashaMarcus 96 Posts Tuesday January 30, 2018Registration date August 19, 2018 Last seen - Updated by SashaMarcus on 27/03/18 at 10:03 AM
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Hi Claudia!!! Well, yes! There are cases like that...There are many times that infertility cases are unexplained. So, yeah! I think you should suggest them to have any assisted procedure like IUI, IVF or surrogacy. Even my cousin had a successful surrogacy procedure last year at a center in Ukraine. Many people have changed and welcome the privilege of having a child in their lives through these assisted procedures. I think you should suggest them...Rest is up to them! I hope they really get better chances in their lives. Anyhow! Stay blessed. xx
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stacyben 88 Posts Tuesday March 20, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Mar 27, 2018 at 10:50 AM
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Hey, I am sorry for such condition of your friend. Sometimes a woman cannot conceive a baby. It may be due to she is facing infertility. Sometimes the uterus is not in a condition to conceive a baby. I am also a woman who struggled infertility. I was not able to conceive the baby. My doctors didn't know the reason that why I am not able to conceive. I had other options like IVF, Surrogacy and adoption. IVF is a bit risky and I was not able to conceive unnaturally to so I didn't even consider it. I was not in favor of adoption because I wanted my own baby. I chose surrogacy on my gynaecologist suggestion. I found a clinic that was affordable and reliable. The clinic provides healthy surrogates that are able to give birth to healthy babies. So we went for it and we were happy that we are going to be parents soon. It was my last hope. I was blessed with a baby girl. I was so happy that I am finally able to enjoy motherhood. I hope your friend would be a mother soon.
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claudiopeters 88 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Mar 27, 2018 at 11:44 AM
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Thank you, everyone! You all are angels. This has been a great help. She thanks you all as well. Felt amazing to get this much support. I always knew I could count on you all. Much love.
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mistygray 130 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date October 14, 2018 Last seen - Mar 27, 2018 at 12:25 PM
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Hey, Claudia. Your friend must be going through such a hard time. Her problem is quite confusing though. Some couple can take time in conceiving but two years seems like a long time. But your friend's tests came out positive which makes the situation a little complicated. I think she should see a doctor and take some fertility medicines and try again. These medicines work for a lot of people. Her doctor might suggest her to take these for a while and try to conceive for six more months. If this doesn't work, I'd suggest her IVF. IVF is being done in Europe at a very affordable price. She might be facing some problem with fertilization. In IVF, the fertilization takes place in a dish outside the body. The embryos developed are introduced into the uterus for attachment. The rest of the process is natural. I hope your friend's uterus is healthy enough to carry a child. She should consider it. Good luck to your friend.
claudiopeters 88 Posts Sunday March 18, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Mar 29, 2018 at 10:45 AM
Hi Misty. Hope you're doing well. Thank you so much for replying. This has been a very helpful reply. Would you care to elaborate a bit? What kind of medicines would be suitable? She has an appointment next week. However, it would be great if I could get an idea of what kind of medicines other people have used in similar situations. Also, thank you for explaining the concept of IVF. What are your views on surrogacy? Why do you think that IVF is a better option than surrogacy? I'm really sorry for all these questions, but my friend is really curious. I hope you don't mind answering them. Looking forward to hearing from you again. Thank you, once again!
mistygray 130 Posts Friday February 16, 2018Registration date October 14, 2018 Last seen - Apr 11, 2018 at 04:56 PM
Hey. It is totally fine. I would love to help your friend here. They could be any fertility medicines that promote ovulation or fertilization. One shouldn't self-medicate themselves though. These should be prescribed by a doctor. Moving on to your other questions, I think surrogacy is a great process. I had my own son through surrogacy a couple of years ago. In my opinion, surrogacy and IVF are equally important. The person's condition decides which process would be suitable for her. IVF would have been useless for me as I cannot carry a child myself. If I had conceived through IVF there are very good chances of that pregnancy ending up in a miscarriage. This is why I for surrogacy in Ukraine. I really hope this helped you. Good luck to your friend.
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MaryJones998 29 Posts Monday March 12, 2018Registration date August 19, 2018 Last seen - Mar 27, 2018 at 01:13 PM
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Hey there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing well. I am really sorry to hear about your friend's problem. I know how hard it must be for them. I know because I have been through it. It breaks you. It's very stressing. However, I am glad that you are such a good friend. Everyone needs such a good friend. I think they should keep trying. However, they should consider other options as well. Surrogacy and IVF are great options. I hope it works out for them. I wish them good luck. Hoping to hear more from you soon. Take care.
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Nicolebill123 29 Posts Monday March 5, 2018Registration date August 23, 2018 Last seen - Mar 27, 2018 at 03:53 PM
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hi dear. I feel sorry for your friend. I would suggest them to be strong. sometimes there are delays. it does not mean that she will not have a baby ever.To her satisfaction, she can go to an infertility center. Instead, they can wait. I wish them all the luck.
