Regretting my Decision

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Hello, How are you? Hope you are doing well against infertility. I am also an infertile. I tried to contact *** clinic related to their surrogacy treatment. i emailed them several times and asked about the procedure and privacy details but they didn't reply any of my email. I also tried to contact them via phone but failed. I didn't expect such kind of behavior from a reputed clinic. Never gonna contact them again. I have wasted my time and now i am regretting my decision.
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This is obviously awful. How can one behave in this way? I have emailed Adinos Clinic a few days back. My sister needed a few suggestions about herself. She miscarried her baby twice. Now, we want to know what option should be suitable for her. Will she be able to conceive? Sadly, the clinic never replied us. They should have understood that patients truly trust them when they seek their help. I am so frustrated at their poor communication. I was impressed with their attitude at first. I observed it on different forums. But, sadly, it was the worst experience with me. All of you should be careful now. It is a matter of one's life. No one has the right to play with it.
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Right.If the clinics turn off their face then where will the infertile go. This is actually sad. We relly upon the clinics only for suggestions and advice and treatment. Fake clinics started popping up in the late 60s and really took off in the 80s and 90s after a federal law prohibited blocking abortion clinic entrances.
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Hi dear. I am sorry about your bad experience. But not every one of them is same. You might have had a wrong selection. I myself have a surrogate child. The procedure was very smooth for me. I went for surrogacy in Europe. Surrogacy is restricted in my country. So we need to go there. I had my best time there. They were extremely useful. Every single lawful prerequisite was satisfied. They found a surrogate. I have a baby now. I am very happy with my child. I hope you will find a good clinic. Wish you luck.
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Hi Fareen1, congratulations on the success of your parenthood. Yes all clinics are not like that, it was your bad luck that you selected a bad clinic, but you did not do it purposely right. So do not repeat the mistake that you have done. How is your baby boy doing?
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Always try to contact renowned clinics. I was from Japan i was also looking for a clinic myself. We moved to Europe to find a good clinic. In Europe we roamed for 4 months in search of good clinics but didn't found one. Than we searched for clinics from internet. On internet there were many clinics mentioned on different forums. We traced a good clinic from Ukraine. The clinic is very good. I contacted them over the web via emails. They responded us and we have some discussions. Than i told them about my issue of infertility. I was infertile due to hysterectomy cancer. The clinic gave us a date for meeting and we moved to Ukraine. After some documentation and paperwork we started our surrogacy journey. The clinic provided a very good surrogate. Now our surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. Soon we will have our babies. Good luck everyone.
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You are very right. I have also heard this from a number of people. They please people in the start. Then when people start to trust them, they break it. They stop contacting them. They don't respond to emails. They don't even pick their calls. This is so disgusting. How can they do this? Don't they understand the situation of the patients? People contact them with so much hope. But they return this kind of attitude in the end. This is very intolerable. They should be taugh a lesson. They should know how wrong they are doing with the people. Their careless behaviour has caused problems to so many people. Something should be done about this.
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Maybe they realised the case isn't within their scope of expertise and went ahead to ignore her queries! That's totally disgusting and discouraging as well. I totally agree these irresponsible clinics only cause more dismay among women already suffering too many troubles of their own due to infertility. What it takes to be sensible and empathetic and simply reply... I'm pretty sure they have a whole client handling section to readdress the matter suitably. I don't see a way to avoid these clinics other than post about it to create general awareness against them. What else do you propose to be done? yeah I bet they don't see a client more than just conversion... not as someone going through a terribly difficult situation, mental agony and insanity. That's totally intolerable... especially when we're the one who deserves a little peace of mind over the solution and not just time wasting.
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Hi there Sidny. I am really sorry that your time was wasted. I know they are everywhere on every forum. However, I tried to consult with them. Got no reply. When I did get a reply they were being very unprofessional. They started asking for personal details straight away. Time is really precious. They don't seem to know that. I wish you good luck for the future.
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Hey dear! how are you? Don't lose hope after going for just one clinic. There are many other clinics as well. Many good clinics in the world offer infertility issues. You should go to some other clinic. Stay strong and be positive. I wish you all the best.
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Hello darling. How are you? I hope you are well. There are so many other clinics. Try to contact them. But this time, be sure that you choose the right clinic. Search for it on the internet. Ask experienced people. Be satisfied properly. Then you should contact or visit them. Don't trust everyone blindly. I feel so sorry for you. Take care of yourself. Take care.
