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- Mar 29, 2019 at 12:25 AM
Hi everybody! I hope all of you are in good health. Being infertile is very hard both emotionally and physically. I feel like people should support each other in such troubled times. I am starting this thread to educate people on the options or treatments they can opt for if they are facing some sort of infertility. I am also infertile and to get through my infertility I resorted to surrogacy from Ukraine but it was not the first treatment I took. Before going for surrogacy I had 2 failed IVF and a failed IUI. Now all three of these can be used against infertility but which would you choose and why? For me, I would recommend going for surrogacy from Ukraine since Ukraine has some of the best fertility clinics and also because surrogacy is a sure shot. I would love to see what you guys have to say. Lets share
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Hey. Although, IVF and IUI are incredible methods yet they didn't work for me. I had uterine polyps which made me go through Hysteroscopy. That's why I Couldn't conceive. I tried to Conceive for 4 years but all in vain. I and my Husband wanted babies badly. Then, we searched for alternatives. One of my friends suggested me to go for Surrogacy. It went successful and I have a child now. I am happy to the point that I chose this method for me. Today I am a blessed mother. I let it all out to a center in Europe. I trust this would help you a lot.
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yes, I agree. IUI and IVF are amazing procedures. But they are not so successful. I have faced infertility for 10 years. I wanted to be a mother badly. I wasted 10 years in ttc. But I was so unlucky. I wanted a baby so I was recommended IVF. I was fine with it. I went for it. It failed in the first cycle. Later I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic provided me with a healthy surrogate. I am a mother now. I am happy that I chose it.
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I think i should also share my experience about surrogacy for someone seeking for it.
I was infertile due to cancer and i was unable to have a baby.
Later we found about surrogacy.We moved from Japan to Europe for surrogacy.
With the help of internet in Europe we came to know about a good clinic there.
We than moved to Ukraine.We finally went through surrogacy.Soon we will have to beautiful daughters via Surrogacy.
Surrogacy is very good you people should also research about it i guess.
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Hey, Olivia thank you for starting this educational post. I am sorry to hear about your failed cycles. However, eventually surrogacy did work for you and I think that is great. Usually, the first step for people on infertility journey is medication. If medication can help them then it is great. After medication IUI along with the medication is the second step. This all comes under naturally trying, almost. IVF is the bigger step! It has proven to be quite successful for a lot of couples. For IVF what matters the most is a good clinic. The clinic should have a high success rate. This ensures that the doctor is a professional and an expert in his field. IVF if alone doesn't work then people do opt for IVF with DE. This mostly works for people as well. The last resort is surrogacy which has about 70% chance of success.
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Hello there. How are you? I hope you are well. For IVF what matters the most is a good clinic. The clinic should have a high success rate. This ensures that the doctor is a professional and an expert in his field. IVF if alone doesn't work then people do opt for IVF with DE. This mostly works for people as well. Surrogacy is proven to be more successful. I wish it goes well for everyone. Take care. Lots of love.
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Hey, there. I think the choice depends on your infertility. And, of course, the choice of the clinic. If you go to the one you mentioned in Ukraine, then you're in safe hands. They'll guide you, perfectly. Good luck to you! You're making a good decision. I hope it works out!
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Well, what happened to you is not good. I am with you in this matter. Still, there is nothing we can do except waiting for a right opportunity. All we have to do is grab it and never let it go. It would be fine. There is no need to worry about. Please, don't worry. You'll surely find your help. Just wait.
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Yes, I agree. You're right about surrogacy being a sure shot. However, to each it's own. There are various people who would rather try out IVF and IUI. With IVF, the success rates vary. While it may take some several cycles to conceive, for some it might not ever happen. This is where the aspect of a good clinic comes in. The procedure suited best for one depends on the kind of fertility one is plagued with. This can be easily figured out by the doctor. Which is why one must opt for the best of the doctors prior to deciding on a procedure.
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Hey Olivia! Hope you are doing well. I feel so sorry for what you had gone through. It is very hard to face infertility. Surrogacy is indeed a great blessing. I am also an infertile person. My infertility reason was hysterectomy owing to cancer spread. Doctors told me that I cannot able to conceive. Then I came to know about surrogacy. I convinced my husband to go for surrogacy. Finally, we decided to go for surrogacy as it was our last option. We went to Europe because surrogacy banned in our country. Here I found a reputable clinic after making five months research struggle. I have been provided with great facilities. They arranged a surrogate for me and took a great care of her. Now our surrogate is going to give a birth twin baby dolls soon. Well, thanks for sharing your views here. God bless you.
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This is a very useful thread that you started, Olivia. A lot of people here will seek help from this. Well, I believe that all the above mentioned assisted conception methods are very helpful. It depends on the infertility situation of the person in order to choose the best-suited method for herself. Like my cousin has PCOS, so an IVF treatment is best for her to get pregnant from. But, my sister had cancer so she couldn't bear a baby in her womb which is why she opted for a surrogacy process. Surrogacy is trending because it is the last hope of the intended parents which proves to be a success.
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Well, Olivia! You're really so helpful to share it. Yes? I can understand it. I know! Stay strong! I'm also undergoing my process abroad later this month. So, yes! You're right about centers in Ukraine, really are hot spots nowadays. Still, best regards! xx
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Hello, Olivia. Why don't you give IUIs another shot? I would not move on so quickly if I were you. There's still hope for you, hun. IVF and IUI take a bit of time to work in some cases. You should persist with them. Good luck to you! I hope it happens in the next attempt.
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I am sorry to read this. I can understand how difficult this all must be for you. However, it's good that you're looking into various options. I believe opting for surrogacy is a great decision. I know so many couples who have been able to fight through infertility due to it. Just make sure to visit a clinic that is experienced in the process. This is because a lot of legal work is required as well. Good luck to you.
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I chose 3 different solutions to get rid of this infertility. 2 didn't work out for me. I was infertile. I was infertile due to hysterectomy cancer. But we have decided to have a baby one day. We decided on surrogacy. So we went for surrogacy. We had our twin daughters from surrogacy. Surrogacy made my life and family.
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