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- Jan 10, 2019 at 02:24 PM
Hello, I am new to this forum. I had a hysterectomy and i have totally given up. But I recently came to know about surrogacy procedure. I am really hopeful. I want to know details about this procedure. My husband's family is not in favor of this procedure. I need some convincing to do. Kindly share your positive experiences. Also, tell me about states in which surrogacy is legal in?
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Hey I have been researching a lot on this process. It is interesting to find information on it. It is legal in countries like USA and Ukraine. You have to be well researched yourself in order to convince your husband. There are so many success stories on the internet that you should read. It is a highly successful procedure. So many infertile couples are finally able to have children through this. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hope you all are in good health. I'm going through almost the same situation. I had two abortions before and now I'm having trouble in conceiving. My doctor is suggesting me to go for IVF. But I'm so confused right now. I don't know what to do. I'm also here to seek help about these processes. Cause I have no idea about the details and all. Plus someone told they are expensive. So if anyone of you had a child through IVF or surrogacy. Please help me out too. That would be so great. I'd highly appreciate your support. Much Love to you all.
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Hey Lidya! Hope so you will be fine. I just read your post. I really felt so sad to know about your condition. But don't worry, such ups and downs are the part of life. By the way, surrogacy is really a great thing. One of my friends also adopted surrogacy to have a baby in her life. She has a heart problem that's why she is unable to conceive naturally. In Europe, it is legal. Clinics regarding surrogacy are best there. I also heard many more great reviews about it. So go for it blindly. I hope it will help you fulfill your wish.
All my sympathies are with you
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Hello there. How are you? I hope you are well. At the stage of infertility, you must have to go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is the best process for the pregnancy. Many of the women got pregnant. Well, this infertility could be due to any type of health problem. So at this stage, we should not be worried. Well, I’ll suggest to all the women and viewer of my comment to follow the surrogacy process if they want a safe pregnancy. Try to convince your husband by all of this.Take care. Lots of love.
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hey lidya2!!! Hope so you are enjoying with your beloved ones. It’s so sad to read your story. Sometimes life becomes so miserable. We can’t think to live more. We become fade up. But surrogacy has removed this situation most of. UK and America and Ukraine are the countries that I know. They offer process and procedures with clarification. California is one more country. Women mostly talk about Ukraine. The success rate of IVF is high in Ukraine. But think before choosing a clinic. Because many people are spamming. They grab money by playing tricks to others.
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Welcome you on this forum. I feel so sad to hear about infertility. But good to know that you are looking forward to surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing in disguise for those people who cannot able to birth a child naturally. I am an infertile person and I had faced infertility for more than five years. I was also lost all my hope of being a mother. Then I came to know about surrogacy. I opted for and went to Ukraine. Here I found a reputable clinic where I had been provided with great services. Finally, the day came which I have been waited for so long. I had blessed with a baby boy. So I suggest you that you should go for it. Ukraine is the best place and surrogacy is legal here. Best wishes
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hey, how are you hope you are fine and doing good. we welcome you here. oh my gosh, you have suffered a lot. it feels hard why you have given up? the biggest weapon against this curse is your hope. if you lose your hope it means you have lost your soul. you are a dead body, a body doing everything without a soul.I'm glad that you have taken a perfect decision. surrogacy will be perfect for you. try to convince them if they not. then leave them. there are becoming blockage between you and your happy future. tell them, that it is not unethical. it is used in all the world.it is not immoral to go for surrogacy. the baby will be genetically mine. the surrogate just has to give birth. I hope you will convince them. my best wishes are with you. remember hope is everything. good luck in the future.
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Sorry to hear about your loses and failures.I also had many failures few years ago.I was trying to conceive from last 10 years but had no luck.Than i went for IUI but i failed at IUI.Then i went for IVF and had few cycles of IVF but failed in IVF too.I was heart broken at my failures like you.But than i came to know about surrogacy.Than i started looking for surrogacy and found a clinic. Now i will move to Ukraine for the clinic.And soon i will have a baby.
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Hey, I hope you are well. I myself have opted for this procedure. The thing that attracted me the most was that the baby would still biologically be mine. In order to convince myself and my husband, we visited the clinic. The clinic I am visiting now were extremely kind towards me as they invited us for the first free consultation meeting. In this meeting, we met with the doctors looked around and were able to learn a lot. So I would suggest you do the same. If you need any help do let me know.
