Desperately want to give birth

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- Mar 23, 2019 at 07:06 AM
Hello,
I am 29 years old and my husband is 10 years older than me. We have been married for 11 months and I'm not pregnant. We have sexual intercourse almost everyday. I desperately want a baby. What should I do? thanks.
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Don't be discouraged. See your GP for some basic tests and if necessary they can refer you to a fertility specialist for further investigation and treatment.
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If you have been trying for that long then visit a doctor. This is something you shouldn't be avoiding. I made this mistake during my journey. I didn't visit a doctor for more than 2 years. Due to this bad decision, my TTC journey has been so long. Therefore, make sure you dont make this same mistake. Apart from this also make sure that the doctor you visit is experienced. He should know what he is doing. This is again something not to be ignored. Often times we dont realize how little things have huge impact on our journey. I am saying this from own personal experience. If you need any more help let me know. Eat healthy food! Make sure to stay hydrated as well. Sending baby dust your way.
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11 months is a long time. You definitely should be seeking help. I don't think age is a problem. 29 is perfectly fine. 39 for your husband isn't late, either. However, this isn't normal. You should definitely get it checked. It would make more sense to get the tests done. You can be on the safe side. I want to wish you the best of luck. A professional opinion goes a long way, in such scenarios. Sending you lots of baby dust and love. You can do this! Keep me updated on how it goes. If you need any help, just let me know.
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Hi there! I hope you are feeling better now. Keep trying for one more month and if it still doesn't work then go for assisted conception. Treatments like IVF, IUI, and Surrogacy are quite successful now. I m also opting for surrogacy to become a mother. So don't worry even if it doesn't work naturally you can go for alternatives. But to make it work you need to find a good clinic. It will take some time but it can really have a huge impact on your treatment. Just keep trying and stay strong. Patience is the key to success in this journey. I hope everything is fine with you. Good luck. Stay blessed! Bye!
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If it has been that long then I believe your first step should be to get your tests done. Make sure to visit a good doctor for the process. They should be experience. It is very important to make sure that the clinic is operating at a high success rate. After that visit them. I am saying this from my own experience. So far everything is going really well. I am hoping for the best.
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Maybe you are facing some fertility issues here. You can get some tests done. This might help you guys figure out what the problem is. You can then talk to your doctor about it. See what your options are. Maybe some meds might help you conceive. You should really consider doing this. Hope this was helpful.
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11 months is too much! You might be having some issues. It's not something to worry about. I would suggest visiting your doctor. He'll carry out some tests for you. That will give you a much better idea of what's up! Best of luck to you. It will happen, don't worry!
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It would make sense to get some tests done. Both of you, you and your partner. It could be some issue. Hopefully, nothing serious for you! Best of luck to both of you. It will happen, so keep the faith. You can get through this difficult time, honey!
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Yes, I agree with her. She's right, you shouldn't be too hard on yourself. It could be some problem with your partner. It makes a lot of sense. He is ten years older than you! It would be the ideal decision to get tested. Hopefully, it's nothing too much! You'll conceive, keep trying, okay?
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