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My name is Mirren. I originate from UK. After I got married, I had to move to Ukraine with my husband. We thought we’d keep us on a child break until the time is good. Well last year, we thought it is time for a baby. We started conceiving late summers. Turns out because of the anomalous behavior of my menstruation cycle, i had lose all eggs at a very early stage. This news was the worst nightmare of my life. We thought we’d for treatments and things would work out. So we did all what the doctors told us to do at this Ukrainian clinic ***. But after months of treatments and medications, we were told that we should consider adopting. Because we would never be able to conceive ,the reports said.Well we know we can adopt! That’s not why we came to you. We were hopeful to get a baby. I’m dead inside.
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hi, hope so doing great. So sorry to know about your loss. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. My best wishes are with you. All the very best. My prayers are with you. Lots of love.
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Hello Mirren. How are you? I'm hoping you're okay. I'm really gutted to hear about this. This is a really awful time. Don't worry, though. Things will get better, for sure. I'm here for you. You can talk to me about any kind of problem. You have my full support. I know things are a bit hard, at the moment. I can relate. I went through something similar with the same clinic. Good luck to you. I hope you find a great clinic!
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Hey Maha! I hope that you are doing well now dear! I am sure that you are going through some really tough times, dear! I hope that you recover from this phase soon. Just to let you know that you are not the only one to go through situations like these. You have done so well to get through the last couple of years hope it helps you to know that my daughter also has endometriosis had an ectopic pregnancy needed a large chocolate cyst to be removed before she could start IVF but she is now 16 weeks pregnant so don't lose all hope it's such a tough journey but the rewards are huge good luck hope good times ahead for you
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I’m so sorry to hear about you. It’s sick how only women are mocked for these issues. Infertility isn’t something anyone wants to deal with. It’s just something we can’t help but have to deal with. It can be so damn difficult. I agree with the women here. Male fertility issues are ignored. And that also ignored due to the ego. What does it have to do with that? It’s simple biology. Anyone can have medical conditions. What’s to be ashamed of? In fact, the more open these things are, the easier it is to seek help. I am an infertile woman. I dealt with family pressure too. However, my husband always supported me. We got surrogacy. Now we are such a happy family.
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Hey there, Mirren! I'm sorry to read about your upsetting experience with this clinic. I know the pain and guilt of being an infertile woman, you're not alone in this. I'm happy to see that you didn't let infertility take over your life. Assisted conceptions are really trending nowadays and making lives easier. But I don't get that which treatment were you going for? Was it IVF or surrogacy? If we talk about surrogacy, in this process you can have a baby of someone else's egg too. I don't understand why this clinic has such poor services? This is unbelievable and surely very unprofessional. Anyway, you learn from your past experiences, dear. Please don't let your dreams die because of a bad experience. Hope is the key to success. Look for other good clinic and I'm sure you'll find one. All the very best!
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Sorry to hear your story. You really faced a hard time. But know you do need to lose hope. I am also an infertile lady. We tried TTC for 5 years without any gain. My husband was going to leave me. Then with the help of friends and the forums like this, I came to know about the surrogacy. It was just like a hope for me. We also went to Ukraine for it. And we were blessed with a baby girl. Now I am happy with my completed family. I also suggest you think about this. My all best wishes with you
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Hi Mirren! I hope you are better now. I am sorry about your situation. I know infertility is a very heavy burden to bear. I have also been through it. Don’t lose hope. You can do what I did. I went for surrogacy. I think you should go for it to. Everyone deserves to be a parent and Ukraine has some of the best fertility clinic. Check them out. Keep fighting it. All the best to you.
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Hi there, hope you are doing awesome. I'm so sad to hear about you. Fruitlessness isn't something anybody needs to manage. It's simply something we can't resist the urge to need to manage in our life. Life is like ZIGZAG. Some time many things happens in your life about which you never think. Your story for being failure at many stages is too much painful for every lady who have emotions to fell it. One thing i want to addition is that selection of good clinic matters. Ukraine is the place where everyone get his hope. A baby for the future life. A life with peace. Love for you. :)
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Feeling bad after I read your story. Infertility is a common problem. Majorities of women face this problem. Every woman wants to become a mother. But sometimes it's not possible. I'm a heart patient. I cannot conceive. Then we move to Europe. There are many good clinics in Europe that deal with infertility. Surrogacy and IVF is the best solution for infertility. I also selected the option of surrogacy. Now I'm a mother of a baby boy. I think you go with surrogacy. Surrogacy has more positive chance than IVF. All the very best. My prayers are with you. Lots of love.
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Hi Mirren! hope you are doing well at your end. Your story melts my heart. Getting a treatment for conceiving is worse. To get it from the clinic you cannot rely upon is even worst. Sorry about your losses. I had also conceiving issues. I was TTC for 2 years. I contacted the same clinic you got treatment from but all in vain. They declared me infertile. I was hopeless and dead inside. My husband really scares me. He just found a clinic in northern Europe. The doctors there give me hope that I can be a mother. They suggest me IVF treatment. IVF is another option one can opt. I am really happy to say that I am the mother of a baby boy. I suggest you not to lose hope. Go for treatment. May the odds be in your favor. Good luck.
