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- Jun 2, 2019 at 07:47 PM
Hello everyone, I hope you all are fine. I wanted to share my pains with you. I am 41 and I had my miscarriage last year. A year has passed but still, I have not come out of all this. Everything has changed. Nothing is just like before. My family is changed and I can't handle this. I was so happy when I received the news of my pregnancy. But I didn't know that this joy would be only for some time. Life is so colorless for me. I don't know how to overcome all this. I am so alone. I feel that I will always stay in this depression. I need help. Please guide me. Tell me to visit which clinic. Your suggestions will be admired.
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Hey there. How are you doing? I hope you're fine. I am so sorry for your loss. Dealing through infertility is indeed exhausting. But don't lose your heart just yet. Visit some fertility clinics. They'll find a way for you.
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Yes, right. Miscarriage is the worst thing that can ever happen. Having babies is so much fun you know. So many excitements so many plannings, then suddenly one-day things ruin. Yes, you should visit good clinics for good suggestions. You cannot let it all go like that. See what the doctor has to say. A surrogacy or adoption will be good I guess, safest of all.
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Hey, there my dear! I hope that you are feeling better than earlier! I wish I could help you with the issues that you are currently facing but I am sorry that I am of least help. But I can support you through the procedure of your painful experiences. First of all, you need to know that there is a way out these issues. You need to give up! Kep your head up, dear. All you need is a good doctor and clinic to guide you appropriately. Moreover, I do understand that going through a misc
I hope to hear some really good news from you soon.
Good luck dear an take care of yourself!
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Hi there, I can feel your pain and loss! :( Infertility just gets cruel sometimes... and MC is a new kind of hell. I can't console you enough over the loss, really; but I'd like to mention that in today's time 41 is just a number. Have you been trying natural TTC or assisted one, so far? There are clinics that specialise in IVF for older couples and the success rate are quite convincing as well, even for women over 45. So, don't lose hope just yet.If there's any success with your plans that lie ahead... you've got to move on. You'll possibly never be able to undo the scar of the MC but dwelling in the past helps no one.... neither will it help you with your plans of having a family or extending your family. I'm not sure what changes in family you mean... but maybe they are all bogged down by the loss, plus your state of perturbation over it...creating a harsh confusing ambience around. I hope you find the strength to fight it.
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I am so sorry for you. Miscarriages are never easy. I have faced infertility for so long. It took 10 years. I also went for IVF but I failed to conceive. I was so worried. but then I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. I went there and now I have a baby.
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Hey stacy. I can't believe it took you 10 years. It must've been so hard for you. I'm really glad you have a baby now. Europeans really are the best at what they do. Take care.
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It is so sad. I am so sorry for all this. This is so sad. I wish that you will become a mother soon. My friend was infertile. Her husband was also infertile. But they went for surrogacy. I think you should also go for it too. I hope for the best. I hope everything will be fine.
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Hey! It is an extraordinary misfortune. It is a bad luck for the lady particularly. I know it would be so hard for you. I know the feeling of losing the infant. I faced infertility due to the uterine polyps disease. It made me so hurtful. I picked surrogacy without delaying much time. I went to the best Clinic in Europe. I hope this is sufficient to comfort you. Stay blessed.
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I'm so sorry to read about your miscarriage. There isn't any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. Please don't punish yourself, dear. I know it's an upsetting situation but you have to stay strong. You got pregnant once and you can get pregnant again too. Don't lose hope, please. There's a perfect time for everything. Have patience, All the best!
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Hey Ivana. How are you doing? I know it's a hard thing to bear. I can't imagine what you must be going through. Life is painful. It's hard and cruel sometimes. But what you need to do is look to the future. Forget the past. You must visit another country for surrogacy. Preferably in Europe. They will heal your pain. They can offer you motherhood. You gotta take that chance and go for it. Good luck for the future. Take care of yourself. Stay strong.
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Ivana! I am so sorry for your loss. I can easily feel the pain that you are bearing now. I think that you should go to your doctor for a regular checkup. make sure that your uterus has been completely empty. I have heard that if your baby dies in your womb after 20 weeks then there is no need to empty your uterus. I am saying that because I also have to face all these complications in my life. yeah, you should go for a complete medication don’t be depressed now. And don’t blame yourself its already have written in your fate. now it's a time to prove your self a brave lady. nothing better could be happened due to your grief. try to start up a new life. if you have to face any more complications then just contact us. we are always here to help you guys.
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Hello, I hope you are feeling better now. I feel so bad for you. You have really been through a lot. I have never had a miscarriage. I hope I never do. I just can't imagine losing my baby like that. You are such a strong person. I'm sure good things will happen to you. You just need to keep yourself together and do something about it. Whatever clinic you choose, make sure to do a good research before that. You don't want to make any mistakes here. I had my own son through surrogacy about a year ago. It was my first time as well. I feel like I can help you out now. So you can hit me up if you are confused about anything. I will be happy to help.
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You should now get out of all this situation. Living with this condition is not an option for you. You should be strong and try again for a few more times. It always doesn't end up in miscarriage. Or if you know you can't have a baby naturally now. Then go for some other technique to have a baby. I am also infertile. I didn't miscarry but I am infertile and the reason behind this is unknown. So now I am going for surrogacy to have a baby. You should also try to find a solution to your problem before its too late.
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know coping with MC is not an easy thing. Just stay strong and positive. Do not lose hope and keep your mind busy. The honest advice that I can give you regarding the clinic, is that, from my own personal experience. I hope it makes things easier for you. The clinic I am visiting has been helping so many couples in fighting through infertility. I first searched about the clinic and then got in touch with them. This way I knew about them and it was easy for me to communicate. After I submitted my documents we were called for the first visit to be medically examined. The doctors then studied our reports and helped us in deciding the treatment. After this one thing after another happened. I was really satisfied because there was no hindrance in between. They carried out everything in a very well manner. If you need any assistance do let me know I am always willing to help.
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Hi,this is really heartbreaking. But whatever has happened you cant get that back right? so why feel sad for the past. Look forward for a new chance for a new day and hope. I would suggest you to visit a consultant gynecologist and ask for various other options or discuss the reasons for your miscarriage. Ask the doctor when again can you conceive. Move forward for a better future my friend. Don't sit back with sad thoughts. You are brave. Be strong and be motivated always. Keep posting. Good luck.
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I am extremely sorry to hear about your MC. This must have been extremely heartbreaking for you. However, you have to move forward I know it's not easy but that's the only way. I would suggest that you start your TTC journey again. It has been a year and this is the perfectly right timing to start. I would suggest you look into a good clinic and then visit them. I myself did this. So previously the clinic I was visiting didnt really help us much. Therefore, we took a break and now we are back on tract. I took a lot of time in finding myself a clinic. I checked the reviews on the clinic. I checked how experienced the doctors were. After this I even checked the packages and programs the clinic offered. Once, I was satisfied it is only afterwards that I decided to visit them. However, it is because of the research that things are going well.
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Hi dear, how are you doing now? I can understand your condition. One of my family members had the same condition. It was very difficult for us to cope up with the situation. Please give yourself time to heal everything. Yes, you need time. Give your family and your husband time so that they can cope up the situation. Along with you even they had a heartbreak.
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I am really sorry for your loss. I can understand how hard this all must be for you. However, stay strong and positive. I am sure things will get better for you. Just dont lose hope. Visit a good RE and ask them for help. Also, visit a therapist for your mental peace. Sending baby dust your way.
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