Trying for a baby

- - Latest reply:  mistygray - Sep 26, 2018 at 03:23 PM
Hello,
i am 39 and I have children but we have been trying for a baby for the last 2 years with no luck. What next?
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A women's fertility reduces with age. It would be advisable to see your GP for some blood tests to check your hormone profile.
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Hey Layla, how are you? I hope you are doing well. I suggest you confer with a good fertility specialist. They will help pinpoint the reason for your infertility. Once that is done, they'll guide you to pick the treatment best suited for you. So, right now, my advice would be to select a good clinic and go through your options. You can then decide what to go for. I have you in my prayers. God bless.
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I actually felt this is my story. I am 38 btw. I have a daughter too. The doctors said I won't be able to sustain another pregnancy. So now I have no other option than assisted conception. I really want to have another child. I am in touch with a clinic. Will be trying surrogacy there. You can check out too.
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Hello there, how are you doing? Sorry to hear about your issue. A woman's fertility reduces with age. I suggest you to consult a good doctor. He/she will guide you about the reason of your infertility. In case of infertility look for other options. Surrogacy and IVF are other alternatives of it. with time, these infertility treatments are getting popular. Indeed, both treatments are blessings. You have to decide what kind of treatment you want to try. Both treatments have their own benefits. But i prefer surrogacy over IVF. As IVF is a complicated process. Also the chances of success are rare. Please check the reviews and background of the clinic before starting the treatment. I hope you will make the right decision. My prayers are with you. Good luck
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Honey, you can choose surrogacy. The gestational surrogacy will work for you. Try to find a well-known clinic. My sister went to one. She has twins. I am so happy for her. Although her age is 45.
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Hey, there! I hope you're alright. Look, there are a lot of assisted conception methods. Just make sure you choose the right clinic. They'll guide you in the right way. Good luck on your journey. I hope it's short and successful. You can do this!
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Hey I hope you are doing well. Well, honest advice to you would be to visit a doctor. Two years is a very long time period. Fertility specialist would do your tests and let you know the main problem area. This way you would at least what the problem. After this, they will also prescribe you medicines. I am sure there is nothing to worry about. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hey, honey. I hope you're alright. Yeah, well, age isn't exactly on your side. I'd suggest IVF, if you want to conceive yourself. I'd obviously need more information. But, I think it could work. Otherwise, surrogacy is a pretty decent alternative. It would be a great decision. Good luck to you. I hope this helps.
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HI, hope so fine. I am so sorry to know about your condition.I can understand that it is a really tough situation for you to handle. But dear try to handle it calmly. All will be fine soon. I think so you should visit some fertility specialist. They will let you know the reasons behind all this. They will also guide you that what step you should take and which treatment would be beneficial for you. I will recommend visiting some good clinic. And don't take the stress, better things are coming sweetheart. Take care, Stay strong love.
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Hey there Dear. I hope its all great. I am really sorry that you have to wait so much. However, have you ever visited a clinic? Did any treatments? People will be able to help you if they know everything. If not then you should not wait to visit a specialist. Good luck and Lots of love for you.
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Hello dear, I hope you are doing good. Female fertility is dependent on the age but 39 years has still some hope to it. You should consult a doctor who will run out the possible reasons for you not conceiving and perform some blood tests to assess the hormone levels. Also, he will be able to suggest a good diet plan and cycle monitoring if everything is well. I don't know if you have visited a doctor and have had any treatments. Plus also the history of your other children's birth might be responsible. So, in this case, we need a lot more info before we could suggest you something solid. History of your DH might also be responsible for you not conceiving. So the only wise thing you could do right now is to consult a top-notch GP and get yourself tested. Good luck.
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Hi honey. Im sorry that you're TTC. It's tough for women. Don't worry about it. Take care of your health. Make sure your DH is supportive. These times require positivity. And ask your doctor for better options.
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Hi, I am so sorry. I know you must be so worried, but don't worry. Thre is nothing to be worried about. Go for the checkup from a gynaecologist. Maybe you are facing infertility. I have seen many women who face secondary infertility. It takes a lot out of a woman. We all care about you. So it is best that you should go for the treatment on time. Many women face infertility with age. I am sorry but true that you should care about it. I hope that it would help you out. My best wishes are with you. Hope that you will be a mother soon. I believe you will have a baby soon if you take the right decision.
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Hey dear. I hope you get the happiness of babies soon. Try again. And consult a good he would better tell you what to do. And hope for good. Ask your doctor if there is an issue in you. If he tells you about any problem. Then try to go for alternatives. There are very good methods exist now. Through which, everyone can enjoy motherhood. Hope you get whatever you wish for. Stay blessed. Have fun.
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Hey. I am so sorry for what you are going through. TTC is a common problem now a days. It takes a lot out of women. Not only women but Men are also the victim of this pathetic situation. Why don't you consult a fertility specialist for it? There might be some disease causing trouble in conceiving. I think you should take a treatment for it. If nothing could help there is another option of Alternatives like IUI, Ivf and Surrogacy. When people are unable to conceive or having some infertility issue, they choose such alternatives. I hope things go right in your way. I wish you become a mother soon. Just don't lose hope and try again. Best of luck.
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I am sorry for you. You should take care about your health. I hope that it would help you out. I believe that you will be a mother soon. Infertility is the hardest thing. I have analyzed that you are facing infertility. As you are trying for 2 years I think you should go for a diagnosis. It will help you to find the reason behind infertility. It takes a lot out of a woman. I think that after that treatments would work for you. Don't worry about anything. NEver lose hope, it is not the end of life. My best wishes are with you. I hope that you will not face any other problem in your life. Take care of your self and think about the things you want to go for.
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Hello sorry to hear that. You should take your health on priority. This will help a lot and always keep this in mind. Infertility is hard to think. You will have a baby soon I hope. Go for treatment and consult the best doctor. He will examine you. He will tell you a reason for infertility. It is a depressing stage of life. I think after treatment you will be fine. Don't worry about anything. Life has ups and downs. Nothing will end her. I will pray for you. You will not face any problem. Be confident in your self. I hope that you will find the best for yourself.
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hello dear. I'm so sorry you are going through this. you should really go to adoctor. there you are many reasons due to which you are unable to ocncieve. I will pray for you though. please don't get stressed. all will be well. there are many alternate ways too. for the people who can't conceive naturally. it is surrogacy and IVF. I hope you get successful soon. sending you baby dust. keep me updated. here to help you in any way I can.
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Hi there. I am so sorry to read this. I feel for you. But do not be sad, and do not lose hope. Stay strong. I am sure you will find a way out of this. Try looking for other options to TTC, such as IVF or surrogacy. You should do your research and consult your doctors about this. But i am just giving a suggestion, that if you can then do think about it. Maybe it will work out for you.
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Hello dear, well now you have to go for some treatment. It's necessary before that you must generate your essential report. It includes some of your fertility tests etc. This report identifies the problem. After that, you can contact the best fertility clinic in your town. You have to search that as well. Once you find the clinic. You can send your initial reports to them. They'll check your case and recommend the best options for you. You can ask for all the packages and offers given by that clinic. Once you are aware of the fact. You can make your decision whether you have to proceed with that clinic or you have some good offer somewhere else. It's all going to be in a queue, and soon you'll overcome your problem.
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