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Alana90 82 Posts Monday March 26, 2018Registration date July 30, 2018 Last seen - Mar 28, 2018 at 02:21 PM
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Hey!
There is some sort of cases where there are no abnormalities found. They seem to be completely fine but are unable to conceive. Sometimes this is actually called unexplained infertility.
In which there are no reasons seems to be found whether in test or in any other sort.
I would suggest before moving towards any decision. They should have their fertility test done.
They should go with certain medications or injections that doctor might suggest them.
Once they are done with their all infertility test including scanning and blood test. The doctor might suggest them techniques that would be good for them.
Suggest your friend get themselves a good fertility doctor. And start your treatment as soon as possible.
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jesi123456789 4 Posts Friday April 6, 2018Registration date April 11, 2018 Last seen - Apr 11, 2018 at 10:49 AM
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Hi, Claudiopeters Hope you are in good health. Am really sad to know about your friend's condition.
I think age is a factor here but you should support her. Tell her that she is not the only one, there are other Women too who are facing this issue.
She doesn't need to lose hope. You should motivate her and tell her that there are other options too like Adoption, IVF or surrogacy. These treatments are helping out many women by bringing colors in their colorless lives.
A little hope can make difference so give her hope that it is not the end. Surrogacy is not less than a blessing of science. I have seen many couples who get successful results from these treatments. It is also getting very common nowadays which is really great. I wish more people take advantage of this treatment. There are many great clinics out there who are doing absolutely amazing work in this field. Go and visit them with her. I wish you good luck. Everything is going to alright soon. Cheers.
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Nelly_J1 16 Posts Tuesday March 13, 2018Registration date August 18, 2018 Last seen - Apr 11, 2018 at 01:09 PM
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Well, some couples do have babies later than others. 2 years is a long time, but it's normal. I think they should give it a few more months. If still nothing happens, then seek assisted conception. Is your friend open to surrogacy or IVF? These are very popular nowadays. I had surrogacy, too.
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Hannahdrake 63 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date August 29, 2018 Last seen - Apr 11, 2018 at 02:15 PM
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I think it is too early to worry. Maybe their health is not good. They should change their lifestyle. Since there is no other problem this can be the reason. Tell them to change the diet. Do some easy exercise. These things might help.
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tandy789 37 Posts Wednesday March 21, 2018Registration date July 19, 2018 Last seen - Apr 12, 2018 at 12:53 AM
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Hey, ask your friend not to be worried. And don't lose hope. One of my friend got pregnant at the age of 42. It was like a miracle for her. That God was so kind that he give her good news at this age. So ask your friend to trust on God. If all reports are clear, then don't worry. May be miracle also happen for your friend too.
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BellaJones998 52 Posts Friday April 6, 2018Registration date July 10, 2018 Last seen - Apr 12, 2018 at 02:52 PM
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Hey there. How are you doing? I hope things are going well. I hope things are good for your friends too. I am really sorry to hear about them. You seem to care a lot about them. It's really nice to see. However, the problem may be with the age. Did their doctor say anything? If not I would suggest they keep TTC. I would suggest they do research on other options like IVF or surrogacy. See whats best for them. I wish them good luck. Take care. Hoping to hear something positive soon.
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nur_atikson 88 Posts Friday March 23, 2018Registration date August 18, 2018 Last seen - Apr 14, 2018 at 03:21 AM
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Hello, there I just hope you are doing well. Well, I think she should make a visit to some expert. They will take some tests and will suggest you some better treatment. If not then it means that she is experiencing unexplained infertility. All you can do is to give her some hope to get up and fight. Tell her about the alternatives. She can go for either IVF or surrogacy. Both of the treatments are working very well. A lot of people are experiencing and taking advantage of it. I also had the same journey to fulfill my wish. We traveled to a very well-known center located abroad. I have opted the surrogacy procedure. Concerned clinic guaranteed me about surrogate and the surrogated child. At last, My fantasy came true. So I will say that your friend too can be a mother soon good luck.
emily001 73 Posts Wednesday April 11, 2018Registration date August 27, 2018 Last seen - Apr 14, 2018 at 12:44 PM
Hello, I am sad for such state of your companion. Here and there a lady can't imagine a child. It might be because of she is confronting fruitlessness. Here and there the uterus isn't in a condition to consider an infant. I am likewise a lady who battled infertility. I was not ready to imagine the infant. My specialists didn't know the reason that why I am not ready to consider. I had different choices like IVF, Surrogacy and appropriation. IVF is somewhat unsafe and I was not ready to imagine unnaturally to so I didn't significantly think about it. I picked surrogacy on my gynaecologist recommendation. I found a centre that was reasonable and dependable. The facility gives sound surrogates that can bring forth solid infants. So we pulled out all the stops and we were cheerful that we will be guardians soon. It was my last expectation. I was honoured with an infant young lady. I was happy to the point that I am at last ready to appreciate parenthood. I trust your companion would be a mother soon.
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