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Hi Mirren. Hope you are doing fine. It is alright. It is totally okay to through what you are. You are not alone in this. A lot of women out there face infertility in today's world. It happens to the best of us. Don't worry. I am sure you must have fought hard enough. I will advise to not give up. Do whatever is required until you think you have done enough. other than that, there are so many different options you could go for. Including the ones you mentioned. Make your decisions. stick to them. Hope you get what you desire. and Hope you get the support you need. Prayers.
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Hey, there are! I hope that you are doing better now! I feel really bad that you have to go through all o the jut in the effort of getting the most beautiful thing in life. I am sure that you re also facing real tough times dear! I have been facing similar issues for 7 years. I have been trying to conceive ever since I got marries and just relying on this clinic that I discovered in Europe. I want you to know that there are many alternatives to get pregnant and you should just close your hopes and simply keep trying dear!
Wish you all the luck and I hope the best for you.
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Hi, Hope you are doing well. very sorry for you. Infertility is a curse now a day. I am also infertile. Luckily my husband also supported me. we also consult the doctor.he also suggested me to go for surrogacy. I found surrogacy is the best option. we choose Ukraine as the best option. now I am blessed. good luck to her as well. Good Decision.
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Hi, I hope you are best in your health. I am glad to see you post. Infertility is really painful for women also men. Many people are stressed and disappointed due to infertility. Some forget to enjoy life. I am also infertile. I searched about a clinic in Europe. The doctor suggested me surrogacy as infertility treatment after treatment I have 2 babies. Surrogacy is hope for intended parent we also respect of surrogate mother.
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Hello there Mirren! How are you feeling now sweetie? I hope that you are gradually overcoming the trauma of getting to know the issues with fertility. You need not worry about Mirren. Talk it out with your husband and make sure that you guys are both on the same page. All you need for now is to think positive and straight about yourself and your relationship. There is nothing wrong and you are not the only one to have been diagnosed with something like this dear! there are many women around the globe facing issues like yours. Look for a good clinic and make sure that you get the right treatment for infertility.
Wish you all the very best dear!
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Hello, there. This is a horrendous story. I'm so sad you needed to experience this. You don't merit this. It more likely than not been so difficult for you. Hi, your story for fruitlessness is amazing for me and furthermore for all. Well, expectation you are doing magnificently. Keeping trust in a long time until the point that you have achieved is the great one. Your story for fruitlessness is giving us an approach to pick the best one. I'll propose the European center for the best place to do surrogacy. All the best and good fortunes Hello, there. This is a horrendous story. I'm so sad you needed to experience this. You don't merit this. It more likely than not been so difficult for you. Hi, your story for fruitlessness is amazing for me and furthermore for all. Well, expectation you are doing magnificently. Keeping trust in a long time until the point that you have achieved is the great one. Your story for fruitlessness is giving us an approach to pick the best one. I'll propose the European center for the best place to do surrogacy. All the best and good fortunes
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Hey Mirren. I am really sorry to hear about your sufferings. I can feel the pain you have been feeling all this time. It is natural to be sad and I would want you to empty your emotions by crying. Do not stop yourself. I have been suffering from infertility myself and recently I got my uterus removed. I had lost all hopes too. But my cousin suggested me to go for surrogacy. It is better than adoption because you will have your own blood child. I would recommend you to consult more doctors. Technology has advanced and there are solutions to many problems, if not all. Good luck!
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Hey. Sorry for what you have faced. You are right, they are scammers. I have heard a lot about their irresponsible behaviour towards clients. I would love to share my story. I hope it would be helpful to you. I had the uterine polyps disease. I went for treatment too but nothing could help. IVF and IUI were really a disaster for me. They failed due to poor egg quality I decided to go for the unnatural process. I thought about IVF but it was impossible in my condition to be successful. I made to go for surrogacy. I went for it to a clinic in Europe. Now I have a baby. I made my mind for this because I heard a lot of success stories of the clinic. Go there without much delay. Wish you best of luck.
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Hey, I am so sorry to read this. I think you should definitely take a second opinion on this. A friend of mine suffers from the poor ovarian reserve. The doctors did say that she won't be able to consider naturally. They also said that the chances were low with IVF and IUI. However, she was told that she should give IVF with DE or surrogacy a thought. She went forward with IVF with DE and was able to get pregnant. Maybe your clinic isn't equipped for this process. The clinic I am visiting is different and is located in the same country. However, they are very positive about everything. I have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility. Nothing is working for us. So when I contacted them I told them this and how hopeless I was. The manager was so nice and positive and said things will work. We have opted for the guarantee program with them and I am really hoping for the best now.