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Hi. How are you? I am sad to know about this. Indeed you are going for the best option. Try to convince your family. You need their support. Try to tell every detail about surrogacy. Tell them success stories of infertile couples. They will understand. They will support you. Good wishes to you.
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I’m glad to see your post. Sorry, you could not conceive after birth control. I’m happy because you are searching for the problem from the forum. Some people stick to that position. Don’t worry I’m also infertile now I have 3 babies. I want to share my experience of face infertility that maybe help you to solve your problem. I got married at the age of 23. I was pregnant after 12 weeks but one day which I cannot forget a bike hit me in the road accident and I face miscarriage. My bones were broken. After the treatment give me a bad news that I’m infertile that news shocked to me because I could not my own baby in my life. My friend told me about a clinic in Europe. I went there and concerned with a doctor. After the all checkup by seeing the reporting doctor recommended me surrogacy as the infertility treatment. He told me about the success rate of surrogacy. After surrogacy treatment, I have 3 babies. You should visit clinic and concern with your doctor. My best wishes to you. See you soon later.
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Best wishes.
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Hey, How's your health? I hope everything is great. I am sorry you had to go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a great choice. I am glad that you hear of others. At such times most of the people only care about themselves. You seem to be a very strong woman. A brave person is the one who fights and then helps others to fight also. Now when your war is over it is your turn to help others. It matters a great deal when you share your personal experiences with others. Don’t lose hope. just hope for the best. I have had surrogacy too once. I am glad that I made that choice. I wish you good luck. I Hope everything goes as you want. Hope to hear more from you soon.
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Hello there! I am sorry to hear your story. It is really a hard thing to face. But you do not need to lose courage. It is a good thing that you are thinking about the surrogacy. It is the best way to complete family. The success rate of the surrogacy is enough to convince anyone. The success rate of the surrogacy is too much high. I do not know more about the states. But I was going to Ukraine for my surrogacy. I had blessed with a baby boy. There are many good clinics for the surrogacy. I also advise you to go there. Do not waste any more time. Just go and complete your family. It is the safest process. My all best wishes to you. Stay blessed.
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Hi. How are you? I am sad to know about your infertility. It is hard to face. Indeed surrogacy is a blessing. It is the last hope for many infertile couples. Your child will have your own genes. Try to tell them surrogacy is the only option for you. They will understand. Good luck
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Hello. Hope you are fine. Sorry to hear about your problem. Well, don't lose hope. You can try surrogacy. Many clinics in Europe offer surrogacy. It is legal there. I agree it is still controversial. You can convince your husband. There are many positive success stories as well. Share them with your husband. I hope he agrees. Don't make infertility your weakness. You need to make your struggle your strength. I wish you all the best!
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I hope I will be able to help you with my experience. Surrogacy so far has been going amazing for me. The thing with the process is that you have to do a little bit of research. When I decided to opt for it I made sure the clinic was operating legally. I also looked at the success rate and the doctors year of experience. Once everything seemed good I then decided to get in touch with the clinic. The clinic I am visiting, the best thing about them is that there policies and rules and regulations make the process reliable and valid. I will suggest that you should research them and visit their blog to research more about them.
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Hey, I am sorry to know about your disorder. I hope things get better for you. I am glad that you are taking into consideration the alternatives. Surrogacy process is indeed a very successful procedure. It has worked for so many people I know. The good thing about it is that you and your husband will be genetically connected to the baby. This I believe is very important for many couples. Most people are hesitant(just like your family) mainly because of the false news associated with it. If you want your surrogacy process to go well one thing that matters a lot is the clinic. Make sure the clinic you visit is operating legally. Secondly, do ask people for their reviews. All my friends visited a clinic abroad. If you want I can provide you with their information as well. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hey, if you want to opt for a process you shouldnt care about what others are saying. However, if you still want to justify to them then here are a few things to know. Firstly, there are a lot of myths regarding the process that are not correct. Although I am not in the middle of a surrogacy procedure I still learned them when I contacted BTC. It is because they offer the treatment and are quite well known for it. I was so impressed with the way that they carried out the process. For surrogacy, it is really important to visit the right doctor. The more experienced the better it is. If the clinic is operating legally then you are all good as well. These are the things I even researched before I opted for them. I believe one of the reasons that things are going well for me is that I researched thoroughly. Don't lose hope. If you need any more information or help do let me know. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hey. I don't think it matters really. I'd go for it if I had my husband on board. The family would obviously accept the baby once it is born. But if it is that important to you, you can wait a little longer and try to convince them. I hope they understand. Good luck!
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