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"Yes. You are right. These two Clinics are not good. Everyone who is facing Infertility issues Should avoid these clinics. I had uterine polyps which made me go through Hysteroscopy. That's why I Couldn't conceive. I tried to Conceive for 4 years but all in vain. I and my Husband wanted babies badly. Then, we searched for alternatives. One of my friends suggested me to go for Surrogacy. We went to Europe for the clinic. There we found a reliable and affordable clinic. Today, I am a blessed mother.
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ugh, I just can't get enough of these posts. I am glad we have a community like this. Add me to the same club ladies. I wanted to get IVF done. Well just to check my eligibility to be honest. finally decided to send an email. oh boy oh boy, did I regret it. Anyways I hope you find a better place. I mean to think in a time like this. I mean the age we live in. There would be better customer service .Especially after the prices that these places charge. Anyways take good care of yourself. If you find a better place do let us all know. Much love and power to you guys.
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Hi! Their behavior is really shocking. They should not do it. But you do not need to lose hope. There are many best clinics in Ukraine for it. I am also an infertile lady. I also went for the surrogacy there. I am now happy to announce that we got a surrogate son. It was a good experience. My all best wishes with you. Stay happy and be blessed.
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Someone posted about a similar problem about some other clinic not replying to her queries after a while. I guess with a lot of women having to have assisted fertility end up with the wrong clinic. Honestly, I myself don't know the sorting process yet and trying to gather info to be able to have a sort of checklist, just in case I need to search for a clinic too next year. About your regret, I'd say you did lose some time over the initiative and communication with them but it's better you got the flaws even before getting on into the process with them. This definitely reflects an irresponsible attitude towards clients... and imagine that in a clinical aspect. I'm even scared to think about the outcomes if you'd have stick to them n things gone amiss. You've already wasted time, the process will now inevitably get delayed...so, you better be on with searching the right clinic for yourself. All the best. Do update me about the clinic if you're satisfied and find success with them. I might just need one at some point later... or that what I dread and want to stay prepared.
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Sydney white I am very happy to see you again. Oh, it’s very bad experience. I am very disappointed in this clinic to hear your story. but dear I think there are also some good clinics in Ukraine also. So, don’t be disappointed and visit these clinics. I am damn sure that you will be succeeded one day. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
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I am so sorry to hear about this. But I have seen this myself because my cousin used to keep on contacting but she never got any response from them. SCAM
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I am sorry to hear about your experience. I can feel your pain. But don't worry dear, that is not the end. There are still so many clinics which are reliable. A bad experience with that clinic doesn't mean that you will have the same experience with every other clinic. I would suggest you forget about the past and move on. If you are still looking for a clinic then I have a good news for you. There is a clinic in Ukraine which is well known for fertility treatments. Their team is going to organize an event soon. I think you should go to attend the event. I hope this event will clear out all your confusions and you will be satisfied to visit them. Wishing you good luck.
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Hi dear, hope you are doing well. Yes, many clinics are playing fool, out of the patient just for money. So do not get or fall into false traps of fake clinics. If the clinic does not respond you back you can either visit the office or simply switch to some other clinic. Such behaviour is not accepted by anyone.
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I am good, I hope so, are you. I am so sorry to hear about your bad experience. I believe it is extremely important to research about the clinic first before you get in contact with them. I took a lot of my time researching a clinic before I visited them. I even asked the clinic a lot of questions just to make sure I was visiting the right place. It is because of the research that things are going pretty well. Now all my friends and family ask me about where I am going because they can see significant improvement. I hope things work out for us.
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Hi dear, hope you are doing well. I can understand the anxiety. I have heard many negative responses regarding this clinic. You may have many other options. Do a good research regarding the clinics and then take a step ahead. Do not fall on false traps, please. If you feel like visiting the clinic, you may. Go and give a look at how the clinic works.
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Hi Sidney! I hope you are fine now. I am so sorry for what they have done to you. I have had a similar experience with that clinic. I emailed them for months and got no response. I m glad that they didn't reply to me. Because I have found a better clinic for myself now. Stay blessed.
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I am really sorry to read about your loss. I hope everything goes well for you in the future. I would suggest that you do your research well this time. Make sure the clinic you visit has a high success rate. They should have expereinced doctors as well. Other than this also make sure that the reviews about the clinic are positive. These things do matter and shouldn't be ignored. Good luck to you.
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